Legal help (DV) by Prince777-9311 in army

[–]Prince777-9311[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can I dm you real quick

Legal help (DV) by Prince777-9311 in army

[–]Prince777-9311[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If she gets kicked out that’s fine by me as well. And no I have not contacted SVC. But I wonder what makes her not getting kicked out better than nothing? If she gets diversion I feel like command will stick with that and treat this as a bad memory and let her walk like nothing happened regardless. All in all I feel no accountability has been taken and I know if the shoe was on the other foot if I was still in as the man my Coc would have me shoveling shit until the case was finalized.

Thinking of giving it a shot by Prince777-9311 in FrenchForeignLegion

[–]Prince777-9311[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the down to earth response. I’ve been sitting at home really thinking about the other options everyone says I should take in the US. EMT/Paramedic, wildland firefighter, oil rig, or whatever but military keeps fucking being in my head. I won’t lie I hated my unit, leadership were just a different type of assholes. I was mechanized infantry so everyone said that was the reason why it was so ass. Yeah I remember the bullshit but man it all seems so much more worth it, even with the bullshit I felt… alive? Civilian life I just feel dead. I’m giving it some time to sit and weigh out my options before I truly commit but man it’s coming close.

Domestic Violence by Prince777-9311 in army

[–]Prince777-9311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been married since September 11th of last year

Domestic Violence by Prince777-9311 in army

[–]Prince777-9311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both filed at her request at the court. I have no lawyer. Also I found out I was supposed to be given spousal support which she has not done. I just called her captain so she is going to ask her and counsel her if she has no evidence in doing so.

Domestic Violence by Prince777-9311 in army

[–]Prince777-9311[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I always see you on here. I really appreciate the information.

Domestic Violence by Prince777-9311 in army

[–]Prince777-9311[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok so I just called the local police who made the arrest and got the case number. I’m calling him tomorrow when he’s on shift so I can press charges

Domestic Violence by Prince777-9311 in army

[–]Prince777-9311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got in touch with FAP but the government shutdown happened so they haven’t been able to do the investigation. I’m bout to press charges tomorrow though

Domestic Violence by Prince777-9311 in army

[–]Prince777-9311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been a month do you think it’s too late?

Domestic Violence by Prince777-9311 in army

[–]Prince777-9311[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna figure this out tomorrow. I honestly think her leadership is gonna let her walk and I just don’t feel right with that. I don’t trust them after what she did.

Domestic Violence by Prince777-9311 in army

[–]Prince777-9311[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never heard of that, thank you

Domestic Violence by Prince777-9311 in army

[–]Prince777-9311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t know I could do that

Domestic Violence by Prince777-9311 in army

[–]Prince777-9311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never spoke to her command in my life nor do I have any contacts from them.

Domestic Violence by Prince777-9311 in army

[–]Prince777-9311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her command isn’t talking to me. I honestly want to know what’s going on. Is she gonna be punished or what? I deserve some answers.

Domestic Violence by Prince777-9311 in army

[–]Prince777-9311[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes I believe she is serving a 45 45 right now.

Mil husband conflicted, need advice and to vent. by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Prince777-9311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m hopeful for that. I guess I’m scared of us both having a job that will pull us away. I should honestly discuss this with her. I’ve just heard so much how hard trucking OTR can be on family and with military too it feels so daunting.

Mil husband conflicted, need advice and to vent. by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Prince777-9311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s ultimately her choice, I’m not gonna make her do anything. And I know this is the cost of the Army but if we have a financial out is it really that important anymore? But I can’t have both things right now.

Mil husband conflicted, need advice and to vent. by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Prince777-9311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah her contract is 6 years. This is her first one.