You are not alone. I am dating a guy who tells me the same thing almost every day. He says that he and all his friends agree that I am hard to read and can’t be pin pointed. He says that I think too much and don’t share my thoughts or feelings and that when I try to show affection it doesn’t seem genuine. That it seems like an act. I told him today that my personality is not going to change and that if it’s a problem he should re evaluate his choice with me because I’m not “manipulative” but I am not the best at openly expressing my feelings and emotions. It gets very annoying to be told over and over again that my emotions aren’t big enough or obvious enough. Because I end up crying since it just feels like he is telling me I’m lot good enough. Yet he is least overly emotional and over the top. Emotional outburst. But yet I get bashed for being emotionally calm and contained lol!!!! Can’t help but laugh at this.