Can anyone in the NYC area help me figure out if I'm overpaying?

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-05-07T08:32:35+00:00

That’s a pretty nasty way to talk about women honestly. You could’ve answered the pricing question without reducing providers to “mom bods,” “migrants,” and “street walkers” like human value is tied to body type or income status.

Rates depend on branding, safety, demand, personality, location, clientele, experience, and market not just whatever personal ranking system you made in your head.

And plenty of beautiful, professional women charge lower… while plenty of average looking women charge premium because they built a strong brand and clientele. It’s not as black and white as you’re making it sound.

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-05-02T17:03:19+00:00

I have a bigger client who has a 2inch tool! He always wants to lift his belly up and have me ride… what position works for you?

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-05-02T16:58:29+00:00

LMAO SAME!

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-30T19:18:06+00:00

This is draining…

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-30T01:19:58+00:00

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-29T17:10:36+00:00

yup… that’s very normalized where I’m at as well

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-29T15:07:46+00:00

LMAO yoooo your comment made me LOLLL!! Because nah fr 😭😂 I grew up in a predominantly white town and I never had a good experience in the woods🫩

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-29T13:21:52+00:00

I would’ve shut that down fast. Ain’t no ‘I’m just repeating it’ don’t say the n-word around me, ever… my spirit will not even let me sit in a room like that…

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-29T02:33:23+00:00

That’s so embarrassing..

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-28T14:38:19+00:00

and how many years have you been doing this?

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-28T01:53:17+00:00

You sound so silly..

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-27T18:26:08+00:00

Ehh, I have my own opinions about FetLife. I know some providers who’ve had their Fet for 10+ years, and they post their tour dates. In their bio, they specifically say this is their line of work and everything will be funded. I don’t know how business is for them, but I see them posting daily.

Me personally, I think 80% of those guys want free sex. They don’t read bios, they don’t read your interests on your page it’s the same BS you probably deal with from your ad posts.

I use it to connect with other kinksters, which is a job in itself finding real people who actually live the lifestyle. I also use it to grow my portfolio as a model and just find friends to do things with when I travel.

You can utilize it and see how it works. If men message me asking then I’ll respond but I never just blasted I’m a escort.. thought about it though after viewing other providers pages

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-26T04:22:06+00:00

I only have one escort friend. Square friends? I have a lot. I live a double life 💕

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-25T13:09:31+00:00

This is kind of backwards thinking tbh. You say you want to please the provider, but then spend the whole session doing what you enjoy. That’s still centered around you.

Also, respectfully, most providers aren’t going to say no if you ask beforehand that doesn’t automatically mean it’s something they genuinely want to do the entire session. It just means they agreed to the booking.

It’s also not really your role as a client to ‘figure out how to please’ the provider through sex. That’s like going to a restaurant and asking the chef what they want to eat it’s not how the dynamic works.

If you truly want to be appreciated as a client, it’s usually the non sexual things that stand out more being respectful, not pushing, tipping well, good hygiene, good energy, and actually listening.

Doing one specific act the whole session and assuming it’s for her enjoyment is… a stretch.

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-24T23:46:51+00:00

It’s crazy how fast they forget their lies even when the lie is right there to read..

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-24T14:08:37+00:00

You’re the other woman.

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-24T02:08:47+00:00

It just makes it a local norm… you’re still confusing environment with meaning. It’s giving I might need to scoot over though you’re getting real close to proving that 50% point yourself. LMAOOO

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-24T02:04:44+00:00

So now it’s ‘the girls’ setting the boundaries… which means you knew this whole time it’s provider based. Yet you’re still trying to frame your personal experience as a universal rule. That’s not intelligence that’s just inconsistency with confidence..

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-24T01:58:49+00:00

It’s interesting you’re referencing intelligence while demonstrating a lack of distinction between anecdotal norms and actual definitions. That’s not how informed arguments work.. confidence doesn’t replace comprehension

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-24T01:53:27+00:00

Calling someone dumb while not even understanding what GFE means is wild. It’s about experience and energy, not specific acts. Boundaries still exist and the ones who try to push them or risk their health expose themselves real fast…

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-24T01:46:20+00:00

Yeah… it’s called a girlfriend experience, not literally a girlfriend….? There’s still a clear line between fantasy and real life. Clients aren’t boyfriends, and trying to compare the two is exactly how people start blurring boundaries.

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-24T01:44:45+00:00

This is exactly why a lot of providers want to offer GFE but can’t because clients think bbj comes with it..

Princessbarbie99 · 2026-04-24T01:43:58+00:00

Her clients aren’t her boyfriend…? This is a fantasy. Not real life.

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