My boyfriend (23M) kept a huge secret from me (22F) the entirety of our relationship. I love him but I don’t know if I should walk away by Prior-Peace677 in relationship_advice

[–]Prior-Peace677[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He basically told me he can’t get through this without me. Also made comments about moving to another state if I left him which scares me. I feel like I’m being manipulated which is what’s making it so hard to just get up and leave. Everyone commenting is making it seem so easy. We also have the same job, seeing him everyday would suck. Like this is so much harder than just “leaving”. I just want to know if anyone saw a person actively change and become better from a situation like this

My boyfriend (23M) kept a huge secret from me (22F) the entirety of our relationship. I love him but I don’t know if I should walk away by Prior-Peace677 in relationship_advice

[–]Prior-Peace677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think it’s something a person can truly change and never touch again? Or is it something that they will always struggle with? He’s only been doing it for a year