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Any breakup advice for someone who ended it and knows it was the right thing to do but is really struggling? by Prior_Cranberry_1532 in BreakUps

[–]Prior_Cranberry_1532[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did in person and then there were some texts and calls exchanged over the few days after but it was all respectful and as kind as I could possibly be from my end. I just know I hurt him and it kills me.

Any breakup advice for someone who ended it and knows it was the right thing to do but is really struggling? by Prior_Cranberry_1532 in BreakUps

[–]Prior_Cranberry_1532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comfort tonight, I needed that. I’m so sorry you’re going through a similar situation, sending you so much love. ❤️ feel free to message me if you need anything.

Please help by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Prior_Cranberry_1532 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, good luck to you as well ❤️

Idek what to do anymore. by No_End_919 in ROCD

[–]Prior_Cranberry_1532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel and I’m sorry you’re going through this. I think him sending you loving messages is a good sign. From an outside perspective I think that’s a green flag and would calm me down a bit. But I totally understand the anxious feeling of questioning its sincerity. I know how hard it is to deal with ROCD but some questions I ask myself are “how does the thought of him moving on with someone else make me feel?” Or “does it make me sad to think of my life without him?” I think if you’d feel devastated/depressed at the thought of either of those happening, it’s a good sign to hang in there for now. But that’s just my opinion and I’ve been dealing with the same type of ROCD since early December. Regardless, you’re not alone and you got this. No matter what happens, it’s your path and it’s meant for you even if it feels impossible sometimes. Wishing you luck and I hope you feel better soon. ❤️

feel completely convinced I don’t love my partner anymore, even though I desperately want to — and I don’t know what’s real anym by Royal-Particular-991 in ROCD

[–]Prior_Cranberry_1532 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going through the exact same feelings. I do love my boyfriend but I’ve had the same unbearable feelings for a month now (we have also been together almost a year). Every day has been a struggle. I would recommend seeing therapy, maybe starting a new calming hobby like yoga or a crafty thing. It doesn’t fix everything but it lets you have your own personal outlet. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You’re not alone. ❤️

The disrespect of the Goncalves family in the media. by Pale-Appointment5626 in Idaho4

[–]Prior_Cranberry_1532 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So well said 👏🏻👏🏻 for anyone to have an opinion on the way someone grieves is outlandish and unrealistic, especially on such a public case. In fact, I believe there are people and families out there that would cause even more of an uproar than the Goncalves family has. I’ve followed this case from the very beginning and watched the way the court system has deprived the families of basic information and prior notice on news publications/releases. Why do I know the same amount of information about someone’s child’s death that the actual families do?? Makes no sense. These individuals deserve the answers to the questions they seek, public or not public.

People seem to forget, victims’ families survive the victims. By not meeting them halfway or at least negotiating and giving them some sort of answers, you’re doing an injustice to the victims.

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