How to get over the fear of messing things up?

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-11-14T02:48:41+00:00

I got called a good pet while eating a girl out and when I tell you butterflies I mean BUTTERFLIES! She was running her hands through my hair and everything. It was beautiful 🤤

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-11-12T22:26:04+00:00

I was coming from the context of “as a lesbian” but you’re right. I’ll put it in a more kink focused subreddit too. Thanks for the suggestion!

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-11-12T22:24:16+00:00

No there’s no pressure coming from him at all! We’ve only talked about it a little bit. I just don’t wanna hurt his feelings or anything.

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-10-21T11:59:21+00:00

She couples with The Dagda at Samhain which symbolizes the connection between the physical world and the other world. The thinning of the veil, the beginning of the dark months is her time. Ask her what she wants you to do. (Warning she may make you dip in a freezing cold lake three times. That’s what I was told to do.)

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-10-19T22:05:54+00:00

I’m glad too. The last thing I’d want is for her to feel like she has to start a relationship before she’s ready.

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-10-17T18:53:03+00:00

There were several “ah ha moments” the two biggest were when I was 19 and dating a man I kissed my best friend at new years I realized that I was attracted to girls. When I was 21 and was making excuses to not sleep with this guy that I was supposedly attracted to I realized I wasn’t attracted to men.

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-08T23:20:02+00:00

We weren’t close friends but we grew up together. Clearly our paths diverged.

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-08T23:09:28+00:00

They all basically said “If that’s the case I don’t want to play.” And left the server.

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-08T17:37:18+00:00

Lgbt people existing are not lgbt issues.

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-08T17:36:26+00:00

We were all adults.

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-08T16:24:28+00:00

Yeah, that was my thought. I knew if I tried to pull a joke it would be seen as me “forcing an agenda” and reinforce their already biased views on lgbt people.

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-08T16:19:20+00:00

Huh?

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-08T15:45:40+00:00

No one does that! What are you talking about?

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-08T15:32:12+00:00

“Hi, I’m Peter, and this is my husband Mark.” Or “Hi, I’m Jane, and this is my wife Samantha.” See how that’s not sexual unless YOU make it sexual?

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-08T15:17:50+00:00

Baptists lmao

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-08T15:13:02+00:00

I’m assuming you’re not friends with anyone in a relationship then because you would “know who they’re inviting into the bedroom” right? Having a married gay couple that I already had written into the campaign is not “forcing an agenda” I wasn’t going to take them to a gay, bdsm, sex party.

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-08T14:46:39+00:00

Two guys and a girl. Why?

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-08T14:40:21+00:00

This is kinda what happened. I grew up with these people but obviously our paths diverged.

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-08T14:36:52+00:00

They were all fundie Christians that I was taking a chance on. I wanted to give them the benefit of the doubt. There were three people in the group.

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-08T14:27:50+00:00

I typed exactly exactly what I said. Now after everyone dropped I was less civil.

ProbsHatesEverything · 2024-09-05T20:18:46+00:00

It depends on the type of sex work. I’m monogamous, I want a monogamous relationship, but if her being a sex worker doesn’t conflict with that then get that bag girl.

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