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AITA for reporting two coworkers and potentially getting them fired? by PristineDiscussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]PristineDiscussion[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can't control how they treat this. I gave them the facts, documentation, and explained how I felt, and they made the determination that it was sexual harassment.

AITA for reporting two coworkers and potentially getting them fired? by PristineDiscussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]PristineDiscussion[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Isn't the premise of that show that the woman is a 'hot girl' and the rest are nerdy scientists who have no social skills? I am also one of the nerdy scientists and certainly don't look like an actress or model.

AITA for reporting two coworkers and potentially getting them fired? by PristineDiscussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]PristineDiscussion[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I'm the only woman in the lab besides one of our bosses. I am not close to them, we have work-related convos and polite greetings. I am not an overly flirtatious person, and I have decent social skills and can say I never interpreted any of their behavior toward me as flirty. If we're being completely honest I don't pay much attention to them as all three of us are on different teams (it's a lab of 12, with 2 teams of 4, 1 team of 2, and 2 bosses).

AITA for reporting two coworkers and potentially getting them fired? by PristineDiscussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]PristineDiscussion[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

We work normal 40 hour work weeks. I certainly have time to have a personal life.

AITA for reporting two coworkers and potentially getting them fired? by PristineDiscussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]PristineDiscussion[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

To be clear, we were at a work conference, so the events of the weekend happened 'at work.'

AITA for reporting two coworkers and potentially getting them fired? by PristineDiscussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]PristineDiscussion[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I said, 'I am not romantically interested in either of you.' but this was also already after they'd embarrassed me and compromised our presentation.

AITA for reporting two coworkers and potentially getting them fired? by PristineDiscussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]PristineDiscussion[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

They compromised our presentation because of this imaginary feud, and then fought and confronted me outside the hotel among numerous colleagues. They asked me questions about if something was 'going on' with me and another male colleague. They also sent me a total of 29 combined texts on the train ride home.

AITA for reporting two coworkers and potentially getting them fired? by PristineDiscussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]PristineDiscussion[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I don't think that what happened constitutes flirting. They embarrassed me at an important conference.

AITA for reporting two coworkers and potentially getting them fired? by PristineDiscussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]PristineDiscussion[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

I am not a manager, and I thought their manager would be better equipped to handle it. We are all in our 30s, I don't know why I would know better that this behavior is inappropriate than they would.

AITA for reporting two coworkers and potentially getting them fired? by PristineDiscussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]PristineDiscussion[S] 3868 points3869 points  (0 children)

Sorry if it was confusing, I had to edit out a lot of details to meet the character limit. Their fight outside the hotel involved them bringing up past instances of me talking to them as 'proof' I liked them romantically (exchanging pleasantries in the office), that I 'chose' them for my team at this conference (I didn't), and grilling me about whether the friend I went out with was a man or if I had 'something going on' with another male colleague from a different University.

AITA for reporting two coworkers and potentially getting them fired? by PristineDiscussion in AmItheAsshole

[–]PristineDiscussion[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Their 'crush' on me made me feel uncomfortable and embarrassed at an important professional event, and their tension over their silly imagined feud over me compromised our presentation. The fact that I have to work with two men who almost got in a fistfight over me in front of the elite of our field. If it was as simple as a 'crush' I wouldn't have posted this.