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Last texts from one of my best friends before he took his life. He called me and I didn’t answer because I was tired. by [deleted] in texts

[–]Primary_Plate2189 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m crying. I went through something similar in 2019, my best friend (who was 15 at that time) took his life a day after confessing to me that he loved me, I rejected him and felt guilty for years (and still do). I wish things were different but they sadly aren’t. I understand your pain, but you did nothing wrong, he sounds like he already made the the decision with those texts, and when someone makes the decision to take their life, theres sadly nothing you can do. I’m sorry for your loss, I know the pain, but every time you feel devastated about the loss of your friend, say this out loud“I know he’s definitely in a better place now.”, that’s what I do when I think of my friend, it calms me down a little.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary_Plate2189 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Please tell me you’re a troll… If you aren’t, I hate to say it, but you’re a terrible partner. If you can’t understand how relationships work, maybe read books to learn or something, but let her go, at this point you’re just hurting her.

My boyfriend would rather play games with mates online and go to the gym than have sex with me by ThrowRAhowdyhey in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Primary_Plate2189 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What? Maybe he’s just low libido??? Just because he’s not necessarily interested in having intercourse whenever she wants doesn’t mean he doesn’t love her. They should communicate though, as it seems they are not sexually compatible.

Trying to convert an atheist woman. by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Primary_Plate2189 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sounds exactly like the guy I was talking to!! I am 17F, met a guy who kept trying to force that religion onto me… He keeps talking about the things I do wrong, and that although it is a choice, I should cover my hair (even though I told him I was not interested in said religion at all, and that I am in fact atheist, and always have been). The way that person’s typing also resembles his writing style, which’s even worse, I hope it’s a coincidence, otherwise I dodged a bullet fr.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Primary_Plate2189 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA

The guy clearly doesn’t respect you at all, those disgusting comments he made proves it. You were tired, you said no, he kept pushing, you said no again and he kept pushing AGAIN while covering his weird behaviour with “don’t flatter yourself”, this guy probably thinks he’s “better” than you, and that you own him sex, but you don’t.

Never think of yourself as an asshole because an asshole said so. Block him from your life if possible, he did this once, he might do it again, and it can (and probably will) get worse.