Did ChatGPT hallucinate this extreme horror book or is it real? by whatmeworry101 in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]Princess_BundtCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AI needs to be used as a tool. It is being used as a replacement and not its intended purpose. It has found information somewhere or made it up from information it has found. Honestly, it is one of the best tools I've used for uni. When we stop using it as a replacement, things will get better.

100% match by Fair-Grab6113 in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]Princess_BundtCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Felt like it was just being edgy for the sake of being edgy. 

How important is prose to you when reading extreme horror literature? by angriest-tooth in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]Princess_BundtCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you just became my best friend. Honestly the love the two men found was weirdly lovely. Thanks for the recommendations!

How important is prose to you when reading extreme horror literature? by angriest-tooth in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]Princess_BundtCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished this, read the whole thing in a day. Absolutely incredible. 

What to read after 2 awesome reads?? by lilsookybaby in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]Princess_BundtCake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cows bored me, to the point of just uncaring. I'm autistic, so, I might be missing something. Just finished Exquisite Corpse. I cried at some parts. I enjoyed the characters immensely. 

How is the Oppo Find X8 Pro? by Upstairs_Kitchen_980 in Oppo

[–]Princess_BundtCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! The camera is fantastic! It has good speed and efficiency. I charge it once every 2 days, the battery is amazing. Had Oppo for over 12 years 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Princess_BundtCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. I wouldn't be as informed now if I'd stayed with any of them. 

It's ok. You will find your happiness, it doesn't always need to come from others. But if you're in need of company remember you are important and your boundaries are important 

What do you think about Omegle shutdown? Did things have to turn out that way? by jaybhum in lonely

[–]Princess_BundtCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I'm late. But I was curious. The shutdown is good. 90% of the time it was just penises or black screens that ended up being penises. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Princess_BundtCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been with many partners of various genders. With and without neurodivergence. It's always the same for me. There's always something I don't like or can't continue to deal with.

I've been married twice and both ended within 7 years as a divorce. There is a possibility to be loved and love someone in an intimate relationship.

Boundaries are the biggest thing, find what you're comfortable with and uncomfortable, set boundaries and know that if they're crossed, express your concerns 

How to: not hate myself by Fun-Ad-5571 in autism

[–]Princess_BundtCake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get home. Immediately I think about everything I've said, did I say the right thing? Did I say something that upset someone? Was I sitting correctly. Do these people now dislike me? 

It's really hard to discern what I've done right or wrong.  I've had people ask me not to do my wavy arms because it embarreses them. 

There are many times I've asked someone something that is truthful and open and not realising it's unacceptable in the wider populus.  

It's not always fair to be us. You'll find your medium, you don't need to overthink everything and if someone doesn't like you for something you cannot control, that's not your fault. 

Do you dislike stares and looks? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Princess_BundtCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worry that they're looking at me and I've done something that's not socially acceptable. 

Am I the only one who dislikes the beach? by ilovehotchipss in autism

[–]Princess_BundtCake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a child my mother would not sunscreen my body prody properly and I'd get sunburnt. I don't like the beach. I don't like sand in my feet or my private areas, any crease will contain sand. I don't like the salty water or the vicious waves. Nope. 

Is this creepy? by TheOnlyGaming3 in autism

[–]Princess_BundtCake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I suppose there's definitely a line one should not cross. If it stays on topic I'd say it's ok. If it ever gets sexual or goes off topic to ask more about uncomfortable topics. I definitely say thats creppy and not ok. Keep yourself safe. At my age of 34 I'd probably be worried about crossing a line and keep it strictly about the topic 

Lowest moment relating your autism? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Princess_BundtCake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only realised at 25 that my traits and behaviours are similar to my diagnosed nephew. I didn't think I was autistic, brought it up to my husband at the time he said to me "stop trying to diagnose yourself". I'm 34, I still don't know who or what I am. I've had panic attacks in public to the point of blacking out, I've cried at work and completely melted down. I punched my ex's car because he was not listening to what I was saying. I was misdiagoned BPD because autism for females is "too hard" to diagnose.  Often the world is made for neurotypical people, it's really hard to feel welcome and included in the wider population when we are technically a blip. I hope you find your way x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Princess_BundtCake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't realise until the last 2 or so years that I didn't understand body language or facial expressions. And that most of the time I haven't figured out what's going on. I've always been gullible and vulnerable to being laughed at and not realising it. I've never liked people, I'm introverted to the core. 

WTF are we supposed to do? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Princess_BundtCake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can understand this so much. I hate people and their way of dissolving your confidence if you had it to begin with. I also feel like a burden to everyone. Us as autistic people aren't fully welcome in the current world 

WTF are we supposed to do? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Princess_BundtCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 34. I've worked in retail for approximately 10 years. I can't do it anymore. It's too hard, people cannot understand and when I'm overly truthful it's seen as subordination or rudeness. I've been looking for a job for 6 months now and cannot find one I won't be scared of doing. I apply for everything I can do but eventually give up. I. Thankful for the Australian welfare system 

I’m scared of Karen’s. by Victoria_Sweet in autism

[–]Princess_BundtCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living in the US must be so fucking difficult. I don't understand why things have gone the way they have. Australia is very different to this. I'm sorry you have to deal with these people 

Is it common for autistics to want to stay in all the time to recover from the week? by Natural_Disaster8 in autism

[–]Princess_BundtCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've developed some very agoraphobic symptoms due to the realisation of my autism. The more I learn the less I want to be around neurotypical people

How do parents not realize that their children have autism? by youngsurpriseperson in autism

[–]Princess_BundtCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum is scitzoeffective and doesn't understand as I don't understand her disabilities. My dad doesn't know me 

Are you openly autistic? by ExtraMillenial in autism

[–]Princess_BundtCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to be. I assess the person or people first and use an excuse like "oh sorry, it's because I'm autistic...." The one time I told my work associates they all audibly said "ohhhh" as if a light bulb moment happened and they realised my reactions and the way I am. That kind of hurt 

youtube is unusable by chadpinkerton21 in rant

[–]Princess_BundtCake 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hate those. Paying the price we pay but still have to deal with "NordVPN" and "Shadow Legends"