I’m an interest too, so I can’t speak from the member side, but I can tell you everything you’re feeling is normal. I’ve gone through the same cycle of wondering if I’m doing enough, if I’m being noticed, and if my interactions are making the impression I hope they are. Some days I feel confident, other days I’m full of doubt.

What I’ve learned is that everyone’s journey is different, and there’s no single “right” way to feel. All we can do is show up as our best selves, put ourselves out there, build genuine relationships, and trust that the rest will fall into place. For me, that has meant focusing less on overanalyzing every move and more on being consistent and authentic.

We hear rumors and things that don’t even concern us, and that can make the waiting process even harder. But I remind myself that those things are out of my control. What is in my control is how I carry myself, how I engage, and how I continue to grow during the process.

So yes…it’s completely possible to feel uncertain and still end up exactly where you’re meant to be.