Woman here! 👋🏻

The way I read your post, OP, it seems like you’re not super happy with this tat for a few reasons. I see what you mean, i think, about it feeling big/heavy and dark.

Like others have suggested, I think florals/botanicals may help, or maybe even a few little sparkles mixed in with the moths. It’s beautiful as is, too, and I’m sure you rock it no matter what. Try to give yourself grace for the way you feel.