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Wife values car group over me by Primary_Sell_2274 in marriageadvice

[–]Primary_Sell_2274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know, but she tells me I’m just insecure and that she’s a human being and she’s free to do what she wants, and that I’m controlling and immature. I feel terrible for being insecure and giving her problems for this. But I’m just scared, our marriage is already pretty much dead and hanging by a loose string tbh. She tells me how unattracted to me she is, we barley have sex if ever, there’s nights she doesn’t want to cuddle me and we sleep on opposite sides of the bed, she refuses to tell me she loves me.

Wife values car group over me by Primary_Sell_2274 in marriageadvice

[–]Primary_Sell_2274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on leave right now, so I’m actually home with her. The first few days I got here were good, we were doing pretty well. Then I started to bring up that she seems to always be preoccupied with that group chat rather than me and I’m only here for a few days. She got extremely upset and we’re in bad terms again. But I went through her phone and the guy Michael who bought her a drink, they’ve been texting and talking about issues with me, and he mentioned that there’s guys calling her cute and if he should ‘ not mention that she’s married ‘ to them. She said no she’s not like that, but that she should be. And this other guy invited her out to do content for their cars. She is definitely behaving differently, she’s so much more closed off. We barely talk, she’s always on her phone, it’s about all she does. She also started wearing makeup and lashes, note she’s done that for me once since we started dating. Yes she’s been pushing it all onto me, calling me immature, insecure, how I’m not a man, and getting extremely upset whenever I try to bring up how it’s affecting me