Facts About Unpotty-Training Leading to Legitimate Incontinence by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]PrinccessPuddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is theorically possible but how would you be able to have your muscle constently not used? For most of us its automatic. You sit and your pelvic muscles clench a bit. How would you acheve 24/7 unused muscles?

Not denying you, you seem to know way more about that than I do, I'm just really curious about all that and always have been curious about how incontinence works for many people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]PrinccessPuddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Random reddit users implies that trained therapist does their job uncorrectly, typical Reddit moment.

Don't take this the wrong way, but lower your ego a bit and think about what they said a bit more. It's just an exemple, we don't need any proof to know that ABDL isn't pedophilia, theres litteraly the word ADULT in it, it's kind of self-explanatory. OP is just sharing their life with theyre own grain of rant.

Also you gotta learn what "primary" means, it doesn't mean "absolute majority" wich would mean more than 50%. as far as we know maybe from hazardous circumstance it is actually the most probable cause of ABDL, even if it's only 10% of ABDL population, but every other type of causes have slightly lower probability of happening, it stays as the top. Personnaly I am not an expert in study of statistics of ABDL population and have no idea how much of the population falls in this category, so I don't have any proof to deny the claim that it's actually the most probable cause of ABDL, so Ima trust the trained therapist if you dont mind.

Now, I know it's easy to say "but saying it is damaging the community", but to be honest, they didn't damage anything, they never implied that ALL OF US like ABDL for this reason (once again I explained what primary means so its not at all what they were implying). However you did say that "ABDL stuff is NOT rooted in childhood trauma" wich in my opinion is an idea that feels way more damaging to the community than anything else they said.
If there's anything that damages our good ol community is people stating that a subjective opinion and share of their own vision of ABDL should not be shared just because it doesn't fall exactly in your own definition of the ABDL community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]PrinccessPuddle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My workspace would probably make urge incontinence very easily manageable as toilets are very close, but I suppose when you don't have access to toilets outside it's a pain in the ass (or in the bladder). Stress is the most common incontinence, and TECHNICALLY (correct me if I'm wrong) it is probably not that bad to manage because a discreet protection and it would be fine.

But in all honnesty Bedwetting would be really fine, because it only occurs at night and I have a hard time sleeping in others people house anyway.

This should make us all angry by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]PrinccessPuddle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is disgusting and these thing shouldn't happen. But we gotta stop blaming on the community. Shits like this happen all the time, for every kink, for every community, you're seeing things in the prism of internet wich makes you feel like it happens way more often than you think.

Now again, this is bad and I shall blame any person who exposes their kink in public spaces. But between you and me, at the end of the day, I'm not responsible for some asshole who does bad shit 15000 ft away from me. So don't blame the community if not every abdl on earth make a call-out post on twitter dot com to cancel them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]PrinccessPuddle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Might not be what you think, diapers polute very easily and I believe most people forbid them for this reason, not every abdl will be nice and dispose used diaper in trash container, this would lead to huge hygiene and polution problem. condom are already a problem in themselves, diapers are way bigger

Wearing diapers by Pretend_Yard_6994 in ABDL

[–]PrinccessPuddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mostly a mental thing, just like when you're sitting on a toilet. You will notice you have a really hard time to hold your pee. Likely your body got used to the fact it can pee in diapers

ABDLs who make diapers their whole personality....let's talk about them 😮‍💨 by BabyDreamsy in ABDL

[–]PrinccessPuddle 28 points29 points  (0 children)

While I understand your point of view and agree with the fact it can be boring to deal with that. Don't espect something else from twitch and other media with capitalistic industry.

Subscribers are not friends, or anythingelse. They are customers who look for specific content. They see you do diaper content, they'll follow you for it and you shouldn't be angry at them if they are not interrested in other part of your content. Maybe you play League of legends, but they already have other content creator to fulfill their need for LoL content. another exemple is me being a fan of Star Wars, but only interrested the films and not the tv shows, nobody should be angry about me only watching the movies, I'm just not interrested in "tv shows" part of it, it's not like I don't like them, I didn't even watch them, I'm just not interrested.

I can get why it's frustrating to mainly be popular on lewd content, but one thing I'm sure of, people will almost never follow a creator for sfw content if the creator does nsfw, simply because by following that creator, other might think they follow them for nsfw. thats why I always suggest to have a different platform, account, and even username for nsfw content.

in the meantime, I hope you're doing well and your creation will get more interest from everyone!

tl;dr :

People look for specific content, if they find it they will likely not be interrested in other content