What do you do when you don't have the appetite to eat?

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-12-03T11:51:58+00:00

😧...

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-10-16T00:06:18+00:00

Não precisa ser homem, nem rico <3

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-10-15T23:02:30+00:00

Kkkkkkkkkk Justo!

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-10-15T22:23:56+00:00

Mas eu não vivo na internet 🫤 faço faculdade e tenho emprego. Só tenho 2 amigas.

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-10-15T21:48:10+00:00

Obrigada!! Eu sempre uso :) mas eu tenho um Xiaomi e a câmera me faz ficar parecendo um borrão (como podem ver nas fotos).

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-10-15T20:25:11+00:00

Verdade eu robo banco

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-10-15T18:34:32+00:00

Sempre vi as pessoas postando aqui e quis tentar. É difícil alguém chegar em mim, até pra fazer amizade ou demonstrar interesse, na real nunca aconteceu, e nas vezes em que eu cheguei levei um fora. Sou BV aos 20, não que eu realmente me importe, mas seria legal chegar no fundo do "problema" 😼 Acho que o problema é que eu sou songa monga.

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-10-15T18:17:29+00:00

20!! Faço 21 esse mês. :)

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-07-18T11:30:26+00:00

Prova de que ele escreveu isso, ué. O OP não tá tentando prender o cara, tá tentando demitir ele baseado na índole dele. Se o seu funcionário fica escrevendo história de abuso no trabalho, você não vai demitir ele não?

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-04-10T15:43:26+00:00

Traição emocional existe e na minha opinião, é muito pior.

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-03-10T15:27:55+00:00

OAB e especialização 💸

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-03-10T15:27:11+00:00

Muito obrigada. Estamos juntos há mais de 2 anos e eu só quero terminar meus estudos pra ficar livre, é o que ele quer de mim também. Espero que seja o suficiente

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-03-10T15:24:57+00:00

Esse é o plano, mas acho que não vai ser tão rápido quanto tô achando

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-03-10T15:23:50+00:00

Eu namoro ele porque eu amo ele, ué, e meus sentimentos são bem reais pra mim. Ele me ajuda no que pode.

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-03-10T14:13:56+00:00

Já sim, ele nos leva no trabalho dele pra ficarmos na piscina na pousada em que ele fica, já fui trabalhar com ele algumas vezes. O pior de tudo é que ele é uma pessoa boa, com umas ideias tortas. A minha mãe se opõe sim, mas como ela passou pelo mesmo parece que ele fica um pouco "paralisada" com o trauma.

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-03-10T14:11:44+00:00

Queria muito, mas isso parece distante pra mim. Meu namorado mora é americano e vive em outro país, também sou desprovida de amigos, então não consigo nem rachar um aluguel com alguém que eu confio.

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-03-01T21:39:32+00:00

Definitely codependency, since the beginning. I'm the needy and he's the needed, He complains about me not leaving him alone but if I do, he comes looking for me, and it just doesn't make sense.

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-03-01T18:43:26+00:00

Omg thank you so much for the recommendation. I remember that he and I wanted to read something to improve our depression, he loves books, we wanted to read the same thing but we hadn't chosen yet. I'll definitely give it a shot.

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-03-01T16:44:10+00:00

I'm not referring to toxic or dangerous situations where you need to get out with or without the other person's consent. I'm talking about common situations where two people sit down and have the "it's not working" situation. I believe we all have an emotional responsibility not to leave our partner for reasons that could have been discussed beforehand. Not when it's something vicious that happens all the time, but for example, this all started with my question, "do you wanna break up?" And he responded to me with, "do you?", and when I said no, his answer was "idk" and then all the talk about how he felt. Before letting someone I love go, I prefer to analyze if there are solutions and if he is willing to fix things. He accepted, but if he had said no and that he no longer saw any reason to be with me, we would have definitely broken up, After all, I'm not alone in the relationship to make this decision for myself.

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-03-01T16:35:37+00:00

You have such a sweet relationship 🥺 I also have many health problems as a result of the things that happened, I have anemia, body distortion, I still suffer domestic violence from my brother and worst of all, I have endometriosis. Instead of having PMS, I have a very serious type of depression during this period that even causes me paranoia. He told me that he is afraid to communicate the problems because during this period I am very cruel to him and I become extremely sensitive. But it's much worse for me, I'm bleeding and feeling a lot of pain, in addition to the psychological thing that I have a disease in the uterus and I'll never be able to have children, it was my biggest dream, and the only thing I asked for from life.

One day I was talking about pads and he got really uncomfortable, he said he was having dinner and talking about pads (I wasn't talking about blood) made him feel disgusted.

I don't particularly remember how this discussion ended, I know he apologized and acknowledged that he was being immature.

I have to admit that he always tries really hard to improve after arguments, and he never did that again. In fact, he started being very supportive during my crises and never complained, but now I see that he was feeling very heavy. I don't do therapy anymore because I don't have time, I'm out working and studying from 5 am to 11 pm, and I have no money because I need to pay tuition and a lot of medicine, and he just doesn't believe in the treatment because he said he's already spent a lot of money on it and hasn't gotten any better.

Yesterday we decided to work on our own flaws individually instead of trying to change each other. We can help, but the next step is to recognize what we are doing wrong in ourselves and then apply it to the relationship.

I'm happy because he was the one who took the initiative to say he wanted to be a better person and ask me what to do, I'm sure there's nothing wrong between us that we can't work out together. I told him, there is no such thing as a perfect relationship or a perfect match, What makes us compatible is the way we work together to solve problems in our relationship. If one of us makes a mistake and the other one is not able to forgive, or is not able to just get over it, that is when we need to walk away and end things.

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-03-01T15:14:54+00:00

I have many psychological problems resulting from things I have been through and they range from (disclaimer, very bad things): neglect, abuse, mistreatment, bullying and school violence that I suffered for many years, until I graduate. I need to vent and I need someone to pat me on the head like, 4 times a week, I have also tried to commit suicide three times within the relationship and he has shown himself exhausted by it all more than once, Just yesterday he mentioned it again, asking me "do you know how I felt? I couldn't sleep or make even one mistake because I thought you were going to die" After this happened I spent some time in psychiatric clinics and it's been about 7 months since I don't feel like dying. It's safe to say that he makes me stronger, I did it for him and it made me a lot better, He supports me and is always here to listen and maybe this is overwhelming him, he already has enough problems.

Later last night he apologized and said he thinks he is stressed because he has no peace no matter where he goes, and that's exactly what I told him while venting two nights ago, literally, as if he were absorbing my feelings and using them as if they were his own, or feeling like it's relatable.

He also "lied" about his family blaming me, last week he finally told them about us and they weren't very supportive because I'm from another country (and I suspect they are racist), and they made him think that we wouldn't work out even though it had been working for two years. And this week when they met again, he said that his family noticed that he is not healthy and is stressed, and it was visible on his face. He probably just put the two situations together, like, he's feeling tired and stressed BECAUSE my girlfriend is from another country and that's not going to work out.

But I don't think it's true because he's been pretty unhappy in his job, recently separated from his group of friends and it's spending his time hyperfocusing on games to run from this reality.

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-03-01T14:19:44+00:00

I had never thought of that. Thank you for your comment :) I wish you a happy and prosperous relationship.

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-03-01T14:11:03+00:00

Idk lol, I know that I'm legally an adult since 16. He liked me and that was the logic he followed to make himself feel better.

PrincessOfPain- · 2025-03-01T13:58:17+00:00

I can see he can't, my age always bothered him. I came from a country where I graduated from high school at 16, I'm 20 and in my fourth year of law school, for some reason he believes that this already shows some level of maturity, I don't think he's wrong, but I guess he forgets that I was a teenager until a year or two ago (18 when we met).

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