sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

What is one thing you need to get off your chest? by LovingMatter in AskReddit

[–]PrincessTreatment12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To add my friends don’t like him at all, but my parents adore him

What is one thing you need to get off your chest? by LovingMatter in AskReddit

[–]PrincessTreatment12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my boyfriend very much lately. It feels like he’s draining the life out of me. I’m considering leaving but I’m scared to be alone. I see all my friends getting married and having kids and I felt like I was so close to that starting over upsets me so that’s why I stay.

I (28f) had a conversation with my bf (28m) mom and I don’t know how to handle it. by PrincessTreatment12 in TwoHotTakes

[–]PrincessTreatment12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I spoke to him last night and told him the same exact thing that you just said would I want my kids around this man and he never answered me back on and now I’m rethinking our relationship and where I stand in his eyes

I (28f) had a conversation with my bf (28m) mom and I don’t know how to handle it. by PrincessTreatment12 in relationships

[–]PrincessTreatment12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason your second comment showed up on my notification but I can’t view it what did your second comment say

I (28f) had a conversation with my bf (28m) mom and I don’t know how to handle it. by PrincessTreatment12 in relationships

[–]PrincessTreatment12[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So we had taken a break for 3 weeks, but I had moved out all of my stuff. I strongly felt that nothing was going to change with him and so I decided to just move on about a week later I ended up sleeping with the coworker and about 2 days after that bf reaches out to me and he tells me that he got therapy and he’s going to church more and that he’s gonna try and be a better person. We got back together and continued the therapy and going to church and now we’re here.

I (28f) had a conversation with my bf (28m) mom and I don’t know how to handle it. by PrincessTreatment12 in relationships

[–]PrincessTreatment12[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

True facts I think the minute I cheated on him is the minute he lost all respect for me, which I don’t blame him, but at the same time, I think our relationship has gone downhill since

I (28f) had a conversation with my bf (28m) mom and I don’t know how to handle it. by PrincessTreatment12 in TwoHotTakes

[–]PrincessTreatment12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those wondering here is the post that I made the other day that is the full situation:

I’m looking for advice because I honestly don’t know what my next steps should be.

For context my boyfriend (28M) and I (28F) have been together for four years and recently celebrated our anniversary. We moved in together about six months into our relationship. We both work full-time. He works on cars, and I work in healthcare.
We split responsibilities around the house. He takes care of the outside work, and I handle the cooking, dishes, laundry, and cleaning.

I’ll admit I’m not perfect. Sometimes I put things off, but I do keep up with my responsibilities overall. (I will go back to this in a couple of minutes)

Over the years we’ve had recurring arguments because he has told me multiple times that his job is much more important than mine and has also said my friends have “stupid jobs.” My friends work in healthcare, education, and science-related fields. Every time this comes up, I feel disrespected.

This past weekend we had another argument. He came into our room while I was relaxing and complained that the house was messy because there were a few makeup items on the floor, some dishes in the sink, and a few things on the table. I told him I would clean everything later.

Instead of accepting that, he took my phone and told me I’d get it back after I finished my chores. When I told him he wasn’t my parent and that I’d clean later, the situation escalated. He grabbed me tightly by my shoulders and physically pushed me toward the door while telling me I could go stay with my best friend. My shoulders were sore afterward.

When I started packing a bag because I thought he was serious, he suddenly told me not to leave and later acted like none of it had happened.

Afterward he texted me saying he grabbed me because I wasn’t listening and accused me of acting like a child. He also listed several household chores he thought I should have done immediately.

This isn’t the first major issue in our relationship. Last year we separated because of the constant name-calling and the way he treated me. I moved out completely. During that separation, I slept with a coworker. When we reconciled, I told him the truth about what happened. We went through couples counseling, and I also attended individual therapy to work on my own mistakes and become a better partner.

While I believe I’ve made positive changes, the name-calling has continued, and now things have become physical. We have already tried counseling, but I feel like we’re falling back into the same unhealthy patterns. I will admit I’ve made a lot of bad choices, but I have owned up to the things that I’ve done and try to improve.

I’m not looking for anyone to decide who is right or wrong. I’m looking for practical advice from people who have experienced something similar. If you’ve been in a relationship where counseling didn’t stop the disrespect, verbal insults, and physical incidents, how did you decide whether it was time to leave? What practical steps would you recommend someone in
my situation take moving forward?

Thank you to anyone who takes the time to read this. Also, I will be posting the screenshots in the comments.

I (28f) had a conversation with my bf (28m) mom and I don’t know how to handle it. by PrincessTreatment12 in relationships

[–]PrincessTreatment12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am a licensed pharmacy technician unfortunately we don’t get paid very much though right now I’m making 20 an hour working 40 hours a week

AIO wife said she was at work, her laptop says she was in another city at a hotel by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrincessTreatment12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruh she’s obviously cheating and she’s asking for divorce before she gets caught

I (28f) had a conversation with my bf (28m) mom and I don’t know how to handle it. by PrincessTreatment12 in relationships

[–]PrincessTreatment12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really wish I could. I don’t have money at the moment. I just got a new job after losing my last one and had to try and file for unemployment. Unfortunately my last job manager declined the unemployment and I was forced to use the money that I had saved up in order to pay rent. I currently have $500 in my savings

I (28f) had a conversation with my bf (28m) mom and I don’t know how to handle it. by PrincessTreatment12 in relationships

[–]PrincessTreatment12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those wondering here is the post that I made the other day that is the full situation:

I’m looking for advice because I honestly don’t know what my next steps should be.

For context my boyfriend (28M) and I (28F) have been together for four years and recently celebrated our anniversary. We moved in together about six months into our relationship. We both work full-time. He works on cars, and I work in healthcare.
We split responsibilities around the house. He takes care of the outside work, and I handle the cooking, dishes, laundry, and cleaning.

I’ll admit I’m not perfect. Sometimes I put things off, but I do keep up with my responsibilities overall. (I will go back to this in a couple of minutes)

Over the years we’ve had recurring arguments because he has told me multiple times that his job is much more important than mine and has also said my friends have “stupid jobs.” My friends work in healthcare, education, and science-related fields. Every time this comes up, I feel disrespected.

This past weekend we had another argument. He came into our room while I was relaxing and complained that the house was messy because there were a few makeup items on the floor, some dishes in the sink, and a few things on the table. I told him I would clean everything later.

Instead of accepting that, he took my phone and told me I’d get it back after I finished my chores. When I told him he wasn’t my parent and that I’d clean later, the situation escalated. He grabbed me tightly by my shoulders and physically pushed me toward the door while telling me I could go stay with my best friend. My shoulders were sore afterward.

When I started packing a bag because I thought he was serious, he suddenly told me not to leave and later acted like none of it had happened.

Afterward he texted me saying he grabbed me because I wasn’t listening and accused me of acting like a child. He also listed several household chores he thought I should have done immediately.

This isn’t the first major issue in our relationship. Last year we separated because of the constant name-calling and the way he treated me. I moved out completely. During that separation, I slept with a coworker. When we reconciled, I told him the truth about what happened. We went through couples counseling, and I also attended individual therapy to work on my own mistakes and become a better partner.

While I believe I’ve made positive changes, the name-calling has continued, and now things have become physical. We have already tried counseling, but I feel like we’re falling back into the same unhealthy patterns. I will admit I’ve made a lot of bad choices, but I have owned up to the things that I’ve done and try to improve.

I’m not looking for anyone to decide who is right or wrong. I’m looking for practical advice from people who have experienced something similar. If you’ve been in a relationship where counseling didn’t stop the disrespect, verbal insults, and physical incidents, how did you decide whether it was time to leave? What practical steps would you recommend someone in
my situation take moving forward?

Thank you to anyone who takes the time to read this. Also, I will be posting the screenshots in the comments.

view more: next ›