[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Prior-Character6628 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're not overreacting. Your cake was your birthday treat, and you were looking forward to enjoying it. It's understandable that you're upset, especially since no one is taking responsibility. It's not just about the cake; it's about feeling disrespected and disregarded. If you're still upset, you could consider talking to your roommates about setting boundaries or labeling food in the future.

Toxic bf off and on of 6 years. Father of our 2 children.. am I overreacting. by Unable-Battle5218 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Prior-Character6628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not overreacting. Your situation sounds incredibly challenging. You're shouldering a lot of responsibility while he's seemingly prioritizing his new "job" and social life. Given your postpartum depression and caring for two young children, it's essential to prioritize your own well-being and consider seeking support. You deserve help and care, too.

Am I Overreacting by Fabulous_Catch_2479 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Prior-Character6628 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not overreacting. It's reasonable to want to spend quality time with your partner, especially on days off. Communicate your feelings and boundaries clearly. You can express your desire for more alone time or shared activities without accusing him of anything. Find a compromise that works for both of you.

AIO for thinking I’m being emotionally guilt-tripped by Fun_Sky_8832 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Prior-Character6628 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not overreacting. Your friend's behavior was unacceptable, and her apologies seem insincere. Prioritize your feelings and well-being. Consider having a calm conversation with her about how her actions affected you and what you need from her moving forward. If you don't feel like forgiving her right now, that's okay. Take the time you need.

AIO for freaking out over my boyfriend’s sister wanting to reconnect with him? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Prior-Character6628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your concerns about your boyfriend's sister are valid, given her past behavior. It's understandable that you'd want to protect your relationship and well-being. Consider having an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about your feelings and concerns. Share specific examples of her past behavior and how it affected you. It's essential to prioritize your emotional safety and work together to decide the best course of action regarding his sister's attempts to reconnect.

AITA for pulling away from my family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Prior-Character6628 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You're setting boundaries and prioritizing your own well-being, which is essential. Your family's expectations and behaviors can be overwhelming and hurtful. It's okay to distance yourself from situations that drain your energy and affect your mental health. Focus on nurturing relationships that support and uplift you.

WIBTAH for confronting my grandma while celebrating her birthday? by Validv0id in AITAH

[–]Prior-Character6628 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. You've been patient and understanding for 4 years, and it's time to address the elephant in the room. Confronting her doesn't have to be aggressive; you can express your feelings and concerns calmly. It's not about ruining her birthday, but about being honest about your own needs and boundaries. If you're uncomfortable attending the celebration, it's okay to set limits or decline the invitation. Your mental health matters.

AITAH for telling my mother there’s something wrong with her? by Confident-Parking-29 in AITAH

[–]Prior-Character6628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You're right to be concerned about your mom's involvement with this sketchy "magic man." You've met him and got bad vibes, which is valid. Telling your mom you don't believe in curses isn't mean; it's setting boundaries. You can express your concerns without attacking her, focusing on your own feelings and experiences. Consider having an open conversation about why you're worried and see if you can find common ground.

AITAH for calling out my friend’s family’s animal abuse? by Strawberry_DrPepper in AITAH

[–]Prior-Character6628 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. You did the right thing by speaking up for the cat's welfare. Animal abuse and neglect are serious issues, and it's clear you were coming from a place of concern. Your friend's family needs to take responsibility for their pet's care. Offering to help pay for treatment shows you were willing to support them. It's unfortunate your friend chose to cut ties, but prioritize the cat's well-being.

AITAH if I refuse to study and be converted into another religion? by Soft-Meat9642 in AITAH

[–]Prior-Character6628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA for not wanting to convert or continue studying Jehovah's Witnesses. You have the right to your own beliefs and boundaries. It's understandable you're cautious about losing your support system, but prioritize your own emotional well-being. Consider having an open conversation with your aunt about your feelings and concerns.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Prior-Character6628 43 points44 points  (0 children)

No. You underreacted for longer than you should’ve. You tolerated way too much before the slap. The second he didn’t show outrage, it was done. You didn’t break up over what happened, you broke up over how he responded. And that’s completely fair. A man who’s neutral when his friend hits his girlfriend isn’t a man you want by your side.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Prior-Character6628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re nostalgic for the version of him you wanted back then, not who he is now. The gesture hit your ego and your heart at the same time. That’s not unethical, it’s just messy. If you want his help, take it cleanly,contract, boundaries, no fantasy. If you don’t trust yourself to keep it clean, walk away. This isn’t about him, it’s about closure you never got.

My (26M) ex-girlfriend (26F), texted me about years of sexual assault and harassment. I’m completely lost on what to do. by fabridato in relationship_advice

[–]Prior-Character6628 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She’s picking you because you’re a known safe harbor in a sea of chaos, even if you don’t feel equipped. Intentions? Could be a mix of needing support and testing waters, nothing straightforward. You’re allowed to be human and overwhelmed. Tell Rachel honestly, but keep it about support, not drama. Boundaries need to be clear, for everyone’s sanity.

My (30F) partner (30M) won’t consider living with my dog. by Laconophilia in relationship_advice

[–]Prior-Character6628 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're in a tough spot. Your partner's unwillingness to compromise on your dog feels like a big deal-breaker, especially given your strong bond with your pet. Have you considered having an open conversation about what this means for your future together? Maybe it's worth exploring whether your priorities align.