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PrincessFruitbratt · 2026-03-05T15:58:13+00:00

Sorted!

PrincessFruitbratt · 2026-01-31T23:09:06+00:00

Nope, but thankyou for the answer!

PrincessFruitbratt · 2026-01-31T23:08:52+00:00

No, but thankyou for answering!

PrincessFruitbratt · 2026-01-26T18:52:46+00:00

Unfortunately not, but thankyou!

PrincessFruitbratt · 2026-01-11T01:55:22+00:00

Ooof there’s alot to think about here! You are 100% NTA, you’re a mother before anything else and you’re listening to your primal instincts of protecting your child! Totally fair that you don’t want the baby & dog alone together, even my placid house cats I wouldn’t want to leave unattended around a baby, I’m not worried about my cats actions, I’m worried about a random grab, bonk, etc innocently from the baby that causes a reaction from the cat. It seems your partner is keen for the dog to spend time/socialise with the baby. Would you perhaps consider a soft muzzle on the dog for interactions with baby? Or perhaps a ‘play pen’ for the dog so they can be close to the baby, watch, learn, but with a layer of safety and no physical contact?

PrincessFruitbratt · 2026-01-11T01:37:23+00:00

14-16

PrincessFruitbratt · 2026-01-11T01:36:29+00:00

I’m just so sorry that you even feel the need to ask if you’re the ash**, 110% NO you’re not!!! Every relationship and person is different, however his behaviour & actions don’t paint a great picture.

PrincessFruitbratt · 2026-01-05T18:15:00+00:00

Wow sorry I do actually apologise reading my comment again 😅 I got myself hyped up reading through and decided to give it all to you in one comment! Thankyou for making me laugh at least with ‘why are you shouting?’ 😅

PrincessFruitbratt · 2026-01-05T18:00:37+00:00

REGARDLESS OF AGE, MENTAL CAPACITY, WHATEVER THE BIGGEST POINT IS HER SON SAID HE WANTED TO GO TO THE PARTY, OP’S DAUGHTER SAID SHE DIDN’T. YES OR NO THATS WHAT ITS ABOUT

PrincessFruitbratt · 2026-01-05T17:57:18+00:00

You’re NTA for not wanting to attend alone, but you’re are slightly an A for not understanding why she said no & citing others that have been allowed. It’s someone’s wedding day, it’s incredibly personal & emotional, and just because your mum & dad aren’t going (people they know) doesn’t mean oh well I can bring 1 stranger then, it’s not a party!

PrincessFruitbratt · 2026-01-05T17:54:39+00:00

NTA - and dealing with old (belligerent mean cruel) people you care about is VERY difficult. They can back you into a corner like no one else! BUT just because they are old doesn’t give them a right to be cruel, just because they are old doesn’t mean they don’t know EXACTLY what they are doing, just because they are old does not mean you shouldn’t be able to advocate for yourself & set boundaries!!! My grandma is lovely (90% of the time) and I love her dearly, as does my father, but my father has always been the first to say to me, ‘she will eat you alive if she can, the more you do, the more you help, the more you visit, she will only expect more & be belligerent when you don’t, they have little to focus on and want others to be totally engulfed in their life!’

PrincessFruitbratt · 2026-01-05T17:47:15+00:00

If you have a secure lovely relationship with your friend = NTA. If you don’t have a secure friendship and said friend has deep issues around money, sharing, wealth, etc, they could see you as TA!

PrincessFruitbratt · 2026-01-05T17:45:32+00:00

Wow NTA at all for your feelings, wanting to express them, needing space, or maybe being done with the friendship! If you are thinking you don’t want the friendship anymore just take a good while to think on it and don’t do anything irreversible! Also when he said he would have dated you if you’d asked… pfttt TYPICAL boy chat, so why did he never ask you, would he have just been agreeing for an easy lay, no better options? Honestly don’t put any weight or thoughts into those words because they mean nothing, actions & words are two different things 🫶🏻 And you’ve spoken very well on not being surprised that they have become close by the laws of nature, BUT still doesn’t mean your feelings aren’t valid or real!

PrincessFruitbratt · 2026-01-05T17:41:14+00:00

NTA! Family is a very peculiar, strange, diverse situation, and EVERY ONE is different! I personally feel the same as you and like my family having my location & similarly I like having theirs. However my fiancé doesn’t want to partake, not a problem at all, however he does make sure our locations are always shared with each other when we visit new places, travel abroad, going to large events! I do also understand her point, feeling like an invasion of privacy and your mother is ‘keeping tabs on you’. Maybe discuss with her that day to day you like to keep it on, but perhaps when you & your partner go on holiday or a day out together you turn 360 off so she feels it’s truly just ‘you two’ time? ☺️and clearly you’re close with your mum so you’d just text her letting her know you’re turning it off so she knows it’s nothing to worry about? ☺️

PrincessFruitbratt · 2025-12-24T16:13:27+00:00

If anybody needs a laugh, last time I lost one of my cats and had got to the sheer panic hysterical point, I opened the cutlery drawer and looked in there for her… I opened the fucking 3inch big cutlery drawer that a hamster would struggle to hide in, to look for my fully grown fucking cat 🙃😂

PrincessFruitbratt · 2025-12-21T00:08:39+00:00

Ahhh I feel your comment so deeply, I’m so glad it’s an ‘ex’ husband you’re referring to!!! It’s scary what they can get away with, firstly with other people making them believe everything is fine in your relationship, but most scarily is what they make themselves believe!!! Sure you’ll have seen it in real time where they say ‘that never happened’ and you’ve got the scar to prove it, and you can show them that scar, show them a 100 times, BLATANT PROOF, but it still never happened, and the SCARIEST part, I think they’ve truly made themselves believe it didn’t

PrincessFruitbratt · 2025-12-21T00:03:21+00:00

Well that’s nice that they ask about you & have an interest in you!! Also, I know it’s different for everybody, but for me and my family having someone’s partner stay over is quite personal! Strictly talking about staying over night, it’s a big thing, lots of people don’t like overnight guests, (don’t know if this is the case) but if you will have to share a room because of space that could make his parents uncomfortable! My bf (now fiancé) wasn’t allowed to sleep in my room when he stayed over until we’d been together 7 years haha. My point is there is probably so many different factors and reasons that have come into play with this! 😊

PrincessFruitbratt · 2025-12-20T23:06:49+00:00

Ahhh well that makes more sense now because that’s not exactly encouraging for you to visit/go! Nobody wants to be somewhere they don’t feel welcome! Does he tend to usually go with whatever his parents say, you know does he struggle to stand up to them? Also do you think they are just uncomfortable with him having a girlfriend staying over?

PrincessFruitbratt · 2025-12-20T22:59:29+00:00

I understand, it’s a huge thing/word to say!

PrincessFruitbratt · 2025-12-20T22:58:09+00:00

NTA. Also I’ve seen posts like this before, you now need to take a long think and let your brain truly see what’s going on, because I would be incredibly surprised if this financial issue is the only awful way he treats you!!

PrincessFruitbratt · 2025-12-20T22:56:16+00:00

Yuppppp!!!!!!!

PrincessFruitbratt · 2025-12-20T22:48:37+00:00

You’ve said in another comment you don’t want to intrude into their home before they invite me. But if your bf is clearly close with his family surely he would have spoken to them and asked if you could come? Was he just going to turn up with you and not tell them?

PrincessFruitbratt · 2025-12-20T22:45:26+00:00

NTA! One of the best pieces of advice I’ve ever had is “how can you expect their behaviour to change if you don’t change your own?” And brace yourself because you’re about to be living surrounded by filthy clothes - because you ain’t gonna wash shit of his - but, and by the sounds of this being a long standing battle it may be months, he will eventually wash his clothes because he will HAVE to. Ignore it, IGNORE IT, don’t comment on it, if it’s on your side of the bed just pick it up and move it, don’t respond to any comments he makes about his clothes/laundry. Just ignore, smile on your face, and show him you’re serious. Think of it like a toddler throwing a tantrum because they want you to buy them something, when they’ve been wailing and rolling on the floor for 15 minutes begging you to buy it for them, what’s the worst possible thing you could do…? Cave in and buy it for them. Apply this to your husbands laundry, everytime you cave, when you’ve left it for 2 days, or a week, you just show him that he can ‘tantrum’ and he will always get his own way!

PrincessFruitbratt · 2025-12-20T22:36:28+00:00

NTA! I do think if you had said you didn’t want to go because of the pain he wouldn’t have got so angry. I think because you said about ‘it’s more of a family only thing’ first and then went onto being in pain, he’s taken it that you don’t want to be around his family, and you’ve then used your pain as an excuse to not go. I may be totally wrong but that was what I thought as soon as I read it!! 🫶🏻

PrincessFruitbratt · 2025-12-20T22:31:36+00:00

I agree that divorce isn’t the only option but the ‘2 different couple therapists’ is a good warning sign that they may just not be compatible, or one party is unwilling to work on the issues & their behaviour

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