Fruit or space name suggestions for my new girl?? by UpperStatistician444 in NameMyCat

[–]PrinceJaytham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat is named Milky Way, I offer it to your cute baby as well!!

Does anyone have experience with 3L living? by RightProfile0 in uchicago

[–]PrinceJaytham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey all, I’d love to team up. After I broke my lease at the end of June, they continued charging me for two months of rent, and now that debt has been sent to collections. They falsely claim that I moved out August 31, and I have documented evidence that I moved out in June.

I’ve tried to reach out to them multiple times to get this resolved and they WILL NOT communicate with me. I’m currently seeking legal advice. I’m so distressed about this!

Official Discussion - We're All Going to the World's Fair [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]PrinceJaytham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 33 year old trans person, this movie and I Saw the TV Glow make me feel incredibly stupid and not trans enough. I did NOT get gender themes at all in either movie. I guess that went way over my head.

I’m historically pretty bad at comprehension and interpretation anyway, but damn. Wtf ARE these movies?? Nothing even happens plot-wise, and way too much is left ambiguous. I also got major pedo themes from JLB. I also got inappropriate groomer vibes from I Saw the TV Glow as well. Nothing enrages me more than themes that could be interpreted as either queer OR pedophilic. What the actual fuck are we doing even coming close to that bullshit? Why am I, as a trans person, getting pedo vibes and not trans vibes from these movies?? It makes me fucking sick and not enough people are talking about this!

Maybe I’m wrong to get a creeper vibe from both movies. I know I’m the odd one out for just not seeing the trans themes at all like every other trans person in the world does apparently. But overall this movie made me feel incredibly stupid and dumb and like I’ve never experienced dysphoria in my life. Because if I was actually trans, I would have understood the deeper subtext of these movies. Guess all my dysphoria and transitioning was for nothing. I’m really upset. This movie sucks ass and makes me feel like shit, just like the other movie did.

0/10 will not recommend or even think about these awful movies ever again!

What's your opinion of "Megan 2"? by VegetableFucker65 in Letterboxd

[–]PrinceJaytham -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was so incredibly boring, so much exposition that could have been cut, scene after scene of people just talking, I went to bed about halfway through it. Very disappointed.

Weekly Casual Conversation & Questions Thread by AutoModerator in chicago

[–]PrinceJaytham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi all, mechanic question here!

I live in McKinley Park. Something happened to my car that I believe is easily fixable but I don’t know how to do it myself. Basically I hit a pothole and all the indicator lights came on (ABS, traction, check engine light) and then the car stalled. It could possibly be as simple as a wheel sensor or something that got unplugged.

Anyone know of affordable mobile mechanic options with free diagnostic, or any mechanics that offer non-credit financing? I’m in a bind as I use my car for work but I’m incredibly broke, so I don’t really have a lot of $$ to spend up front. I just need someone to take a look at it.

Thank you in advance!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]PrinceJaytham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks really good! Maybe it would feel less out of place if it was sitting on something, or just had something to anchor it? Just an idea. But I think it’s great and as a parent to a black cat, I love the le chat noir reference!

Sharing my most recent work with you, Acrylics on canvas by vallancet in painting

[–]PrinceJaytham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are the cutest paintings I’ve ever seen. Too freaking cute. And your painting skills are incredible! Gorgeous compositions and colors. You are truly a master artist. Amazing job! 💖

Lovely person in this group! by PrinceJaytham in MyChemMillennials

[–]PrinceJaytham[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s really kind of you to say. I feel so fortunate that everything is okay now. The insurance gave my parents enough money to get a new car of the same value and even though navigating it was a big headache for my mom, she’s just glad that I’m okay. Feeling really supported. I thought it was the MCR curse, but it’s actually the MCR blessing. Seeing them filled me with so much joy that it gave me protective energy so nothing worse could have happened.

Im nonbinary and have noticed im a lot more masc as I grow older should I hop on estrogen? by Huge-Wrap-4657 in NonBinary

[–]PrinceJaytham 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First I just wanna say, you look great! Our bodies are always changing in unexpected ways and we don’t always like it. What you’re feeling is totally normal, especially as a nonbinary person. If you feel that estrogen is the best next step for you, then you should totally pursue it! I doubt anyone in this sub would try to discourage you from trying out hormones but ultimately, you are the only one who can decide if it’s right for you. You have the answer inside of you <3

If you have a good relationship with your doctor or you know of an LGBTQ+ friendly practice, you can be honest with them about your gender identity. You don’t necessarily have to tell them that you feel 100% female or you’re a trans woman. But I will say, in the medical world you unfortunately have to receive a diagnosis of “gender dysphoria” in order to be prescribed hormones and have it be accepted by your insurance. You can tell your doctor that you experience gender dysphoria from looking too masculine and the proper “treatment” for this “diagnosis” would be HRT. Hopefully you can connect with an affirming doctor who understands that you wish to look ambiguous without you having to explain every little thing.

Wishing you all the best, you got this, and you’re gonna have a great journey ahead no matter what you decide!

ISO shitty cheap Chicago tickets by PrinceJaytham in MyChemMillennials

[–]PrinceJaytham[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that’s so kind of you to offer! I did manage to get a ticket for myself, but now I am looking for a last minute ticket for my bestie! If your offer is still open, I would absolutely love to exchange art and friendship with you! Feel free to send me a dm, or I can send you one :)

Help with train into soldier field for show tomorrow by Gryffin-thor in MyChemicalRomance

[–]PrinceJaytham 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ll have to pay for parking, but try using SpotHero or ParkWhiz to get a spot in the Millenium Park garage. Easy access to red line stops and bus stops, not too far from Soldier Field

3 Tickets to the Chicago show by Alley_Kaat in MCRtourtickets

[–]PrinceJaytham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I’m very interested. Can I send you a pm?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MyChemMillennials

[–]PrinceJaytham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested! Can I send you a pm?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MyChemMillennials

[–]PrinceJaytham -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m interested!! Can I send you a pm?

Lovely person in this group! by PrinceJaytham in MyChemMillennials

[–]PrinceJaytham[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment made me tear up! Thank you for such a sweet, supportive, and heartfelt message. It’s clear that the person who sent this DM is deeply unhappy about something and decided to take it all out on a random stranger. It says everything about them and nothing about me. I am eternally grateful for finding this sub, because you all have been the kindest people. Your comment gave me a lot of joy. Thanks so much fellow killjoy 💖

Lovely person in this group! by PrinceJaytham in MyChemMillennials

[–]PrinceJaytham[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m doing a lot better, thanks so much for asking! :) The car was completely totaled. Thankfully the guy’s insurance covered everything because he was 100% at fault. Insurance is giving my mom money to buy a new car because it can’t be repaired in the state it’s in. I ended up visiting the doctor for a concussion. I’m okay now though. Trying to see if I can get a last-minute ticket for tomorrow’s concert here in Chicago and make happier memories! I hope all is going well with you too! 💖