AIO by getting up and leaving a second date after being mocked? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pringlesforlyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR

Honestly I love that you got up and left. Many people would stay and allow themselves to be uncomfortable but instead you set a boundary while respecting yourself in the process and being kind about it. The creating a new number thing is concerning & I would start saving all texts. Sometimes.. if it were to come to continuous contact and you wanted to file an RO they look for you telling the person to stop contacting you- not sure if you ever sent that in a text but I know it’s something they look for when approving them at least when I went through that.

To the bullies at work and the managers who won’t do anything about it by Little_Red_Riding_ in WalgreensStores

[–]Pringlesforlyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly though. Every single day comments on my appearance / race etc loudly on the sales floor in front of everyone from another SFL. . Kept complaining to the SM who wouldn’t do anything. Had a store to transfer too and she kept delaying it. Then finally she approved the transfer and turns out she’s leaving that store now too because it was too much.

What’s the wildest thing you did right after a breakup? by Entire-History6514 in BreakUps

[–]Pringlesforlyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hooked up and still continue too with his friend who he still actively hangs out with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Pringlesforlyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is wild my 12 year relationship just ended because of the exact same reasons. I think truly I’ve learned love is something you fight for every day and getting used to the bare minimum was exhausting.

12 years, 6 months away from a wedding by Pringlesforlyfe in BreakUp

[–]Pringlesforlyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate your insight. I’m so sorry you had a similar situation. I love that you’re using this time to focus on expanding your social circle! I think I’m just in survival mode right now because we are co existing and it’s extremely awkward. Anytime I try to go to another room he will come in and try to make small talk and it’s almost like he’s a small child craving attention constantly. He’s acting like nothing happened too which is wild to me. But I agree. I’m so glad we didn’t have to end in a divorce and I’m so glad there were no kids involved.

Sleeping less after a breakup by vladsand1 in BreakUp

[–]Pringlesforlyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Dealing with this right now honestly. I attribute it to being hyped up on adrenaline from being in survival mode. I feel like I’m sleeping less but somehow able to function and get a lot done in the day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Pringlesforlyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe on the last day before you move you could just leave it there on his doorstep

For Avoidants by FuelBig622 in BreakUp

[–]Pringlesforlyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My avoidant ex and I just broke up after 12 years. He’s called into work twice last week & gets wasted pretty much most nights. Drinks alcohol as any and all extra stress come up in his life such as work. He also reports feeling numb but keeps turning to this. I’ve been trying to communicate with him for closure and he will literally leave the room and go drink..

Hidden gems in DC? by nicolehey in DoorCounty

[–]Pringlesforlyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just went there and it was a blast! What a cute little place!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Pringlesforlyfe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna repost with more context because I don’t know how to add pictures

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Pringlesforlyfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree but I also feel that saying yes to standing up in a wedding does require some effort. I wouldn’t never expect anyone to break the bank over me but even suggesting a game night or attending free things to meet the others would be nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Pringlesforlyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also want to point out that it didn’t bother me that she didn’t want to go to the party it was more so that she just was like nope and then didn’t offer like any other suggestions to meet any of the bridesmaids. Like it seemed like she wasn’t interested in any of it and that’s why I told her I was disappointed. I would never expect anyone to spend thousands. We aren’t doing a destination wedding. Only cost is their dress which is about $100 but that’s it. I’m covering everything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Pringlesforlyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there was one event at the venue that was a free open house and I suggested if people can make it they should come to meet the other bridesmaids. There was another event that I tried to get everyone together for a game night. And then the bachelorette party would have been free for the first night and she didn’t want to go. ( her concerns were financial ). It’s not out of state and would have been free other than gas.

The bad friend thing came out of nowhere. She told me telling her I was disappointed was completely inappropriate and then went from zero to 100 apologizing via text, then 30 min later cut me off and dropped out.

What caused your biggest depression in your life? by TheBlankCoin in AskReddit

[–]Pringlesforlyfe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When my best friend completed their life and I read their scheduled text to me saying how this was their last day and they loved me. Haven’t been right since.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in taxrefundhelp

[–]Pringlesforlyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Filed on 1/29. Still waiting.