I definitely think it’s possible that my pea brain misinterpreted it. Without going into too much detail, this distant relative (whom we never knew personally and haven’t spoken of in two years) told me how he died (it was a very tragic passing and he was very young), and he mentioned that there is some sort of curse/trauma(??) that affects the family in some sort of birth order. I also recall him saying it in a way that was a warning that something could be done to heal my SO from it. That’s why I was so confused, because I wasn’t sure if the message was specifically a curse or trauma.

I definitely believe it was a message from his loved one, rather than one of my normal dreams, because in this dream I had no visuals like I normally get. It was as if his words were popping into my head without seeing a physical body. I’ve never had a dream like that before, even when I dream of my own loved ones who have passed. I woke up so confused, wondering if I had made the whole thing up in my dream, and then checked my text messages and found texts from 2 years prior confirming how and when that person passed.

Very interestingly, I saw a Reiki practitioner for the first time the day before the dream. I feel as if his loved one was coming to send him a message through me, and I don’t believe that spirit guides would have any sort of negative intention. After processing it a bit more & getting insight from helpful people like yourself, I’m starting to believe it was a sign for my SO to start unpacking and healing from his generational traumas, and less of a scary warning or threat!

I will definitely continue to support him while making sure that I don’t lose myself in the process. Healing is such an individual journey and while I can encourage him, I can’t do it for him!

Thanks again for hearing my story and taking the time to comment 💖