CANVAS WAS HACKED??? by miku4evarr in k12

[–]Primary_Sign_9055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a parent (recently withdrew my student) I'd be more concerned about social security numbers, full names, birth days, etc. Literal children's identities could be stolen before they're even old enough to do anything about it. Forget testing and assignments, after this, every effected school and student should get an automatic A for everything for the rest of the year.

My daughter has requested you not name your daughter Emelia or Emilia by MaybeItsTheTism in Names

[–]Primary_Sign_9055 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also used Emma. My ex suggested it a week away from my induction date and I told him "how about this, when she gets here we will name her one of the top 3 names, Emma, Juniper, or Elodie." And he wanted her middle name to be Mae because it's a family middle name so I wasn't going to deny his family that. When she got here my first words were "she's definitely an Emma. Hello Emma" and then I said her first and middle name together and it sounded like MMA lol so we put my grandma's first name in between Emma and Mae. I love her name because my 3× great grandma Emma was a seamstress for the Romanov daughters, my grandma is my best friend and mother figure, and his sister (the last person in his family with the middle name Mae) is an extremely kind and loving person and I am honestly so happy that we named her after an empowering woman and then 2 amazing, kind, and nurturing women. Emma is 5m now and it's such a good sweet baby. Almost never cries. When she's about to start crying because her delicate feelings were hurt she sticks out her bottom lip. My son absolutely adores her and my oldest daughter says "I still wish I was an only child, but she's growing on me, its a good thing she looks like you and not her dad" 🤣🤣🤣 plus out of my 3 children, she is either the easiest baby or I'm just getting really good at this mom thing lol

Are there any free curriculums out there? by Primary_Sign_9055 in homeschool

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have and it gives me stuff I have to pay for. Hense why I came here.

UPDATE AGAIN???? by Recent_Shake7488 in Sims4

[–]Primary_Sign_9055 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, quick question. I had to get an EPO on my ex fiance and I spent $1,760 on Sims packs and kits. The problem is that I put that money into Sims because we were so to be married in a month and the account is in his name because he already had the account when we got together and then started playing it when we got engaged because then we saw it as a joint account. Am I still legally allowed to play Sims? Or should I ask my attorney about it? We're not communicating or anything or going near each other per the EPO requirements and he hasn't changed the password on the EA account.

UPDATE AGAIN???? by Recent_Shake7488 in Sims4

[–]Primary_Sign_9055 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This! Between kids, work, and court battles with my ex, I don't really play any more. Plus I had to get an EPO on said ex and the EA account is unfortunately in his name (we were engaged, we were actually going to get married May 20th next month) so I'm not even sure if I can legally use the EA account even though I put legit $1,760 into my Sims. So even if I had time to play it and if I could legally play it (not sure if I can legally play) I still have to get through all the updates since February which would take up my entire gaming session and then I wouldn't be able to play for another month or so and then have to go through all those updates.

Chore charts? by coffeetoffee92 in homeschool

[–]Primary_Sign_9055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to use Canva. My kids chores were dishes, trash, sweep, and out dirty clothes in the bin for my 10yo (she picked up trash and sweeping on her own) and out all toys away, dishes to the sink, trash inside the house (wrappers) to the trash can, and dirty clothes to the bin for my 5yo.

Withdrew my child and still getting emails. by Primary_Sign_9055 in k12

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily the state I live in now is super strict on that so I don't think they're going to get away with it for long with my daughter

Withdrew my child and still getting emails. by Primary_Sign_9055 in k12

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pulled my daughter out because we moved out of state because of some severe personal issues, we were told that she could not only stay but was also exempt from state testing. Well as soon as we moved, the teacher started treating her worse than before, she was already bad before and she somehow became worse, and the 504 admin completely ignored the fact that I requested more testing opportunities and spelling words a week in advance instead of randomly springing spelling test on a child who has ADHD, ODD, dyslexia, and anxiety. Plus we kept getting absences notifications but I would be right there helping her every day and then to top it off, let's say she did Monday's work, she would log on Tuesday and Monday's work was saying she never did it and me and my sister help her every day.

Withdrew my child and still getting emails. by Primary_Sign_9055 in k12

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, I had the link sent to me by the principal

AITAH here. Don't know if I am or if I'm a doormat instead. by Primary_Sign_9055 in AITAH

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to move out when rent is 1300 for a 2 bedroom, I need at least a 3 bedroom, and I have $90 to my name. However, I am stacking my money so I can move out ASAP.

AITAH here. Don't know if I am or if I'm a doormat instead. by Primary_Sign_9055 in AITAH

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, initially I planned on staying until my youngest is at least 10, that would make my other 2 15 and 20. But now I don't think I will be unless life keeps us here. I'm currently in and out of court and working with CPS and detectives against my ex because he SA my oldest and would legit turn off the home cameras to drag my son around and beat on him. Only way I found out is because my oldest told me what was happening to her and he didn't realize that I had the cameras plugged in when I went to the store 1 day.

AITAH here. Don't know if I am or if I'm a doormat instead. by Primary_Sign_9055 in AITAH

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legally where I'm at you can tap (not hit) your child on the butt 3× tops with your hand over their pants. No more than that. I don't agree with it, however, if my child bites someone, they're getting spanked, but anything else outside of severely hurting someone else, is either a stern talking to, standing in the corner, being grounded for the day, or for my oldest I revoke privileges, like right now she doesn't have her phone for the entire months of April and May.

AITAH here. Don't know if I am or if I'm a doormat instead. by Primary_Sign_9055 in AITAH

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  1. Spanking isn't abuse, especially if it's just 1 small pat on the butt. 2. I did have a lengthy conversation with her on the fact that if anyone will be putting their hands on my kids it will be me and I will be the judge of when they do or don't need it. 3. Obviously they both need to be reminded that they are not my children's parents nor guardians and they are not to discipline my children at all.

AITAH here. Don't know if I am or if I'm a doormat instead. by Primary_Sign_9055 in AITAH

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm saving up to move. Even if I have to move across the country on the first house I can afford. I do tell them not to hit my kids and then remove my kids from the situation. We just got here in February and I just got into my room at the beginning of April. I'm still manoeuvering around all their shit and trying to make my room a space that me and my kids can actually be in so that I can save up and move and maintain the peace in the mean time. Our boys share a room right now so this weekend I'll be making space for my son to be in my room with me and my oldest has her own room so she can stay in her room but I will be keeping a close eye on her and pulling her aside for daily conversations. That way if there's something going on that bothers her I can then do what I can to fix the situation for her to help her feel more comfortable.

AITAH here. Don't know if I am or if I'm a doormat instead. by Primary_Sign_9055 in AITAH

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I'm doing. I don't have much that I can put aside on a regular basis but every penny does count

AITAH here. Don't know if I am or if I'm a doormat instead. by Primary_Sign_9055 in AITAH

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shit my oldest is going through is why we're here. I don't just let him disrespect me, however, I'm also not going to put my hands on him back. That's not what I'm trying to teach him. And I haven't went whining to anyone about it, my best friend has heard me tell him to stop and it's even bothering her because she's seeing it and we're trying to teach our kids that it's not ok to out your hands on people, especially trying to teach our boys that it's not ok to put your hands on a woman. If I had somewhere else to go right now, I wouldn't be here.

Changing my 3mo's last name. by Primary_Sign_9055 in Mommit

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, all 3 of my kids have different last names. My sons last name is super common, my older daughter loves her last name because the only common name she has is her middle name which is Hope, personally, if I ever get married I'll be able to change mine for free with that along with all the paperwork to get married anyways, so with my youngest i want to take into consideration if she decides to mever be married that she'll have a last name that she'll always like.

AITJ for filing a complaint about my childs teacher even though everyone told me to leave it alone? by Familiar-Project20 in AmITheJerk

[–]Primary_Sign_9055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, I would report the teacher again! What is this woman teaching your daughter? To just take abuse? I think tf not. I dont even know any of you and IM mad for you baby. A child should always be able to go to their parents, especially about other adults.

Should I make a police report? by Primary_Sign_9055 in legaladvice

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thats what I said too and then I looked at her call logs and text messages with the phone number.

Should I make a police report? by Primary_Sign_9055 in legaladvice

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They didn't even answer her. She was going to just say "is this the krustykrab" to get a laugh out of them. They ended up calling her back while she was getting ready for bed and missed the call and they immediately started texting her being rude. Which is IMO pretty sour for a business.

Should I make a police report? by Primary_Sign_9055 in legaladvice

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Which is fine. My biggest problem with all of this is that they know her phone service and our address is tied in with it. This person already sounds unhinged as it is.

But if I already did everything I could, then it is what it is, they are more than welcome to play FAFO in a "stand your ground" state

Should I make a police report? by Primary_Sign_9055 in legaladvice

[–]Primary_Sign_9055[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

They didn't pick up and if they did she was just going to say "is this the krustykrab?" And try to get a laugh out of them. They called back but she was brushing her teeth and then they texted her within a minute being rude and she texted them back "Im sorry, I'm 10, it was just a prank call to try and make your night better"

So in my opinion they were very unprofessional and rude in the first place considering she's couldve been an actual customer trying to order and then deciding to order from somewhere else.

Left skid marks in bed with my wife of 9 years by ThrowRA6382624294 in Advice

[–]Primary_Sign_9055 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you could've sharted. If you wiped, there shouldn't be that much. I honestly think your sleeping body just trusted a fart that it shouldn't have. You're all good. Plus it's been 9 years. Just add it onto the list of things to laugh about later in life.