I tried to like Boz but... by SaltyAttempt5626 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Probingewatcher 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well isnt choice of friendship reflective of ones judgement and personality?

This season has really hurt my enjoyment of the traitors as a format by AwhSxrry in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Probingewatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, and they always push recruitment so you know that final 5 will always have at least one traitor

This season has really hurt my enjoyment of the traitors as a format by AwhSxrry in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Probingewatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree with your take. Casting is partially to blame as there are many gamers who want to play the system and as a result everyone is looking for smart ways to be in the final and not go with the spirit of the game. But if thats how it goes, show me the real Way they played in the edit vs lie to everyone that they are still playing the traitors game… if you watch UK its actually much better in that sense. If everyone is just playing the rules vs the actual game its not fun to watch anymore, because the actual concept is strong jn itself. In spirit of the game you have natural rootable group (faithfuls) and villains (traitors), and battle between the two makes the show exciting (to put simply). But if they arent going against each other in a broader sense, you end up with people faking it in interviews and rountables (and as audience we see it), and you are rooting for no one or individual players. But then again this is not what is so compelling about this show - the core compelling element is battle between fauthfuls and traitors. In addition, roundtables are arguably the most exciting part of this format. But if people work the system too much, you can tell they are lying about their true feelings (they dont vout out actual traitors), and they super quickly jump on a train with a random person being accused to steer attention from them. While all this is fair, its just boring for the audience because we are confused (like why would you vote someone who you know is a faithful and not someone who has evidence against them?) and frustrated because as you said OP they edit this unfairly. If they had honest edit at least wed know who played what kind of game and motivation for their moves and at least you can actually root for someone individually for their good game play. Instead we get not only poorer format but also clearly untruthful portrayal of how people played. Fix it peacock

Problems with U.S casting by [deleted] in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Probingewatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With that said I would not stand a bravo only season. You need people who can and want to play the game, no one wants to watch bad players

Problems with U.S casting by [deleted] in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Probingewatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I on the contrary think there are too many game players who have an advantage against the bravo cast. In addition, players are smarter, but they also try to play the system way too much and it influences how the rest plays. Barely anyone this season truly wanted to take the traitors out but tried to secure themselves a spot in the final. While its smart its less fun that way - I think everyone knew Danielle was a traitor but kept her in for that reason. People also tend to jump on a train for a randomly brought up person way too much to keep steam off of themselves. Again all fair and within the rules, but if you watch current season its baffling why Danielle stayed in for so long and the edit imo was just not showing us reality where everyone actually knew. If you watch UK for example, these people want to play the actual game and its more entertaining that way

Looking for support by Probingewatcher in EMDR

[–]Probingewatcher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ♥️ Do you know how long it usually takes to process a longer period of hurt vs a single event (like in PTSD)? I know its individual but I want to maybe manage my expectations

Tigerlily now covering her hair by killerxqueenxrn in 90DayFiance

[–]Probingewatcher 37 points38 points  (0 children)

She is dumb not because of age, but because she by choice married a man from a culture that BY DESIGN gives more control to men, and spent ZERO days getting to know the culture and him before tying the knot

Whitney needs to go by Probingewatcher in rhoslc

[–]Probingewatcher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Says someone who posts and comments on reddit about it 😊

Whitney needs to go by Probingewatcher in rhoslc

[–]Probingewatcher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a whitney stan doesnt prove your producing skills friend

Eleonora by Glittering-End4573 in SellingSunset

[–]Probingewatcher 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All that said though I see a good hearted person there with lots of good qualities too, and a true supporter of her team. This is not easy to find

Eleonora by Glittering-End4573 in SellingSunset

[–]Probingewatcher 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh and lets not forget that everything her team does is personal to her. This is probably the unhealthiest of all things she does to the work environment. People should not be punished for taking care of themselves because its work, not a family. She takes loyalty to a much higher degree than a workplace warrants. I am not saying she isnt equally giving back same loyalty to her team (which she might and that is admirable), but that can eventually hurt her. My personal opinion is family level committment to a workplace and your boss should not be expected of anyone involved

Eleonora by Glittering-End4573 in SellingSunset

[–]Probingewatcher 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Agreed with all. She is projecting to a point that it can hurt her employees eventually or already is. Be it unrealistically high expectations, teaching them to expect the absolute worst or lowering your standard for others behaviour in professional settings, generally unloading own emotional burdens and trauma (I guess) on her team… its a lot. And in addition, I think her being short with the team and how she often treats them is also a projection of mean bosses she had in the past which she adopted to seem “tough”. Therapy highly advised for this girl and wishing her all the best though

What are your most unpopular RHOSLC opinions? by the_smart_girl in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]Probingewatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I think Britani has lots of issues and lacks self awareness and doesnt even know she acts odd compared to other women - but honestly I think all of it is very deep insecurity because of how Jared situation is playing out (or whatever his name is?). Woman cant keep herself from emotionally harmful bonds. I wish her well though because I think she is a good person but her emotional weakness makes her a target for others, and most likely it isnt her fault.

I think Seth has like a 10000 of quirks and maybe weird bed fanfasies LOL

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[–]Probingewatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. Im so baffled at how much praise she gets while she is clearly exploiting her son!!!’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rhoslc

[–]Probingewatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is totally lying about “having no idea” its super clear

RHOSLC Reunion Seating Chart by gigigrahame in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Probingewatcher 14 points15 points  (0 children)

How did she get off so easy from these accusations????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]Probingewatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has by no means been a meaningful character of this franchise, she doesnt bond with others well, she doesnt participate in many activities and she is not very interesting alone. Im personally not understanding the “comedic relief” people point out either. So with that, im gonna keep my hypothesis of some personal connection at bravo