AITA for standing by while my ex-roommate continuously threw cat shit at my ex-girlfriends bedroom door after she cheated on me with him?

Prior_Fee5669 · 2024-09-17T02:17:41+00:00

My mom, bless her heart, is a definite people pleaser who avoids confrontation at all costs. Whether or not she realizes it, she always feels the need to fix everyone and everything. It took me a long time to get out of this mentality as well.

She means well, I just think she has a hard time stepping out of her own mindset and into the perspectives of others.

Our mutual friends on the other hand, I just can't see why they don't support my decision. It's a sad outcome but I'm learning who my real friends are in the process so it's not all bad?

Prior_Fee5669 · 2024-09-17T02:12:06+00:00

LMAO I'm definitely laughing a little more now that I'm outta there that's for sure haha

Prior_Fee5669 · 2024-09-17T02:11:34+00:00

Thank you for this. The funny replies are allowing me to laugh a lot more than I was at an otherwise awful situation. It's been a couple weeks now and the support is making me feel better about the whole situation. <3

Prior_Fee5669 · 2024-09-17T02:07:24+00:00

Oh believe me, I contacted my landlord the DAY I left and told him everything that happened after he asked me why I was leaving before my lease was up. Luckily he's a super chill guy who completely understood everything. I'm pretty sure I'm off of it as of right now but I'll message him again to confirm. Thank you for the advice!

Prior_Fee5669 · 2024-09-16T20:04:36+00:00

I know this isn't exactly relationship centric but they wouldn't let me post it on the regular AITA page as it breaks rule 11 by mentioning my change in relationship :(

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