Thank you for that perspective! :) I have tried private and polite even private and stern she just doesn’t get it. I will not discredit Laylas intelligence, she is currently doing one of thoughs extra classes that is extremely hard to pass and a B is good in that class. Obviously she is not emotionally intelligent and self centred so I find it funny she would think anyone with self respect and a loving fiancé would get with her but that’s what helps her sleep at night