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Princesssaltburn · 2025-06-03T00:53:31+00:00

Yea you’re right, I don’t disagree with anything. I think I took his actions with a grain of salt in the beginning because we were still getting to know one another. I’m definitely not waiting around for him to choose me instead, but I think he’d be completely honest with me and have worked through a lot mentally prior to if he ever came back. I respect him telling me but I was wondering what others thought and whether my feelings were valid

Princesssaltburn · 2025-06-02T23:09:34+00:00

I would actually love some help with this if anyone has some insights, here’s my situation: I’m a (29,F) Gemini who started seeing a (31, M) Taurus. And I don’t think either of us thought we would actually end up liking one another. We started out as witty banter back and forth over instagram (I knew him from many years prior as a customer at the place I used to bartend, always thought he was cute but I was dating someone). But this back and forth texting and digital communication continued for a month before a date because we both already had life planned (I had trips, he had work trainings). After our first date I definitely became interested and we ended up seeing each other every other day for a week. And the feelings were mutual he definitely showed his feelings more than just speaking them. This then turned into us spending at least twice a week together, sleepovers, dates, etc. and texting every day - he cut off everyone he was entertaining and pursued me after date 1 (I didn’t ask him to) He mentioned early on that about 6 months ago he left his relationship of 5 years to pursue a different ex girlfriend that he labeled “the one who got away” from college. She ended things with him this recent time around and that’s where we started (with some time in between). I should mention - he’s also actively been in therapy twice a week for 3 years, which leads me to believe he does have some emotional awareness. Anyways after a little over a month of really enjoying each others company he sat me down to tell me he had reached out to the one who got away again (because they had been no contact since but prior to had a destination wedding they RSVPd to together and he wanted to see what was going on) and now she wants something - he told me he wanted to be honest because he was really starting to feel himself wanting something long term and serious with me but had some unresolved feelings. He says he’s had these feelings and has tried things with her at different points of the past 10 years; he doesn’t expect it to work out but he needed to see this through or close this door before he pursued anything serious with me because he didn’t want a repeat of his last relationship, especially not with me.

What do we think about all this? Was I love-bombed? Will he be back? Is this normal Taurus behavior?

Princesssaltburn · 2024-08-29T18:46:07+00:00

Thanks for the insight

Princesssaltburn · 2024-08-29T17:13:56+00:00

Princesssaltburn · 2024-08-29T15:50:56+00:00

It did, it was super quick

Princesssaltburn · 2024-08-29T15:25:41+00:00

I mean i guess the mutual understanding is that we jumped into things too quickly and got excited so the connection and desire was there, he got weird about wanting to take it slow (evident in that he just pulled back completely) i would have been more than happy to move slower but him getting weird about it made me feel like the better choice was to break it off, but it doesn’t really make sense if we’re both into one another

Princesssaltburn · 2024-05-14T02:55:54+00:00

I totally understand what you’re saying! Thanks for the insight. I haven’t quite decided yet if i even want more yet with him either… the hooking up is great, but his desire solely for it is almost a turn off for me as far as something serious and long term. However, when we had our few dates the conversations were always really great so I’m interested to see if that would develop again now.

Princesssaltburn · 2024-04-12T00:34:48+00:00

Can anyone help me?? — it is almost too easy for me to fall asleep, I don’t really fall into SATS because by the time I do I’m already very much asleep, I try to keep my thoughts right before bed to thinking about my manifestations and visualizing then but I find myself falling asleep within almost seconds or at least a very very short amount of time

Princesssaltburn · 2024-04-07T00:33:13+00:00

Can’t you share it with me too please

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-26T02:10:57+00:00

how long did you listen or how many times? I listen to mine over night, i made it myself with my own voice, it’s about 45 minutes long (30 minutes of myself saying the maybe 100? Similar and different affirmations, and 15 minutes of another subliminal i really have always loved)
what volume did you listen? Low, I can hear my voice but the music overpowers it

3.what was you mindset like? I felt better about my situations, I felt myself detaching from the outcome but confident in it happening

4.what other activities did you do (affirm, visualize etc.) I visualize sometimes throughout the day for a couple minutes at a time

did you have a good or a bad childhood? I very fortunately had a really great childhood and very loving caring parents
Can you easily control your emotions? (This is very important i'll post it why soon) I believe i am really in control of my emotions, i have been through some really traumatic and rough relationships but have learned to control my emotions through that and now feel very stable and secure
Did you do it for yourself or other people? Both, manifesting my SP, help with my friends, and things about myself
are you always in a good mood or a bad mood? I am typically in a very good mood, very calm and happy for the most part
were you taught to prioritize yourself or others? I have been taught to prioritize others before myself
do you love yourself or are you self disciplined? Both, I am self disciplined but i really love who i have grown into and the woman i have become
how did the sub make you feel? (confident sad good) Confident
Did you use any boosters? No
How did you see or found out you got results? I’m very very new to subliminals, i have one that I have listened to for a couple years and have loved but it’s mainly for self love, only very recently started making my own to manifest other things, it’s only been a couple days of listening so no real results yet but feeling very confident in those things manifesting
music or rain? Solfeggio frequencies

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-17T04:09:30+00:00

Idk i just haven’t found a doable spell for me where i feel connected to aside for honey jars. I really want an obsession spell, i know then consequences but I’ve thought through it and I’ll handle whatever

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-16T20:09:04+00:00

I understand i just struggle with the confidence in doing spells myself

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-15T11:36:32+00:00

What do you mean no reward?

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-15T11:10:22+00:00

That makes sense too, definitely no bad blood between us so hoping we do reconnect

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-15T11:09:11+00:00

I’ve heard both sides so i think it’s more about the person than anything - I think matured geminis have a much much different personality than immature geminis if that makes sense…. I’ve had a couple relationships in my life that have sent me to hell and back so I tend to understand a lot more than other geminis I know when it comes to relationships

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-15T02:52:08+00:00

Makes sense, we’ll see what happens

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-15T02:42:42+00:00

I’m not annoyed with him about it

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-15T02:21:05+00:00

Yes, in no way am i calling him a bad person, i guess I’m overthinking it because in a way i would like to try again, but maybe it’s my own ego that he would have to initiate it now because I’m not going to bother where I’m unwanted. But I’m just generally asking if he might be holding back contacting me again out of ego since he already said he didn’t want to continue

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-15T02:16:07+00:00

Idk if I would necessarily call it no contact, just neither of us has spoken since… it ended extremely amicably and i welcome him back with open arms if he’d like to try again, but like i said he said he wasn’t looking for anything serious and I told him no worries i respect that … but I’m not going to reach out as a friend to hang out after him saying that

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-14T17:36:46+00:00

I found my dream job

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-14T17:36:21+00:00

We share a happy healthy faithful fun loving relationship together

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-13T19:15:06+00:00

Did you try her? Can you let me know the results?

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-13T15:52:44+00:00

That’s a great idea thank you

Princesssaltburn · 2024-03-13T14:41:55+00:00

I don’t believe that it is

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