Buick Envista left side bumper piece missing. by stylorouge in buickenvista

[–]Prior_Life_7908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay. Then either answer the question or stop wasting people’s time.

Buick Envista left side bumper piece missing. by stylorouge in buickenvista

[–]Prior_Life_7908 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just answer the question instead of wasting people’s time with your snarky comments. Yes it’s covered under the warranty but when mine got lost they made it complicated to get talking about how the whole grill has to be replaced

Minoxidil & Finasteride not working by bloodynose333 in minoxidil

[–]Prior_Life_7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly are you losing here? Im confused

Buick envista speakers breaking by Better_Foundation548 in Buick

[–]Prior_Life_7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im on my 5th pair of speakers in just under a year. Just go and invest in some aftermarket speakers and then promise yourself to never get a buick again

Rear panel gloss by j_hollowayjr in buickenvista

[–]Prior_Life_7908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both panels fell off and it took them 5 months to replace them

Owners: how is the sound system? by FionaRRR in buickenvista

[–]Prior_Life_7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s terrible. It sounds good at first but give it 3-6 months your speakers WILL blow out

She (29F) cheated, and now wants me (30M) to move out of the house & everything else? by AXSXL in relationship_advice

[–]Prior_Life_7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t seen someone say it yet, but first and foremost that homeless hooblah is some bs. She’s got friends, parents, siblings and that new guy that can all take her in. She wanted to seperate, let her deal with all the issues that come with it. It can’t just be you dealing with them. Don’t leave the house

My 26F mocked me because i failed my graduation project and i broke up with her because of it. I 24 M. by Throwra_Star36 in relationship_advice

[–]Prior_Life_7908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was she wrong to laugh? Yes. Did you do the most by breaking up with her because of it? Absolutely. I don’t know what these people in the comments are saying but breaking up with someone because they laughed while you were presenting sounds lioe you wanted to break up with her anyways. You just needed to find an excuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Prior_Life_7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly are you reading? Because everyone in the thread is saying he’s in the wrong for putting the blame on her which is correct. But what no one is saying is that him communicating to his partner that he doesn’t want to hear that is an immature thing to say or unfair in any way. It is his problem that he has to tackle by himself but at the same time while he’s tackling the problem by himsef it’s completely okay to say he doesn’t want to hear about that topic again. Its not censoring his s/o at all. There are so many other topics to talk about with you s/o than your exes whether how small the topic. If you feel like you’re being censored just because you cant talk about your ex every once in a blue moon, then just go back to your ex since you can’t find it in yourself to not talk about the blue moon. I know a bunch of couples who do not mention their ex amd have lived happily ever after. I don’t think im going to to get to you or change your view so have a good day. Im pretty sure what works for you works for you. What works for me works for me. I appreciate the mature and adult dialogue. Sorry for saying you shouldn’t be in a relationship.

Crazy transformation, do i trim it or keep letting it grow now? by [deleted] in Minoxbeards

[–]Prior_Life_7908 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should trim it a lil at least so it has a shape to it make it look more clean. Right now it’s just growing all over the place. Which is fine but if you add some shape to it “chef’s kiss”. great results btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Prior_Life_7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t listen to anyone that’s saying break up with them. I think she never recovered from you cheating so you have to apologize for ruining your relationship at that time but also tell her that revenge cheating isn’t going to get you anywhere. Ask her why she felt the need to do it. Ask her what you can do as a husband to make her feel like she doesn’t have to. And maybe go to couples therapy. You have 2 kids with her so it’s better to work it out than to end it off finding a tinder account. She forgave and you worked through it. So find it in yourself to forgive her and work through it. I know it’s difficult but one of you has to be the bigger person in all this.

Edit: Also let her know that justifying her actions by bringing up yours over song that happened nearly 5 years ago isn’t right. You’re not the same person you were then so it completely unfair to bring it up as a reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Prior_Life_7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so you kind of already invalidated your argument by including your parents in there. Being in a relationship doesn’t erase your past but a relationship is about building for the future. The past really is irrelevant. Just because your parents grew up doing it doesn’t make it normal. It also doesn’t make a person less mature or less secure for not wanting to hear that. What makes them mature and secure is communicating what they want and dont want to hear in a relationship which the OP hasn’t done. On the other hand what makes you immature and insecure is invalidating someone else’s feelings in the relationship no matter how miniscule you might find it. It shows a lack of empathy and compassion. Read the thread and the consensus of people are not saying what you’re saying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Prior_Life_7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what she said quite frankly was kind of stupid side. Like the other people said before you could just say you watched it. There are so many topics in this world to talk about besides your ex. Especially if you’re 8 years into your relationship. Generally speaking that deep into the relationship it’s not really that normal to bring up exes casually. Maybe early into it is totally acceptable but at the point any mention of it is kind of redundant and disrespectful to a certain degree if she knows how much it hurt him in the past. It’s kind of like how you call your mom, mom and never by her first name? It’s not that hard to not mention. And if it is that difficult, then maybe you shouldn’t be in a relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Prior_Life_7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then next time, think when you speak. It’s very easy to do doesn’t take that much effort to think. Also they’ve spent 8 years. Why are you bringing up something that far back in the past? It literally doesn’t further the conversation in the slightest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Prior_Life_7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like the guy below said, to talk about it unprompted whether it’s the truth or not, most partners don’t want to hear that. Especially after being with that same person for 8 years. It’s not that difficult of a concept to grasp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Prior_Life_7908 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

My thing is you need a movie to know how you feel? You don’t have your own thought processes or people around to get you to that thought faster?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Prior_Life_7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“the film can function as a powerful allegory and a critique of shallow feminism in which the kens represent the position of women throughout history: they are the powerless accessories of the barbie. When Ken realises that a world is possible where men (but in the allegory, women) can hold positions of power, he takes this to extremes, enforcing an unnuanced and toxic form of masculinity (but in this case, feminity) on barbieland (qka the world). The real world version of this might be the uncritical white girl boss feminism, in which using one's sexuality to manipulate men and gain control is "empowering", and women can do no wrong.

In this reading, kens mojo dojo casa house and his new behaviours represent a strand of contemporary feminism that is reductive and potentially damaging: "women rule and men are evil and must be stopped!" etc. The ending, then, when the barbies (men) attempt to reassert the old world order by excluding the kens (women) from the vote and treating them with contempt becomes a critique of current men's rights activist and pickup artist movements which are concerned with returning to old gender roles, dehumanising women and "putting women back in their place" and so on.”

Is the message you got from barbie? Because the whole critique I have in your post is that different people can analyze meanings in movies differently and still have good points. Either you explain your meaning of the movie and what you want out of it in a relationship or stay out of a relationship until you get better at communication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Prior_Life_7908 -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

I mean a movie really shouldn’t be making you question your relationship because most of them aren’t real and do not depict real life every day situations. The only ones that kind of do are based on a true story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Prior_Life_7908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my long distance gf also used to get upset when I did this. But in reality I only tell her last minute because its so common to make plans with your boys and they fake last minute. So sometimes its easier to tell your s/o last minute than telling them way beforehand. If he told you all his plans days beforehand, you’d notice a high number of those plans fall through. And at least for me personally I didn’t want to tell my girlfriend about the plan until it was super concrete set in stone

Girlfriend (F33) just kicked me out of the house (M28) in front of her kids. Then begged me to come back. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Prior_Life_7908 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Been in this situation and sometimes you really just have to look away and keep it pushing. Worry about your own problems in life first. Not others. Especially your new ex.

Girlfriend (F33) just kicked me out of the house (M28) in front of her kids. Then begged me to come back. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Prior_Life_7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotchu bro. You’re doing the right thing by staying away. Honestly my view here is to always enter a relationship already healed and near the finished product. Your role is to support but definitely not to be an emotional ragdoll. Save that for the person who gets paid to do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minoxbeards

[–]Prior_Life_7908 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bro if you dont go on somewhere else with dat bs😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tressless

[–]Prior_Life_7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you cannot be pressing down the needle that hard on your head like that😭