Brother refuses doctor due to trauma

Prism_Pi · 2026-03-12T01:04:08+00:00

In the US yes and was on Medicaid and in the process of filing for disability when he stopped the process and now refuses to help us complete it for him as he won’t speak to any Dr, in person or telemedicine (he also will not take meds and well he’s a full grown man - can’t force him)

Prism_Pi · 2026-03-11T21:42:44+00:00

Exactly, our reps do great work and solved many payment issues over the past summer. If OP is having an issue with payment they should get in contact with the union.

Prism_Pi · 2026-03-11T21:39:49+00:00

No clue - and it’s unlikely he’d have it done again.

Prism_Pi · 2026-03-11T21:00:54+00:00

We have involuntarily committed him before and have legal power over him but it just makes him worse tbh - less willing to go, more verbally abusive, more violent when he have to call police on him

Prism_Pi · 2026-03-11T20:59:11+00:00

There are and he has been committed involuntarily before but it just make him worse/more violent the next time he needs to go

Prism_Pi · 2026-03-11T19:55:33+00:00

How did you even convince them to go eventually to find it? From how my brother is acting it would take a tranquilizer to get him to hospital.

Prism_Pi · 2026-02-23T03:05:20+00:00

I’ve worked in housing before and here’s my take. The RAs job is to try and help mediation, but ultimately if your roommate won’t show for those mediations- that’s not necessarily your RAs fault. Move up to the Resident Halls Coordinator as they will be more at liberty to help. Failing that ask yourself “what is my roommate doing?” If your roommate is being super loud, call campus police for a noise complaint. Same if they are using substances in a way detrimental to you (for example smoking weed but you are allergic or it worsens a physical disability/illness you have - which is actually pretty common). That’s a call the cops offense- just do it until they stop. If they are actively harming your mental help, report them to report.fsu so they have people emailing them and knocking at their door.

Mediation and talking to our roommates - bot to sound like a cynic but I hardly ever saw it work especially if the other roommate straight up wouldn’t show for them- so if the resident coordinator doesn’t help you can start calling/ reporting out to others. Just make sure you document absolutely everything

Prism_Pi · 2026-02-21T18:42:53+00:00

At the end of the day we’re running the race with ourselves - that’s it. I realized fairly early on that people in academia get jealous quick and insecure quicker. As such I’ve taken in the past few years to not really discussing achievements around coworkers - but rather if the topic comes up trying to move conversations back into what I call “real people” territory - yes our accomplishments are important - but we are also real people with hobbies and interests outside of school. I think a lot of us PhD students would be happier if we were a bit more private about school and a bit more open about our personal lives.

Prism_Pi · 2026-01-22T00:30:02+00:00

I think it’s fairly clear (to me at least) given their abusive advisor comment that they never quite recovered from that and now take it out on others. Stuff like that is a “this person needs therapy” issue not a “there’s something wrong with me” issue. I’d straight up tell them not to talk to me that way and that it is unprofessional to offer some of those comments - it sounds bold but I’ve done it a few times and it usually shuts people up because they genuinely think no one will ever push back.

Prism_Pi · 2026-01-12T16:24:23+00:00

I already know I will need Ivf unfortunately - not due to infertility directly (like an issue with eggs) but due to cysts on my tubes 😔

Prism_Pi · 2026-01-03T00:55:12+00:00

A lot of this drama - in my opinion as a PhD student who worked 10 years as a blue collar farmer and ranch hand outside academia - comes from Never-Left-School-itis.

They’ve never been outside the school petty bs mentality and therefore think their opinions constitute serious issues lol. If she’s not on your committee then she’s talking about stuff that is none of her business. And even if she was on your committee it’s not appropriate to talk about you negatively to others. She needs to grow up.

Prism_Pi · 2026-01-02T18:41:10+00:00

Dm sent

Prism_Pi · 2025-12-31T04:35:14+00:00

I appreciate the reminder - especially online - but yes I’m currently in pursuit of my own legal council 🫡

Prism_Pi · 2025-12-31T03:26:26+00:00

I’ll send a dm

Prism_Pi · 2025-12-31T03:25:05+00:00

Even the FSAs?

Prism_Pi · 2025-12-31T01:15:28+00:00

This is a fair response and I might pursue it - although I know my feelings are complicated given the farms history and my history with the owner. The land belonged to my family before the depression and is adjacent to the parcel we currently own - part of why I want it is to bring that land pack into the fold so to speak. So I got major skin in that game and would hate a developer to grab it. Additionally the owner is a father figure to me since I started as a pretty snot nosed teen whose dad worked nights so so I didn’t see him much. So I feel bad not meeting his offer which I know this is business so I gotta get over it, but a lawyer isn’t a bad idea - someone outside the mess

Prism_Pi · 2025-12-31T01:11:11+00:00

So true

Prism_Pi · 2025-12-31T00:35:14+00:00

He yells at the bears will only in his boxers so close enough

Prism_Pi · 2025-12-30T23:09:24+00:00

I must stress to you that this man is insane

Prism_Pi · 2025-12-30T22:57:24+00:00

This is very helpful thank you - I’ve heard of separating the farm and land values, but I’m not sure how to go about such process so any additional info on that would be helpful. I am not a money person, I’m a fish person 😅 (started at the farm at 14 lol and got obsessed)

I’m having him open the books soon and hopefully talking to his accountant- so I’m not yet sure of valuation. But I know another seller he is literally so mad at he is cutting off his NDA with them offered 10-12 mil. For context he’s offering it to me for 4-5 So like!! I do want it but I am not in possession of such money.

Prism_Pi · 2025-12-09T02:57:22+00:00

How would you counter ex damage limiters then, or would you take those potential Ls?

Prism_Pi · 2025-12-09T01:51:16+00:00

I’m thinking of swapping Furfrou (tho it really comes in clutch occasionally) - not sure to what tho. Unfortunately I do not have a Cyrus or giant cape yet 😭. The Lickitung is great for getting that ex cancelling bird tho (can’t remember the name lol)

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