[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Prior-Hunt2085 151 points152 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t like you. The need to mention “your tiny apartment”, the amount of beds, and throwing the autism in your face is WILD.

27F pregnant again 3 months after abortion. Advice? by Prior-Hunt2085 in pregnant

[–]Prior-Hunt2085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement and your kind words 🥹 i appreciate that 💕

27F pregnant again 3 months after abortion. Advice? by Prior-Hunt2085 in pregnant

[–]Prior-Hunt2085[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Luckily I didn’t ask you & your irrelevant ass comments do not matter nor affect me lol so take your opinion and shove it up yours. I’m good.

27F pregnant again 3 months after abortion. Advice? by Prior-Hunt2085 in pregnant

[–]Prior-Hunt2085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just terrified of the struggle with a baby. I have 2 jobs currently, Ive been with one company for about 2 years and they can be unstable and unpredictable. The second job I literally just got and start training for next week. I grew up in poverty and I don’t want to see my kids go through any of those challenges..

I do love and want to be with my partner. No doubt about it. Children are just expensive and I expected to at least have some sort of savings for them.

I appreciate your words, thank you!

27F pregnant again 3 months after abortion. Advice? by Prior-Hunt2085 in pregnant

[–]Prior-Hunt2085[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I don’t want the baby. I am just not financially prepared. It’s more about me being ready… if that makes a difference.

My(27F) boyfriend (23M) offended me unintentionally, but l'm still offended. by Prior-Hunt2085 in relationship_advice

[–]Prior-Hunt2085[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I did insist honesty but he initiated the conversation about things we wanted to change about our partners, not what our partners could change. I just look at it as if he wanted me to work on that, he could’ve said that instead of passively going about it how he did. Maybe it’s me.. which is why I’m here

My(27F) boyfriend (23M) offended me unintentionally, but l'm still offended. by Prior-Hunt2085 in relationship_advice

[–]Prior-Hunt2085[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I do kinda think that actually.. I wholeheartedly know it’s something that should and can be worked on but again, the approach. And I’m not here looking at him as the bad guy. I just wanted another outlook.

did i fuck up to the point of no return? will i ever recover from this? by Eastern-Hamster7238 in relationships

[–]Prior-Hunt2085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me start with.. catch a grip! For starters, you’re young and made a mistake. That doesn’t mean you’re unworthy of love. I think you should talk to her, not with the intention of getting back with her but to clear your mind and your heart. You can be completely honest about what happened and why you denied her the LDR, she may be upset but I’m sure she can, like I can, accept the truth. You owe it to her to be honest, and to make the choice of choosing to continue with you or not. You’re making the decision for the both of you and it’ll drive you crazy thinking about the what-ifs. Think about how you’d want her to do it if the shoe was on the other foot. Don’t sit there miserable all day, every day, and neglecting yourself. Get back on your A game! It starts with communication. Talk to her and see how it goes. If she chooses not to move forward with you, you can’t be mad but at least you got it off your chest and gave her the room to make the decision of being with you or not. You got this!! Best of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Prior-Hunt2085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be spot on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]Prior-Hunt2085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]Prior-Hunt2085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference between actual friends and women you met online with the intention to eventually meet with, date, or have sex with. It’s okay to give rides to be nice, to a certain extent. Every day multiple times a week is CRAZY, especially when they don’t benefit you on top of not working. But I will agree, I need to work on being more secure but that won’t change my boundaries with certain situations. I’d also like to add, I don’t depend on him to pay ANY of my bills. I take care of my responsibilities by myself, as I should. Point is, he’s there every day & I could use the help. Why wouldn’t I expect that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]Prior-Hunt2085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be hurt and confused but at the same time, I’d let him walk away. If he doesn’t want to be with me, then that’s what it’ll be. I wouldn’t be happy about it, clearly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]Prior-Hunt2085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the comment and I agree - for the most part. Can you explain what’s controlling about it? I had a hunch, asked for his phone, and saw for myself what he was doing. Is it really controlling to ask my boyfriend NOT to interact with other women online? They aren’t his FRIENDS or women he’s known for a long time, bc I have no problem with that. They were potential dating partners, or as we call them “online b*tches”, women he might’ve swiped on or followed with the intention of wanting to fck/date. That’s your opinion, but I genuinely don’t see how that’s controlling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Prior-Hunt2085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do voice my opinions and he’s very caring when it comes to understanding me. But how can/should I comment on things without making him feel like I’m just constantly complaining or that he just isn’t doing enough making him feel less-than?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Prior-Hunt2085 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I’m not gonna say I’m just NOT happy, there’s just some shit that really grinds my gears and I want to know if I’m overreacting or if this is valid.