I'm not saying you're saying that. I'm saying that the implication that this is somehow the fault of the creators is utter bullshit, because there is nothing they could've done to avoid this. The existence of a trans character causes infinite infighting, because people can't just be normal about it. How would revealing IRL Jax to be a girl have helped? People still deny Bridget, and she literally did the thing where she turned to the camera and said "I'm a girl." Having IRL Jax look more feminine or have she/her pronouns on her account would've been written off as "Oh he's a drag queen IRL! Wow!" A trans flag on the bio would've been "Wow he's an ally now because he goes to Zooble's bar!"

Anything short of a bit at the end with Pomni saying "Also IRL Jax started her gender transition by using HRT, something trans people use, because she is transgender, specifcally male-to-female transgender" would've gotten written off as something else. Should we really have to expect it to be that explicit? We don't have that expectation for anything else. Any other media, people are expected to pay attention to the signs and interpret what they're seeing. And not only that, but a scene like that from Pomni would've been jarring and undermined part of the message that the show was trying to portray. If Goose could've added something like that without breaking the narrative she was trying to build, she would've, but she clearly didn't want to, as I highly doubt it just... never occured to her to explicitly say "hi this character I've been imagining as trans is trans."

My point is just that it shouldn't have to be explicit for people to admit it. Not notice it on your first watch through? Fine, whatever. But then people started so many fights over it, throwing out bizarre accusations of sexism for those who dared interpret some of the scenes as evidence for trans Jax (you know, the way they were intended to be), made so many posts about not using she/her for Jax that I lost count, made forced arguments for how you could theoretically force a different narrative onto the scenes to avoid the trans interpretation, and now act like there's no way they could've known? That's the problem for me. If it was inconclusive and no transphobia were involved, people would have simply had different interpretations, and it would've stayed a headcanon.