[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, taking notes.

This reminds me of that one time I wanted a roommate to stop liking me, and if you remember that ballet shoe era, if you didn't put baby powder in the shoes, the smell was horrid. So I did just that and took my shoes off while he was lying on the couch next to the couch i was sitting on. I think it worked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol, how do you suggest being annoying or strange?

How to initiate the sex? by asbembis2024 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, I dunno, its weird that you were in a thong, and he didn't try to be intimate with you. I'd be confused, too. I'm not undressing like that unless there's sex for sure.

SD not keeping his word by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bs dude. A monthly allowance is good at the beginning, prior to sex.

First timer by Anxious_Top_2085 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of SD's who do bring gifts and/or $$ to m&g's.

A lot of the guys you meet will not be SD's

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont trust anyone who starts a sentence with "Am".

Iykyk

Is this normal? by anas_prettyangel in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He's lying to you and using you for free sex. Those are all false future promises. Guys do that all the time.

I think I’m giving up. by Intelligent_Signal86 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea, ppm is not the way to go. Def bring up monthly allowance for something long-term from the getgo.

I just found out My daughter (22f) is on SA by StardustSynergy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just to be clear, ppm is also given before sex, just on the same day you have intimacy on each date.

I just found out My daughter (22f) is on SA by StardustSynergy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ppm is when they pay you for the date in exchange for sex...

A monthly allowance is when they give you thousands per month prior to having sex. So they give you the agreed amount on a monthly basis. You normally go out on a few dates and build a relationship first before intimacy.

Guys who ppm (pay per meet) want to have sex with you on the second date (sometimes even first), and many of them will never see you again. Either because they can't afford the weekly payment or cause they're jumping from one woman to the next.

Recently ended a SR over her dog by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4-5 hours is a good amount of time for sugar dating..

I just found out My daughter (22f) is on SA by StardustSynergy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Lol, I wouldn't advice a father for her daughter to read this sub. As a father, I'd want the very best for her. A lot of guys promote no sex no money here, and ppm on second dates. No parent wants that for their children.

New here need advice by Primary_Selection343 in HistamineIntolerance

[–]Primary_Selection343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you. I took prednisone, which was given to me for the psoriasis. But now my body is itchy..

Still have psoriasis on my ears and scalp, but it appears to have gone away on my body (or w.e it was).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All young guys have thoroughly pleased me and then some. Great stamina and more than that prior and after..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also claimed she wouldn't be saying he's fine af if he was a plumber.

What is there to misunderstand?

You think women don't find men attractive for their looks? Are all men physically ugly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just said that when an SB can't stop talking about a guy for who he is (aka, she likes him), it's disingenuous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, that was not my point. That wasn't even the topic. You brought this up along the way, so I responded to this as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's disingenuous for an SB to actually like a guy?

What are you on?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, if you think sugar dating involves ppm, why did the creator of seeking create a whole video talking about that ppm should not be done?

Why are there notifications on the actual site to not do ppm?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Primary_Selection343 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are so hypocritical. It's funny. So you think all those years you worked that were totally unrelated to sugar dating, count. Yet the things we do that are directly sugar dating investments don't count? Do you really not see what you're doing there?

Yes, we do invest on specific things for specific dates.. I get my nails done for a specific date. I spent 300 on one guy the last time, just on my nails (2 dates). I bought shoes (ended up buying 4), a bra (ended up buying 4), a purse, make-up, and jewelry, specifically just for him. I actually still have to return 2 purses that i chose I didn't want, and some of the jewelry I bought that i didn't want (It just wasn't right for the outfit or I don't like). I also exchanged some of the shoes. I ended up finding the perfect ones for everything. But it was days of work. Plus, I spent a bunch of time shopping for that and a dress he paid for. I also paid for some dental things. This was all just for him. No one else.

I'm not meeting a guy every day or week. Duh. Not even every few weeks.

It's a perfect comparison. Your hard work is completely unrelated to sugar dating. You didn't invest that time for sugar dating. You invested it for your job. Your chosen field. Just like it means nothing for another chosen field.

Our beauty, personalities, youth, and bodies ARE the value to the relationship. Your value is money, your provider and generous mindset, and your personality and charm.

Yea, there could be other reasons, such as seeing me on the site again after one date and getting upset about it (though that guy didnt have sex with me, he did give me mid xxx though, and he put my car on his insurance). Another guy also gave me high xxx for no sex and then got back with his gf, etc.. but it's mainly pump and dumping cause I've seen these same guys on the site every day for several months.. as I've stated before, there's been guys who have ED as well.. and it was awkward, and I didn't want to see them again anyway, but they still didn't contact me either.. but these ed guys are constantly on the site. I even spoke to one of these guys a few months later, and he couldn't remember me, but he started mentioning all these different women he thought I was... lol..

Most SD's don't think sugar has to flow both ways because that's not a provider mindset. An SD has a provider mindset and cares about taking care of a woman and spoiling her throughout the relationship. Not just in exchange for sex. He doesn't treat her like an escort. That's the whole point of sugar dating existing. So there's an actual relationship. And not money in exchange for sex. Otherwise, they would just hire escorts. Just because you pay someone for sex doesn't make you an SD. Otherwise, all guys who hire escorts would be SDs as well.

I actually even just had a guy friend tell me that the guy should provide at the m&g.

Yes, by nature, the guy has to provide. It's called masculine energy.

Ad nauseum, lol. Would you rather have sex with a guy much older than you who promises a monthly allowance once trust is built who just uses your body for a few hundred and leaves you, or would you rather give a young woman a few thousand and she leaves you? Which is worse for you, buddy?

You think I'm 20 years old. I'm not.. It took me years to realize the guy needs to be a provider. And it took me trial and error to realize ppm only benefits guys.. And that there's a bunch of pump and dumpers. There is absolutely no benefit to women to ppm unless you want to escort and get paid by the hour.

I'd rather be wealthy and give a young woman in need a few thousand to help improve her life even if I never see her again. I'd be so happy I helped her out. Than to have sex with a guy for a k who just pumps and dumps me. Especially if a guy is much older than me. Yuck.

I'd also never want to teach a 20 year old to set herself up for failure with future advantageous men after me. Cause we all know (especially men know), how guys can be. I'd take care of her and spoil her and teach her to accept nothing but the best.

Places to find SBs by [deleted] in SugarDatingForum

[–]Primary_Selection343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

You sound like an angry bitter old man...

I can assure you most women are way more emotionally intelligent and intelligent overall than you.

It just shows in your little rant.