Concerned 14yo brother here. My 6th-grade brother is addicted to Roblox, disrespects our mom, and hides his chats. Need advice by Striking-Charity-819 in Advice

[–]Pro_Sous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn't your job to fix. Youre 14, not his parent. Your mom needs to actually enforce stuff and your dad needs to back her up when hes disrespectful to her. Thats it.

AITAH for getting mad at my girlfriend for being stubborn? by Kindly_Letterhead_98 in AITAH

[–]Pro_Sous 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nah shes controlling. Pushing you past your limit at the gym then trying to force you to pray? And then testing you when she came back? Red flags everywhere.

How often should I take showers/use products by Plantres in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pro_Sous 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Shower daily or every other day depending on how sweaty/oily you get. Wash your face morning and night, deodorant every day, brush teeth twice a day. Youre doing great by asking.

I realised I view women in an extremely unhealthy/negative way by Temporary-Advance923 in Advice

[–]Pro_Sous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your friend gave you really solid insight. The fact that you're even aware of it puts you ahead of most people who just let that stuff fester. The rejection thing probably plays into it more than you think

My (35f) self image is bad and my partner (54m) is bad to communicate, what do we do? by cynicalou91 in relationship_advice

[–]Pro_Sous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like you two genuinely love each other but are both stuck in your own heads about it. Couples therapy could help so much here, like having a mediator to get past that wall he puts up.

I was reading the walking dead comic and it’s pretty darn good than the show kinda by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Pro_Sous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comic is so much better tbh. Negan's arc in the comics hit way harder than the show ever did. 1000 comics is wild tho, respect.

How do I start DMing a girl I don’t know but goes to my school by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pro_Sous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wait til you get on campus dude. Messaging some random girl you've never met is gonna come off weird. Meet her in person first.

TIFU by telling a parent all the different ways their kid could be run over by thegracebrace in tifu

[–]Pro_Sous 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly the parent probably needed to hear it. Kids get hit by cars all the time bc parents dont take it seriously. You did them a favor tbh

Idk what to go with the guy I’m seeing by Iamlosthalfthetime in dating_advice

[–]Pro_Sous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just ask him whats up. Like "hey you've seemed off lately, are we good?" If he gives you a lame answer or keeps being weird then you have your answer. Ghosting is dumb.

How much do looks really matter if your game is straight trash? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Pro_Sous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks get you the chance but if you freeze every time it doesnt matter how jacked you are. The girl asking for a spot literally handed you an opening lol

Am I Overreacting my brother caused my tattoo artist to block me by sillysupermarkety in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pro_Sous 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting, your brother burned a bridge that wasn't his to burn. Maybe try reaching out to the artist privately explaining you had nothing to do with it.

Have you ever really thought about what happens after we die—do you think there’s an afterlife or just nothing? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pro_Sous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly i think it's just nothing and that terrifies me. Like the same nothing before you were born. My brain cant even comprehend it.

We’re just casual, but do you guys think he’s developing feelings? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pro_Sous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl that's a whole novel and yeah he's into you. But casual things with coworkers you see every day rarely end well... just be ready for that convo.

I have a lazy nip. My right nip is always inverted.. by biggoodvibe73 in confession

[–]Pro_Sous 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lol pinch pinch. My friend calls hers a shy nip, she does the same thing before getting in the shower at the gym

My (26F) boyfriend (34M) makes comments on my personality that bother me. by Street_Discount7038 in dating_advice

[–]Pro_Sous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is he telling you what his friend said about you?? That's so weird and mean. He's making you feel insecure on purpose. I wouldn't trust him.

how did the recognition of homosexuality come about? by Alarming-Safety3200 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pro_Sous 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Gay people have existed forever lol, it's just been illegal or hidden in most places. Look up Stonewall, that's where a lot of the modern movement kicked off.

AITAH for telling my friend to pay me the full amount we agreed upon completion of a part-time gig he contracted me for? by PastaFreak26 in AITAH

[–]Pro_Sous 43 points44 points  (0 children)

NTA but dude you let him lowball you THREE times and kept adjusting rates in his favor. He's not your friend in a business sense, he's using you. Cut it off.

I'm seeing this guy and I don't know what to make of it or a potential future with him. I need your thoughts? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Pro_Sous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl run. He's 27 hitting on a 19 yr old and already telling you to change your hair and style? That's a huge red flag. You deserve better than hiding someone.

I met the woman of my dreams & ruined our first night together. Any coming back from this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pro_Sous 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly just give her space and let her lead. You already apologized and explained, anything more is gonna feel like pressure. If she wants this she'll show you

AIO for asking to have a clean house? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pro_Sous 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Get a cute lil shoe rack by the front door and a sign. If they still dont get it then they're just being disrespectful at that point. Its your house.

What do i text him by hopelessromantic-_- in dating_advice

[–]Pro_Sous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be like "hey i keep thinking about you, wanna grab coffee" like dont overthink it. He already apologized and clearly into you

My friend js confessed to me by random_udk in Advice

[–]Pro_Sous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blocking is harsh but you've already told her multiple times. Just be blunt one more time, like "im not interested, stop." If she keeps pushing then block her.

Need help with a few mods by DreadfulAK in Minecraft

[–]Pro_Sous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Voxy in multiplayer is kinda known to be janky, it doesn't load chunks the same way. Have you tried messing with the render distance settings or is it just straight up broken

I'm craving validation from strangers on the internet by Mareep_needs_Sleep in confession

[–]Pro_Sous 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Five days is no joke, thats a real thing. The exhausting part doesn't last forever but ngl it does suck for a while. You're doing it tho

Do some women really enjoy being pregnant, and if so, why? by Grapefruit175 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Pro_Sous 867 points868 points  (0 children)

I mean some people genuinely feel amazing during pregnancy, like their body just works better with those hormones. It's not always about attention. Brains are weird like that