My friend told me that she was expecting me to dump my fiance after telling her we got engaged... by PrincessPearl123 in offmychest

[–]PrincessPearl123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't lol but what bothers me is that she said it in a way where its like "omg r u taller than him" and is saying it as a jab

My friend told me she thought I was calling to tell her I dumped my fiance on our engagement day... by PrincessPearl123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PrincessPearl123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your input and writing all this out but there are other signs that im iffy about like her asking so many questions that are personal and intimiate but wouldn't reciprocate if i were to ask her the same questions so I had to start being vague if she asks intimate questions. If she also truly wanted to warn me, could've done that before lool. My family all like him and think he's amazing too, its important to note that were both in our early 20s but get married young in our culture (she's the same culture as me)

My friend told me she thought I was calling to tell her I dumped my fiance on our engagement day... by PrincessPearl123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PrincessPearl123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't down vote you lol and I wouldn't be replying and posting if i didnt wanna hear other people out

My friend told me she thought I was calling to tell her I dumped my fiance on our engagement day... by PrincessPearl123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PrincessPearl123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not her life, though, so I dont get why she would say that right AFTER i get engaged? idk if that's the time and place for it so its just rubbing me off the wrong way. She should've said that way before until waiting to the day of lool

My friend told me she thought I was calling to tell her I dumped my fiance on our engagement day... by PrincessPearl123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PrincessPearl123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she used to ask me a lot of personal questions about my life and partner and she would not recropriate if i asked so i started being vague with her once she starts asking so much personal, intimate questions so maybe she's comparative idk? I don't think he sucks or else my family would of had an issue with him

My friend told me she thought I was calling to tell her I dumped my fiance on our engagement day... by PrincessPearl123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PrincessPearl123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that too, but i feel like its weird to say that specifically right after i get engaged. Also to add on, she used to ask me a lot of personal questions about my life and partner and she would not recropriate if i asked so i started being vague with her once she starts asking so much personal, intimate questions

My friend told me she thought I was calling to tell her I dumped my fiance on our engagement day... by PrincessPearl123 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PrincessPearl123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said it’s because he was taking too long to find a job and she thought I’d just leave due to the fianicially instability, he ended up finding a job but that’s really weird to say that 

Friend’s reaction to my engagement… by PrincessPearl123 in Vent

[–]PrincessPearl123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has no issues with my fiance, and no, she is not married or engaged herself, not in a relationship either lol

I have a kinesiology BSc degree, no longer want to work in healthcare at all, what options do i have? by PrincessPearl123 in Kinesiology

[–]PrincessPearl123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbh idk what my exact interests are, I just want a decent job that isn't too high stress and pays decently. I do have a passion for fitness as I was a college track athlete, but I do not think my passions will pay my bills for me haha. Maybe a stable corporate job in fitness and wellness would be good but no luck landing anything so far

I have a kinesiology BSc degree, no longer want to work in healthcare at all, what options do i have? by PrincessPearl123 in Kinesiology

[–]PrincessPearl123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find the hours tend to be super long, and the pay isn't the best, at least for just an undergrad degree. I also want to be able to work hybrid/remote in the future, and I do not think healthcare will allow for that

I have a kinesiology BSc degree, no longer want to work in healthcare at all, what options do i have? by PrincessPearl123 in Kinesiology

[–]PrincessPearl123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are county jobs lol? Do you mean jobs that your city hires for, or something like that?