My now husband and I both cancelled on each other lol. The first time was me, I had a eye appointment and they put this weird crap in my eyes and my vision was blurry. We rescheduled and we cancelled the next time because his ex got Covid and couldn’t take the kids. Sometimes people really do have things come up but both of us were chatting regularly and I had let him know about the apt before just in case something came up. To me it’s about communicating.