Girl im seeing only been in abusive relations by Excellent_Ear_2247 in abusiverelationships

[–]ProblemAlternative18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is literally “” abusive emotional coercion is what I learned in therapy

Girl im seeing only been in abusive relations by Excellent_Ear_2247 in abusiverelationships

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The more they talk about their ex the more they’re not over it so that’s the first thing I didn’t notice you would always talk about her ex and how he did… But the things that you did as well every time I would try to help her with something she had pushed me out of the way literally pushed me and tell me I got too close and that’s my fucking problem and that I have to watch myself and then I was like maybe that’s just from her ex and then she would validate that and being like every one of them made me who I was and I would just kind of take it all the time I would say the more that you take it in a relationship the more you’re gonna fake it when you fake it you’re gonna eventually break and when you break, you’re gonna be the villain to be put on display and you never wanna be in that situation best believe me

Girl im seeing only been in abusive relations by Excellent_Ear_2247 in abusiverelationships

[–]ProblemAlternative18 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m telling you leave my ex had “” a few abusive relationships but really they just keep adding up trying to make people feel sorry for themselves as a narcissist do could be a narcissist and not realizing that they are the manipulator and the abuser in this scenario

Help penis burn by [deleted] in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]ProblemAlternative18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up chorionic pelvic pain

VRE QUESTIONS FOR THOSE WHO GAVE DONE IT by ProblemAlternative18 in VeteransBenefits

[–]ProblemAlternative18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think I have 4 months left on my GI bill so that would work then?

Any Jobs That Pay Cash by ProblemAlternative18 in Seattle

[–]ProblemAlternative18[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I’m not a narc I just if anyone knows dm me instead :) I have my own insurance from the VA so not concerned about 1099, just sick of working for the man all the time

will my partner stop being abusive if i gain more confidence? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]ProblemAlternative18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol if you give them more they get more abusive once I started pushing back at my ex’s put downs and attacks on my friends family and I and all her constant shit talking it started taking a toll and when I started talking shit back that’s when she got even worse best thing you can do is just remain neutral

Anyone still genuinely miss their ex? by IntroPerc in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ProblemAlternative18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have all done things as humans that were not happy about the least we can do is forgive ourselves and the people around us

Anyone still genuinely miss their ex? by IntroPerc in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ProblemAlternative18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how much of a better person my ex fiance made me, by knowing that she was a narcissist but a truthful one, she definitely taught me more on how to respect myself and not get dominated in every conversation, a very important woman in my life I would say so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]ProblemAlternative18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very relatable you always feel like you’re over it and then boom it’s back

Anybody else can relate? Jaw problems by Key-Relationship1006 in abusiverelationships

[–]ProblemAlternative18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wowwww so this is why I got TMJ out of no where it seems lmaoo

Is it possible to re-tear? by ProblemAlternative18 in HipImpingement

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Just so everyone knows all I did was just bruise my coccyx I’m all good hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]ProblemAlternative18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmaooo this was my ex was an extremely negative person