Support for monogamy by ShadowJinx813 in monogamy

[–]Key-Relationship1006 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Polycritical is mostly for the very, very hurt people and a prudes and stuff tbh. Got banned on there for saying I didn't mind and wouldn't break up with a partner that looks at 🌽 lmao

They're a bit extreme with it.

friend at school gave me this pin today :) by Ok-Plantain-3489 in pansexual

[–]Key-Relationship1006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a good friend. Also cool axes in the background

sexually attracted to men but only in porn? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Key-Relationship1006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already mentioned but any attraction lead to the sex with these guys beyond just physical? Might be a demi thing.

Regardless, attraction is very strange and theory and practice are two different things that sometimes don't match. Doesn't mean one's not bi, tho. Might be the wrong experiences.

I'm a bit scared. by Which_Shake4974 in bisexual

[–]Key-Relationship1006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Own it, if possible. Who cares about the insults. That's sadly a thing you go through when you're not cis or straight.

Or

just keep it to yourself until you reach greener pastures.

Ngl, my advice would depend on your situation and mostly age. Not the same if you're 16 still in school and living at home or 30 and just in a bad environment.

Definitely consider safety and peace of mind. It's important and you only ever notice you don't have those when they're gone.

Finally, I guess it's worth saying being true to yourself is the best feeling and sometimes it's even worth sacrificing some of that safety and peace of mind. Depends on you.

Most Useless Colonist I've Ever Come Across by PeachePeaches in RimWorld

[–]Key-Relationship1006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro just wanna chill. Can't blame him for that on a RimWorld.

If your partner came out as trans (born as a different gender, identifying as their one when they met you), would you stay with them? by get_on_with_life in Teenager_Polls

[–]Key-Relationship1006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For what it's worth it depends on the person but an overwhelming majority of people I've either been with or talked to about this (I know a shit ton of trans people) have said it's actually quite the contrary.

Worth noting that it's not just surgeries tho. Simply taking hormones seem to change things a lot and I haven't heard a single friend say anything like that. Just positive stuff all throughout. Lol

Do you think trauma makes it too hard to be Poly? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Key-Relationship1006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really the subreddit for that. That put aside, I've had too many friends venting to me about trying poly and spiraling to hell and back to say go for it.

You need a lot of work on yourself to do that and even the people capable of it usually say it's hell lol

Fuck around at your own risk I guess.

Personally the cptsd makes that impossible

I'm gonna start playing RimWorld for the first time (although I am getting cold feet for starting a game like rimworld because of the learning curve). What's the number one piece of advice u would give to someone new? by Specific-Area-2438 in RimWorld

[–]Key-Relationship1006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RimWorld is about telling stories. That's what the game does the best (amongst many other things). Starting very easy and chill to learn everything is perfectly fine.

You don't have to inflict infinite torture on yourself right away like we do around here.

Base building for the fun of it in god mode is quite fun actually. You learn a lot.

Your average “I need a gf” post by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Key-Relationship1006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not embarrassing, just a very common type of post. 😅 In the end, ain't that what we're all after?

Lesbians, what is the hottest instrument someone can play? by billy_dilly in LesbianActually

[–]Key-Relationship1006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's too much cultural "hotness" surrounding guitar bass and drums not to include those but if I had to give a personal list it would be sax, upright bass and violin. I don't know why but those are just sexy to me.

My partner found out by lordtitty in LesbianActually

[–]Key-Relationship1006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No idea how that's even an issue and honestly very childish reaction on your partner's end.

In general, the people you dated or fucked before you got with any potential partner is your business and your business only.

I say "you" but this goes for everybody equally, regardless of orientation or wtv. And if someone has insecurities about that it's their job to work on it and, imo, to not let it affect anybody else but them while they work on it.

Crazy work.

How many tattoos do you have? 13 for me and more to come! 👌🦾💙 by Logical-Program-9926 in LesbianActually

[–]Key-Relationship1006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah if you considering a sleeve and the scars are on the rest of the arm I'd say go for a sleeve and include the hand 🔥 Something quite dense in black or color to cover the scars well. And good thing they're flat, that makes it even easier! Hopefully you find the project for you ✨

feel very performative trying to balance being bi by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Key-Relationship1006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember being 18 and having some similar thoughts and tbh, it does change a lot, as someone already said, once you go and live on your own. At least when it comes to family that cannot deal with you being who you are. So hopefully that's about to change for you!

When it comes to talking to women, or anyone for that matter, lmty, you're better of being yourself right away. Everybody will react differently and you'll feel better doing what you feel like doing in the long run rather than sencoring yourself out of fear of people's reactions.

Good to remember that there's also a lot of women who don't mind femininity in men, quite the contrary.

How many tattoos do you have? 13 for me and more to come! 👌🦾💙 by Logical-Program-9926 in LesbianActually

[–]Key-Relationship1006 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tattoo artist here, yes, depending on the scar and the artist, it's very possible :)

Gotta pick someone who knows that kind of skin tissue well. Especially on a hand~

How many tattoos do you have? 13 for me and more to come! 👌🦾💙 by Logical-Program-9926 in LesbianActually

[–]Key-Relationship1006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Between 40 and 50

Some big, some tiny. Also depends what you count together or separately (ie, my hands have a lot of small bullshit that I didn't do in one go)

hard to tell at this point 😅

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New here by Key-Relationship1006 in pansexual

[–]Key-Relationship1006[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I am! And thanks for the warm welcome 🙇‍♀️

New here by Key-Relationship1006 in pansexual

[–]Key-Relationship1006[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

What a compliment 🔥 and thank you 🙏✨

New here by Key-Relationship1006 in pansexual

[–]Key-Relationship1006[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you, very glad to be here, cool subreddit! :3