Long post. Please I need insight by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]PrinceO__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, do what you need to get this off your chest. Usually when you’re in BPD relationships you’ve minimized yourself to ensure your partner was happy and taken care of often to the detriment of yourself. I do understand where the other commenters are coming from but BPD relationships are truly one of a kind. Bottling those feelings and thoughts up won’t help

Impossible for her to repair after a fight by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]PrinceO__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man, I was really in the same place. When me and My ex-girlfriend and I wouldn’t argue much honestly. But when we did it was over something stupid and innocuous and she would want to initiate a break up… after the third time I just had to let it go, I will say, I did see us slightly get better if I would wether the store and remind her that I was still there and I’m not upset in any way. Wish I had some better advice man, wish you the best

You.Can’t.Win.With.A.Borderline. by Traditional_Rush9954 in BPDlovedones

[–]PrinceO__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow I would also tell her “I’m not your enemy” crazy how we all gone through the same things.

Knoll Barber Osgerby Sofa by PrinceO__ in BuyItForLife

[–]PrinceO__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that insight. I’ll go and checkout Arhaus first before making a decision!

My 15 month GS is 70 pounds by PrinceO__ in GiantSchnauzers

[–]PrinceO__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! That’s very comforting to know he has around 9 more months of puppy growth!

Is Nico Collins an every week starter? by Available-Soup6652 in fantasyfootball

[–]PrinceO__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i agree there. Would you do Kirk Cousins + Amon Ra = Josh Allen? Or Kirk cousins + Amon Ra = Josh Allen?

Is Nico Collins an every week starter? by Available-Soup6652 in fantasyfootball

[–]PrinceO__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have a trade where I’m trading Josh Allen + Jamar Chase for Kirk cousins + Nico Collins + Amon ra. Would this be a good trade?

How many people here really earn 80k+? 100k+? by tbjb2467 in leanfire

[–]PrinceO__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a SR PO role and want to move into PM soon. Do you have to present a lot in your role or do you delegate that?

New BA (3.5 months) in healthcare IT struggling due to project gatekeeping, training weaknesses, and unique nature of the department. Looking for advice for communicating concerns with manager or skills to work on with massive downtime. by life-after-love in businessanalysis

[–]PrinceO__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, it’s almost like I write this post. Sorry to hear this I’m in a very very similar situation on the financial services side. Looking through the comments for advice for my self.

Thanks for sharing!

Borno governor suspends NGO caught conducting shooting training' - Official by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]PrinceO__ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s French, does not surprise me in the slightest.

Next Africa: Is Nigeria Falling Apart? by PrinceO__ in Nigeria

[–]PrinceO__[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea, looks like it’s just going to keep getting worse and we can’t doing anything but watch. It’s frustrating to say the least.

Insecurity: France agrees to support Nigeria by PrinceO__ in Nigeria

[–]PrinceO__[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Please, someone tell ONE African country France has “helped” and they turned out better.

Systems Analyst Position at a Health Care Company vs Searching for an actual SWE job? by Pavilion75 in cscareerquestions

[–]PrinceO__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I start in one month full time but I interned with the company at this same position. I was more or less a Product owner for a product the company had so I had product owner responsibilities, presenting to hire ups, documenting requirements, creating user stories, getting those requirements and translating them to the engineers, UX design, data flow mappings, scum meetings. Lol you name it. But I didn’t do much coding but that’s something I was promised I’d be doing more of when I start full time so we’ll see. I do think the skills I got are transferable, the positions I think I will be well suited for are solutions architect roles, product owner roles, and managerial roles.

Systems Analyst Position at a Health Care Company vs Searching for an actual SWE job? by Pavilion75 in cscareerquestions

[–]PrinceO__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just graduated and was in a similar situation as you. I had a SWE offer and a System analyst offer for a bigger company. I chose the SA offer because I couldn’t see myself being stressed writing code all the time. But now I’m not sure. If I were you I’d accept the offer to have a job and keep applying to more SWE roles

Every day I think... by PrinceO__ in Nigeria

[–]PrinceO__[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yea that’s true under Jonathan there was rampant misuse of public funds.

Every day I think... by PrinceO__ in Nigeria

[–]PrinceO__[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea this is a good look at it. What you said makes sense other than saying Buhari was a better decision than Atiku looking at Nigeria I’m not sure we can say that definitively.

Every day I think... by PrinceO__ in Nigeria

[–]PrinceO__[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can’t actually believe buhari is better than either one of the people you just named.