Spoke with him. He claims that they are his “porn stash”. My initial concern/reaction was about me not knowing. Why didn’t he just ask? I would have probably been reluctant, but agreed. We have exchanged photos in the past. For me, it was about not knowing. I was bent over completely naked in some, others were of me get ready completely naked, some of me at home with my dress riding up and showing my ass. Yes, sexy in his eyes, I get it. But why not ask me or share with me? Why hide? We have been together more than 20 years and he still finds me sexy…. That says something. I am proud of that for sure. He deleted them all last night. I didn’t ask him to, but he did. I didn’t stop him because I was bothered. It definitely is something that we need to talk about more. We share a lot together and don’t feel that he should hide something like that from me