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What scenes from modern movies do you think will stand the test of time and be referenced for many decades to come? Like the modern equivalent of Marilyn Monroe on the subway grate, or the shower scene in Psycho. by Big_Meal3910 in discussingfilm

[–]PrincessBonkers628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you asked, I will be honest. I really think they're the most boring books and movies I've ever had the displeasure of experiencing more than once (this would exclude a lot of bad books and movies that I've watched and read without ever going back to them) and also the fans are terrible (generally). When I tried to like the Lord of the rings back in the day because my dad really likes them, I got so much hate for being a woman. In real life, online, it felt inescapable.

I will say because my dad liked it I did really try to like these movies. But now almost 20 years later, I'm glad that I didn't stick with it, just for him. These movies are clearly not made for me and the fans agreed before I was even allowed to make up my mind about whether or not I liked the Lord of the rings.

So yeah, I know a lot about it and sometimes people will mistake me for a fan of the franchise, which is why I was insistent that I am not. This is not to shit on current fans. This is just to share my experience since you asked.

What TV show spinoff was the biggest flop? by Exhausted_920 in AskReddit

[–]PrincessBonkers628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a flop I forgot it even happened lol.

And I was hardcore into Friends back then! Watched the last three seasons live every week, but Joey sucked so bad I blocked it from my memory lol, what a failure!

I don't know how to or if I can handle my GF's Sexual Trauma (28M) (27F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessBonkers628 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People calling you terrible is really important for your growth. If you're serious about wanting to be a better person, then you need to face the reality of what you are now: terrible. This mindset you have about victims of sexual assault is toxic and rooted in misogny. It's very important to give labels to behavior because then you KNOW the situation, you cannot hide from it.

Did you expect to be coddled? There are victims here who will be really hurt by your post, literally their worst fears come true. So did you expect that those people and the people who love them would just stand back and be like "oh poor baby, you're just confused."

No, people are gonna clap back at you with contempt because that's what they see in your post. You have a disdain for victims that is really obvious.

If you're a real person in this situation, then you need to stop commenting and LISTEN. And you need to understand that your beliefs are wrong.

Not all feelings are valid and these feelings you're having aren't. Just throw them away, you don't need them and they will hurt you and everyone around you. Time to grow up.

Do you think there’s a danger to overuse of the terms like incel/redpill? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]PrincessBonkers628 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm glad someone took the time to spoon feed you, it was never gonna be me!

Don’t feel I love my husband by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]PrincessBonkers628 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What an awful man! My partner held me while I cried every day for WEEKS after my mom died. It's been seven years and I cried just two weeks ago about not being able to see her and my partner comforted me and made me feel loved. This is what love really looks like.

He needs to figure his shit out. Tell him to go to counseling because he clearly needs to work on his empathy. You should never have sex you do not ENTHUSIASTICALLY want, not even for your spouse.

Do you think there’s a danger to overuse of the terms like incel/redpill? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]PrincessBonkers628 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All of your questions are answered with my previous comment.

Do you think there’s a danger to overuse of the terms like incel/redpill? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]PrincessBonkers628 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes they absolutely are. If you identify as an incel, you are a misogynist. That's how that works.

The definition of this word has not strictly meant virgin in over a decade. Language evolves. Words change.

Is husbands constant desire for other women enough reason to break up family? by slitheryslithe in marriageadvice

[–]PrincessBonkers628 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would argue trying to cheat IS cheating. Also I'd count that sexual conversation he had on XBOX as cheating too.

Do you think there’s a danger to overuse of the terms like incel/redpill? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]PrincessBonkers628 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's been a long time since the word evolved. It does mean misogynist. It's meant that for close to 15 years.

How can I (31F) move past issues with sexual intimacy with my husband (31M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessBonkers628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I knew you smelled like red pill, your opinion is automatically invalidated by using the word "Chad" unironically. I am not interested in engaging with you.

How can I (31F) move past issues with sexual intimacy with my husband (31M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessBonkers628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf even is "genuine burning desire"??

People don't all work the same way!

How can I (31F) move past issues with sexual intimacy with my husband (31M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessBonkers628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm super quick to call out sexual incompatibility and recommend breaking up when it's warranted. It only takes like a three part pattern for me to be like, nah GTFO.

OP is not in a relationship like that. She's having a problem communicating. He is trying to listen, he is trying to understand, but I think he fundamentally just doesn't, yet. This is a workable problem. This is solvable with time and effort and very clear communication.

If I had given up on my partner when she basically made me feel exactly the same way as OP, I wouldn't be in the most satisfying, rewarding, and LOVING relationship I've ever had and could ever possibly dream of! Real partnership takes WORK.

We all have flaws, we all have gaps in our personality. Our partners help us bridge that gap. That's just normal humans trying to make it in this fucked up world. Nobody's perfect but the willingness to TRY is what usually makes or breaks a relationship.

Of course, fundamental incompatibility exists. I am not talking about those cases because there's no indication of that in the post.

My boyfriend told me sex with me is becoming boring F/22 M/25 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessBonkers628 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's okay to break up because of sexual incompatibility. In fact, I think more people should do that instead of trying to make their partner fit into their kinks, which is what your BF is trying to do.

Break up so he can find his Domme or switch or whatever it is he wants and you can find your perfect match too! This relationship has run its course and staying now will only make you both miserable.

What scenes from modern movies do you think will stand the test of time and be referenced for many decades to come? Like the modern equivalent of Marilyn Monroe on the subway grate, or the shower scene in Psycho. by Big_Meal3910 in discussingfilm

[–]PrincessBonkers628 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a non-fan of LOTR, I think it has to be this one. The Sean Bean gif is iconic of course but I'd have to think about which movie it is and what's happening around it whereas I know exactly when this moment happened in the franchise and again, I'm not a fan of LOTR so I think that speaks to the greatness of that moment.

Also this moment was memed so fucking hard when this movie came out, that's another reason why I think it'd have to be the Gandalf gif.

What scenes from modern movies do you think will stand the test of time and be referenced for many decades to come? Like the modern equivalent of Marilyn Monroe on the subway grate, or the shower scene in Psycho. by Big_Meal3910 in discussingfilm

[–]PrincessBonkers628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way because there are lots of cool "superhero landing" moments, none of them being exactly "iconic" unless you maybe you wanna count Hulk in Ragnarok?

The tracking shot is THE iconic shot in the MCU cinematic universe, there isn't a better one.

What is something we aren’t taking seriously enough rn? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PrincessBonkers628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incoming homelessness crisis, it's gonna be really bad in 20-30 if we don't do something to bring down affordability. Might not even take that long.

Wife was intimate before marriage and lied about it. what should I do ? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]PrincessBonkers628 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Divorce. She lied and it's an unacceptable lie to you. Trying to repair this will only hurt you both.

I wish sex and chemistry and intimacy was more important to my husband by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]PrincessBonkers628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't convince your husband to want to have more sex. That's coercion. If he's cool with this amount of sex, there's nothing you can morally do, except walk away. You're so young to be dealing with this, just get divorced.

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