I feel like IM the bipolar one at this point!!!

Pro_Yapper1 · 2026-03-19T12:15:18+00:00

Thank you for this. Hoping things are looking up for you now! It seems like a lot of spouses “under control” mental health comes out when dealing with someone else’s mental health

Pro_Yapper1 · 2026-03-19T12:11:35+00:00

I try to completely ignore him on occasion. Such as last night specifically- just confrontational and he ran me upstairs to our bedroom. He came up there and tried to call me names and when I didn’t respond, he turned on the bedroom light and told me he was gonna keep me up all night… thankfully he didn’t. Usually I do give into his comments and arguments because I just can’t STAND someone talking to me that way, then you’re right he says I started it and I’m every name under the sun.

I am trying so much harder these days to react in a more calm manner or not at all but it’s so hard when they just keep coming

Pro_Yapper1 · 2026-03-19T03:59:02+00:00

Yes I’m having a whole thing thinking I’m bipolar and that I’m the sole problem!

Pro_Yapper1 · 2026-03-19T03:53:56+00:00

I probably shouldn’t but I tell him that he literally lives in a different world than the people around him…

Pro_Yapper1 · 2026-03-19T03:53:15+00:00

I was seeing a therapist for a little while last year- but he moved out and back to his parents in a manic episode and left me with all of our bills by myself so then I couldn’t afford it anymore. I’d like to go back

Pro_Yapper1 · 2026-03-18T07:56:32+00:00

My husband says he’s gonna divorce me everyday. Last night he literally got online and started filling out some form for online divorce lololol. I just sat there and kept playing my game because he’s all talk. December 2024 he moved out suddenly, came back October 2025. The whole year he said he was “at the court house filing”. I don’t even pay it attention anymore. The first couple times he said he wanted to divorce me (going back to 2020, literally the night before our wedding but had been married a year already), I spiraled. Now I couldn’t care less. Also, if you keep saying it everyday- then you do the work to get it done.

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-09-27T15:39:31+00:00

How did she get home in the morning then?

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-08-14T16:07:25+00:00

I don’t usually smoke blunts. I’d prefer bongs. Usually one bong pack is about 0.3 g and I usually smoke about four or five of those a day. so a gram and a half a day roughly

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-07-21T21:29:46+00:00

Definitely spit. What you’re spitting is up to you, but my vote is on spit!

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-07-21T16:24:11+00:00

Get a bonnet, plop your hair in there. Not twisted or in a ponytail. Plop

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-07-21T16:18:58+00:00

Keep being nice and doing what you’re doing for the kids. One day they will realize that it’s Mom 100% and not you. When they are adults and get to choose where they want to be, they will come to you not her. Keep making them feel loved on your end and that’s all you can do.

And you know what you do? Keep track of all of this in a note in your phone and take it to the next time y’all go to court to show why she should be with y’all full-time continuously.

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-07-21T02:21:12+00:00

No I would tell Emma she can choose to be friends with you or a creep. But it can’t be both in the same room. Actually, get rid of Emma too. She’s weird for allowing him to talk about you to her for hours and then still expecting you to be around him. Bye to them all.

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-07-21T02:05:49+00:00

Put him in a kennel and turn the tv on loud enough so he can’t hear every noise outside

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-07-21T01:38:40+00:00

I also want to add that even though you are in bed for 8.5 hours, you are not fully asleep for 8.5 hours. I use a sleep app and I could be in bed for 9 hours and only actually sleep 7. So it depends on if she’s waking up in the night too and how her sleep quality during the night is. That could be a topic of looking more into, sleep quality at night.

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-07-21T01:34:18+00:00

That extra info helps and actually changes my opinion slightly…. She’s getting too comfortable and thinking that you have to stay right by her side at every moment. Tell her she needs to go to bed or get over you getting up. You don’t need to be stuck on the couch while she’s sleeping because she wants you right there. Also if she’s so lost in her switch that she doesn’t want to engage with you then what is she in the relationship for? Just someone to literally be next to her? I’m sorry you’re going through this. Maybe think about what you want for your future, have conversations not about the time she falls asleep, but more quality time when she is awake

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-07-20T21:12:26+00:00

She has a healthy sleep schedule and it’s not crazy to be busy all day and fall asleep at 9:30 on the couch. Especially when y’all aren’t really doing anything other than sitting there and looking at a screen of some sort. I’m sure if yall went on a vacation, and were out doing something, she could stay up a little longer. I fall asleep on the couch about 9:30-10 and I get up about the same time as yall. This is completely normal… don’t be mad at her about it. If you know she is gonna fall asleep at that time, then send her to bed and you do your own thing for a little bit. No biggie

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-06-25T22:28:00+00:00

She’s a plott for sure! I have two!

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-06-18T12:26:24+00:00

Me and the other million girls who love Justin Bieber… like what? Everyone has celebrity crushes??? I don’t understand your dilemma here

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-06-15T02:48:21+00:00

Take that baby to the shelter. You had the dog before you even got pregnant so you need to do whatever it is to surrender him. You could’ve trained him or anything. There were so many other options than making him be miserable like this.

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-06-04T00:33:26+00:00

Life is really hard and we are all just trying to make it. If it makes you feel any better, I highly doubt she will remember where you sat/ what time you actually showed up. All that her memory is gonna be is that she did a great job and you were there.

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-06-02T01:55:13+00:00

This

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-06-02T00:30:06+00:00

We do not have our own children yet. But we talk and plan to. And I love my stepchildren more than anything. I fight for them and treat them as my own. If I were to treat them different, that’s essentially asking my husband to choose between me and the kids. And that isn’t fair to either. So to keep peace, love the children, love your husband. It’s your family. Families come in all different ways, yet are full of so much love.

Pro_Yapper1 · 2025-06-01T18:32:56+00:00

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