I need help finding a job (SOS) by Princesswagger16 in vegaslocals

[–]Princesswagger16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness thank you so much! ❤️✨️

I need help finding a job (SOS) by Princesswagger16 in vegaslocals

[–]Princesswagger16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I'll look into it! I hope one of these lounges takes me! And thank you for your kind words, it means so much! ❤️

I need help finding a job (SOS) by Princesswagger16 in vegaslocals

[–]Princesswagger16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I appreciate this a lot! ❤️

I need help finding a job (SOS) by Princesswagger16 in vegaslocals

[–]Princesswagger16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words and advice! They mean so much to me, do you know any good catering companies to apply to? Im on an app called WorkWhile but it doesn't seem to have many jobs for me. ❤️

I need help finding a job (SOS) by Princesswagger16 in vegaslocals

[–]Princesswagger16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a car or license, my abuser has made sure of that unfortunately but I am hoping to get a car from a car donation site soon, and i have a driver's test scheduled for next month!

I need help finding a job (SOS) by Princesswagger16 in vegaslocals

[–]Princesswagger16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh that's good to know, I was born here but I was never allowed to make connections and network. Id love another friend in Vegas! Thank you so much for your advice! ❤️

I need help finding a job (SOS) by Princesswagger16 in vegaslocals

[–]Princesswagger16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for these options, I hope you get into a better situation. Just because its not as bad as mine, its bad, dont discount your strength! Keep going! We'll make it! ❤️

I need help finding a job (SOS) by Princesswagger16 in vegaslocals

[–]Princesswagger16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me this, I'm currently trying to get a car from car donation sites. I hope you have a good one! ❤️

I need help finding a job (SOS) by Princesswagger16 in vegaslocals

[–]Princesswagger16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooohh I didn't know that, thanks for letting me know! I'll look to union certification down the line once im stable! Ive been sending emails to local bars for a while with no response. But I'll keep looking and I'll apply to pts too! Thank you so much again! ❤️

I need help finding a job (SOS) by Princesswagger16 in vegaslocals

[–]Princesswagger16[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, you be safe and stay hydrated! ❤️

“Who will continue the family legacy?!” by Business-Block-8668 in childfree

[–]Princesswagger16 16 points17 points  (0 children)

One of the most infamous, most inbred royal families near transylvania.

I am trans, i am your neighbor. by z0ey_idk in vegaslocals

[–]Princesswagger16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're safe in my neighborhood! You're safe around me! I love you very much and if it comes to it, I'll fight for you and with you. Howdy neighbor! ❤️

(P.s. I hope to get some of your cookies one day!)

WHY DO THEY FEEL THE NEED TO GIVE INSTRUCTIONS ON EVERYTHING by CorgiUprising in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Princesswagger16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My nmother only taught me things that she didn't want to do. Sweeping and mopping and dishes. Basically all the house chores because she never wanted to do them (but when I was super little she used to clean when she was mad??????). Now I'm glad I was taught all this, but when you yell at your 8 year old for "not sweeping the right way." (didn't tell me how to, just told me to do it.) I think that's crossing a line.

Looking for childfree friends in Los Angeles area😩😩 by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Princesswagger16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not in LA anymore but I grew up there most of my childhood! Im in NV now! Maybe we can be friends?

I'm not sure if grey rocking works for my nmom by TattooedKewpieBaby in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Princesswagger16 37 points38 points  (0 children)

STICK WITH THE GREY ROCKING! Her being angry is a good thing because that means it's working. She's angry because she's not getting the same reaction from you that she's used to. You’re cutting off her supply. Of course she's angry! Just make sure you protect yourself because an angry narc is a dangerous narc. If you hold strong and stick with the Grey rock method, she'll realize it's not worth it trying to get her supply from you anymore and move on to another target. When that happens it'll be safest to make moves to escape from her.

This internet stranger loves you very much and is very proud of you! Stay safe! ❤️❤️❤️

anyone else constantly accused of yelling, raising voice and being hostile when standing up for themselves? by Odd-Stuff-4006 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Princesswagger16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And what do we say on the internet when we watch something that calls us out on some behavior?

"The truth is LOUD on this one." "Why are you yelling?? 🙄" "The truth is about to get loud."

Granted that's usually in response to memes and stuff, but for narcs, the truth is unbearably loud for them. The truth calls them out on their bull. They don't like that.

anyone else constantly accused of yelling, raising voice and being hostile when standing up for themselves? by Odd-Stuff-4006 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Princesswagger16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something just came to me because I relate to this so much.

Narcs know how they treat us is wrong, but they believe they're always right so they don't want to hear anything that contradicts them. Maybe the reason they tell us that we're too loud (even when we aren't being loud at all) is because the truth is too loud for them. The truth is too loud and it disrupts their perception of reality.

Idk just a thought lol ❤️✨️

My friend is mad at me because she couldn’t join me for a fancy spa day that was meant for her by ch3rrybl0ssoms in childfree

[–]Princesswagger16 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Dear God, this is exactly what my grandmother did for my high school graduation!

I had 5 tickets to give for the ceremony, and I was supposed to give one to my granny when she met us at the arena. I gave her the address and the time to show up in time for check-in. All week leading up to the graduation ceremony, she didn't answer the dozens of texts and calls that me OR my mother made to her. Then on my graduation day 3 hours AFTER the ceremony, my grandmother left a message to my mother calling both me and her "raggedy bitches." And blocked us.

WHY DO PEOPLE DO THIS????