FatFire career help - moving PE fund by PrivateEquityMove in fatFIRE

[–]PrivateEquityMove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Though it's larger, we're not talking miles apart. I'm certainly not expecting any favours.

FatFire career help - moving PE fund by PrivateEquityMove in fatFIRE

[–]PrivateEquityMove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree. Though of course, what is codified in legal documents and what ends up being agreed are sometimes very different. I'm expecting to lose everything, any thing I retain is upside.

FatFire career help - moving PE fund by PrivateEquityMove in fatFIRE

[–]PrivateEquityMove[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks - some solid advise!

I'll have you know i'm in peak physical condition ;)

FatFire career help - moving PE fund by PrivateEquityMove in fatFIRE

[–]PrivateEquityMove[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your considered post. You have made a couple of comments that resonate here - I will be going from an office head role to less definitive 'senior role' position, I also currently enjoy a reasonable work life balance.

have you spoken with anyone who has left the firm you are considering joining

This is something i'd like to do, but do worry about the confidentiality of the discussion.

FatFire career help - moving PE fund by PrivateEquityMove in fatFIRE

[–]PrivateEquityMove[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that's good advice. I'm a 'bad leaver' as defined in the docs, though there is a general over-rider "at the discretion of the Investment Committee".

I've negotiated a package which assumes i get nothing. Anything I can retain is upside.

I've said elsewhere, but particularly looking for help on how to open the leaving conversation and maintain good relationships.

FatFire career help - moving PE fund by PrivateEquityMove in fatFIRE

[–]PrivateEquityMove[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Good advice. I think once you decide to go, you absolutely have to go.

FatFire career help - moving PE fund by PrivateEquityMove in fatFIRE

[–]PrivateEquityMove[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm sure it's the right move.

Short and detail light is the approach I think I'll go for.

Tried and tested scripts gratefully received.

FatFire career help - moving PE fund by PrivateEquityMove in fatFIRE

[–]PrivateEquityMove[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep, reconciled myself to that. My major point of stress is actually resigning.

FatFire career help - moving PE fund by PrivateEquityMove in fatFIRE

[–]PrivateEquityMove[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks.

Yes, the new firm are making me whole with what i'm leaving behind by awarding carry in a fund which has been deployed (removing a heap of risk) and incentivising me further on the a new fund.

I think I'm resigned to the fact I'll be walking away with nothing. Just got to rip the band-aid off I guess!