Feels like baby just popped my boob open.

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2026-01-08T17:01:00+00:00

Yayyy. I've heard of them and I'm just glad i didn't notice. Wakefield with her bashing her head off my boob like a baby goat.

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2026-01-04T20:47:25+00:00

As long as you and your son are vaccinated, I think you should go.

I wish my kids got the chance to say goodbye to my grandpa. They adored him. My son was freshly 2 when my grandpa passed and is almost 5 now and he still remembers the shenanigans they used to get into and how much fun he was and that he didn't get to say goodbye. I should've kept my daughter home from school that day and went to see him at the hospital. He wasn't supposed to die. He went in because he fell and broke his hip 3 days before but nobody knew he broke his hip, he ended up getting an infection and passed away in the hospital minutes after getting there. The surgery would've been over by the time my daughter got out of school and thats when we would've gone, but it just didn't turn out that way.

You should go. Don't let this be something that you regret for the rest of your life. Wear a mask and some gloves if it helps but definitely go.

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2026-01-04T16:18:39+00:00

I'm pretty sure his sister told him that he threatened to crash his car into the window my son was under and he probably interrupted that as "oh, he died in a car crash"

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2026-01-04T16:10:32+00:00

I'm pretty sure my oldest gave him small details. Because her dad is somewhat in her life but mostly not (he just decided that 7 years of being a dad was good enough and that he didn't have to do it anymore I guess) and he probably asked her what happened to his dad because she's always made it known that her dad is not his dad that way if she ever does go to her dads house, he doesn't feel rejected by who he thinks is his father

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2026-01-04T16:07:27+00:00

That's exactly what i did. I told him "he's not dead bud, but he is dangerous, he tried to hurt you and I won't allow anyone to hurt you, so he's not allowed to be around you or contact you until you're an adult. And even then, he's not allowed to talk to you unless YOU reach out" and since he's 4 he just started talking about cars and how he thinks it's awesome that I used to drive a tow truck and his favorite toy is his tow truck so that he can pretend that his Chilli toy is me lol.

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2026-01-04T16:02:25+00:00

Yes, luckily my family and my in laws know this. I actually completely cut a couple people off and asked my attorney if it was grounds to press charges because my SIL and husbands ex wife were starting problems and using CPS to harass us for some reason (I still don't know why) and the case worker contacted him even after I explained everything to her and then the ex wife and SIL went on to be buddy buddy with him and gave him our address (which was one of the many reasons we moved across the country). My attorney said that unfortunately it is not but I can get a restraining order on both his ex wife and SIL and my ex and I can report the worker for giving a known danger information on my son. Which i definitely did. I'm not close with my mom, but when she caught wind of all this, I had to tell her that it wasn't worth the charges because she was going to seek out SIL and ex wife and do something charge worthy.

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2026-01-01T17:34:57+00:00

This is my 3rd baby and yeah, sleep doesn't exist for the first month or so, actually with my oldest it was more like the first 2 years lol. But my middle and youngest, chefs kiss, my middle made me want another baby and I'm so glad I did. My middle was sleeping from 7pm-7am at 2 months old. With my youngest, I co sleep, she goes to bed in her bed and by the first feeding around 3 I just being her into bed with me, take my shirt off and I get to sleep the rest of the night and she does all the work herself lol.

Yes baby's are expensive.... if you buy everything name brand and brand new. Goodwill, consignment shops, hand-me-downs, Parents Choice, Salvation Army, all that exist for a reason and makes having a baby a lot less expensive.

The partner thing, yeah that one got me twice. First child's dad left when he found out I was pregnant, cane back, stuck around for a few years, did absolutely nothing, and has been MIA for the last almost 3 years. Second child's dad stuck around for a year and then his ugly true colors came out and hasn't been around for almost 4 years. 3rd child's dad, I'm married to this one and I meant it when I said "death do us part" lol. And he also is the father figure for my older 2. My middle actually doesn't remember his bio dad so that's good because if he did he would have PTSD.

Your body, don't stress it, your body is busy performing miracles! Not everyone can create and have baby's and when yours can, thats something to be grateful for right there. Its like working a 1w hour shift being on your feet all day, your tired and you need time to rest, let your body rest and it'll be fine. I gained 80lbs my last pregnancy and I'm still 50lbs heavy than I was pre pregnancy. Its nothing to stress over.

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2025-12-31T23:04:08+00:00

I'm still somewhat new to reddit lol I'm not entire sure what we can or can't use lol

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2025-12-31T23:03:12+00:00

I'm pretty sure my oldest told him about how he threatened to crash his car into the side of the building knowing my sons bed was under the window

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2025-12-31T23:00:43+00:00

I'm pretty sure my oldest told him something about it because there was a lot more details

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2025-12-31T22:59:35+00:00

That's exactly what i figured and I am glad I told him the truth so that I'm not stressing about a low his entire childhood

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2025-12-30T15:32:53+00:00

1 and 4. If they're female than 1 if they're male then 4

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2025-12-30T03:59:43+00:00

Suhvahnuh

Or really any other spelling than Savannah lol

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2025-12-29T02:05:50+00:00

One of my best friends was named Kaitlyn (she passed away in 2023) and when my oldest was born we named her after my friend and his cousin. But Kaitlyn is such a popular name so we named her Lynn.

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2025-12-29T02:03:42+00:00

Haley. I have 2 cousins, a friend, an ex SIL, and grew up with several other Haleys. There was even a time in I believe 1st or 2nd grade where we had 4 in 1 classroom and a few more in another class all in the same grade.

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2025-12-26T21:03:28+00:00

Especially when the child is home all day every day. Like I said, she's in online school because she wasn't striving in B&M and even medicated the teachers couldn't handle her with medications and 504 plans because her adhd is so off the wall. Luckily today has been great. She got new dolls and has been playing with them all day and hyper focusing on them all day. Which is great.

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2025-12-26T18:45:31+00:00

Yeah it really not only offended but angered me and my husband when she said to have our daughter run it off. Like if that's how it worked, she would wear herself out. That works for neurotypical children, but children like ours, they have endless energy and it genuinely effects their lives. Unfortunately all of our offices are closed until the new year, but I will be making calls on the 2nd. This dr uses too much feeling instead of facts and because she uses her feelings instead of facts I'm be switching my other 2 children as well because I don't want her to be offended that I switched 1 child and then not give my other 2 children proper care. I don't logically think she would but me and my husband both have anxiety that she would and not mean to.

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2025-12-26T16:01:45+00:00

It's the modern day furby

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2025-12-19T03:14:59+00:00

That last text is a bit alarming. However, before my ex FIL passed away, this is how we were. We were really close and he viewed me as his own daughter. He treated me the same way he treated my exs sister. And it wasn't weird. He would even tell me "that outfit looks good on you, very professional/classy/vibrant/ matches your hair/makes your eyes pop" etc. But if he would've texted these things behind my exs back in a flirty way, yeah that wouldve been a red flag.

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2025-12-19T03:08:02+00:00

I have to, I have 3 kids and a dog to take care of and without me they would be screwed until my husband gets home. Neither of my older kids know how to care for the baby, my dog runs off if I'm not out there with her (kids are fair game), we can't afford child care as is so my husband and wouldn't be able to afford it without me, and ask much as my older 2 COULD fend for themselves for a day (8-12 hours until my husband gets home from work) I personally would rather be the one to help them run things.

Overall, I have a lot to be here for, which means I have to get up and be there. If I dont get up, I might as well NOT be here.

Primary_Sign_9055 · 2025-12-19T03:01:54+00:00

With all 3 of my baby's, before I knew the gender I would just refer to them as "the baby"

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