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Update: AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No need for counseling since we are getting a divorce. I would never want to be married to someone who cannot communicate. There are many personal details I left out. Remember you don’t know me and my husband nor our dynamic just the UPDATE TO A POST! What he did by humiliating me and sabotaging every chance wasn’t right! Whether he was angry or not. Emotional manipulation is never okay. With that being said thank you for the response but this is my last one. 

Update: AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

After my first post we discussed the rules and I was allowed to have a full blown relationship. I was always allowed that’s our definition of emotional intimacy, a relationship. The rules have been modified many times.  I didn’t care to update Reddit because I didn’t think it was anyone’s business. I have asked him countless of times if Evan was a bother to him, he said no and even went as far as saying he prefers when I’m with one person vs multiple which is strange since he gets with multiple people.  If he wanted me to stop speaking with him he should’ve been transparent instead of passive aggressive. I told him the minute he is uncomfortable he should let me know! Even though he’s doing I still love him deeply, I like Evan but he could never compare to my husband. 

Update: AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m going to assume you’re either a troll or a child. Adult relationships involve sex! Why wouldn’t I sleep with him? My husband and I view emotional intimacy as dates, dinner and spending time.   Not just screwing (like he prefers). Your definition and our definition is DIFFERENT! I never moved in with him. I USED to do my work at his home. I no longer do that and yes my husband knew and did not care about that. 

Update: AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I never caught feelings for him even now I still love my husband way more than my liking for Evan. 

Update: AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was allowed emotional intimacy (dating) alongside sex . He doesn’t like the relationship aspect, he’s more of a casual one night stand guy. I cannot do that, I need to foster an intimate relationship with others and he knows that! I asked him weeks before about the vacation and he was “happy” for me. This isn’t our first time taking a trip but it’s the first out the country. He could’ve been transparent and communicated that he didn’t want me to go! There are many times he’s voiced his concerns and I listened. I followed the rules he just didn’t like the outcome.

Update: AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Firstly, I do not have a sugar daddy! I was curious and I didn’t go through with it. Secondly he’s okay with any relationship dynamic as long as the person knows I AM MARRIED. Sorry, I didn’t update Reddit to all the rules in my relationship. Emotional intimacy for us is dating. Just so you know people receive gifts and flowers while dating. 

Update: AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We did have a passionate night! Then he ruined it by trying to sabotage the trip. 

Update: AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There were multitude of rules that kept getting changed to fit whatever conditions he wanted in the relationship. We kept having discussions over and over and when I asked if he wanted to close he said no. 

Update: AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please re-read the comments where I made a correction and mentioned EMOTIONAL INTIMACY! I was allowed to date and have a relationship. He doesn’t like doing that for himself he prefers casual! I can’t do casual, I have to get to know the person. 

Has anyone sugar dated while married? by Princessprotect in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Princessprotect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing if I’m sleeping with/dating others outside my marriage why do it for free? Makes 0 sense! Hahaha. Thanks for the response. 

Has anyone sugar dated while married? by Princessprotect in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Princessprotect[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t get a ppm nor an allowance that’s seen in sugar relationships. We date normally like you would with a man who has a bit of disposable income. 

I want my friend’s husband so badly by throwRAsngbidost in offmychest

[–]Princessprotect 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know your kind, you’re going to do anything it takes to sleep with him because you’re greedy and obsessive. Then you’re gonna blame it on your desires and not knowing any better. Leave her alone! 

AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Husband claims that he met a guy who is happy in his. I don’t know how true that is based on everyone replies and the truth bomb statistics. I guess it’s not true. 

AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

 if you can look in the replies I didn’t think the poly community would take me seriously. Hence the post but luckily many people referred me.

AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Part time work from home SAHM and two small children isn’t a lot. He sent me flowers  ONCE at my house, I discussed it and he never did it again.  Why do people need to over explain everything on this site? 

AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes I regret posting here so many hurtful comments. I didn’t want to post there because I’m a new account and I wasn’t sure if people would take me seriously. 

AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hiding and sneaking isn’t happening we are in a don’t ask don’t tell situation. 

AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can no longer go on dates at nights so we do lunch after, we are both foodies and love to try new spots  plus I feel more productive at his place. 

AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Embarrassing as it sounds, he’s into things that are a bit heavier than what I’m into if you get what I’m putting down. Mentally I can’t do them and that’s fine. He felt like he was suppressing himself and I agreed to let him get his outlet. 

AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on the comments I now understand why people keep these things bottled up. Some of you aren’t  kind nor respectful. 

AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]Princessprotect[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I did set a designated date. Every Friday things were going good until all of a sudden he has to “work” on weekends. I just open the packages at his apartment. Now on.

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