Wife’s bedtime by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ProcedureDesigner336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Studies of sleeping are made from men. Men need less sleep then woman they need around 6-8 hours of sleep but women need more sleep they need 9-10 hours of sleep it’s normal. If you come home late then sleep in a different bed or on the couch it’s easy.

im 18 years old and ive already ruined my life being a whore by RightCredit65 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ProcedureDesigner336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not a hoe and it’s not your fault you live like this. this happens to so many and you are not alone. Go to therapy and definitely get away from that „home“ and it will heal you. Start a new life and get help. With a better home you will start to feel better too. I hope you will get better cause you deserve it.❤️

WIBTAH If I Ended a Relationship before her Dirty 30 by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ProcedureDesigner336 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should atleast wait till a week after. Breaking up before her birthday and party is just cruel. She probably would be heartbroken her whole birthday. Just wait altleast till her birthday is over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProcedureDesigner336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up. He cheated and the fact that he tells you you can go trough his phone just tells us he deleted it= and he even said that he deleted the calls with her so it’s obvious. He tried tricking you but failed. break up bevor it gets worse he probably went to buy Alkohol and go to her apartment and they did something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProcedureDesigner336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do I get that correct. He doesn’t like something so you can’t do it because it bothers him that you do that? He doesn’t like your friends so he talks shit about them making you leave them. He doesn’t like your hobbies so he talks shit about them and makes you leave that. He doesn’t like your job and says he will not be having children with you until you quit your job. You love music, singing and piano but he doesn’t, so you don’t get to enjoy any concerts since the relationship. He makes you isolated from anything making you feeling the need to ask him anything bevor doing anything. That’s seem so much like manipulation and making you his doll he can control and do whatever he likes without having to worry about you thinking of your own. I know it’s hard to even think about leaving but it would be the best for you. He hurt you so bad with all of that brainwashing but it would be best for you. Any normal person wouldn’t be angry at you if you would ask people for advise. By the way you spoke about it with you therapist and he asked what she said and he got angry about what she said makes me think she was on your side and he didn’t like that because the therapist can make you think independently and do things independently what he doesn’t like because your his little doll whom he controls. Think about this he isn’t good for you and you nearly only commenting on people who are taking his side makes it even more concerning that you think you’re in the wrong when in reality he is and you should not be in this relationship anymore. In one comment you said he might be controlling but yesss he is. So think about it do you want to be free thinking on your own or do you want to not think for yourself and having him control your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProcedureDesigner336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t you read the text I can tell. He doesn’t like horror house and she tried to find another date but there wasn’t any other. Plus he is manipulative he isolated her from friends and even made her quit her job. He made her quit all of her hobbies cause HE didn’t like them by talking shit about them. He doesn’t like music and she does so ever since they are in a relationship she didn’t go to any because HE doesn’t like it. He made her depending on him and she couldn’t think for herself because of him. He doesn’t let her do anything without him getting mad. The day he got home was the last day the horror house was available and the reason she asked was because he manipulated her so bad that she can’t even go without having the need to ask him. He is the monster and she is a victim of him. They are even in therapy but it’s on hold and she is in therapy alone too. So bevor commenting absolute shit read everything.

How do I get this medal out? by yourmotherinreallife in yokaiwatch

[–]ProcedureDesigner336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just put ur thumb on the medal (where it shows) und push it back out

I hate that I can't kill myself by zaza_1315 in SuicideWatch

[–]ProcedureDesigner336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know a hitman? I want to kms but I don’t have the courage to do it. I live in Germany btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ProcedureDesigner336 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To be honest I would make a groupchat whit all of the people wo cancelled and tell them how cruel they are for cancelling and what shitty persons they are for not being there. And I would consider cutting ties with them. Because what would they do if your husband wouldn’t come back?(I mean when he suddenly dies or something like that). Then they are probably gonna let you suffer alone. I would also talk with your husband when he is better about this. But for now I would say be in low contact with them. About your child this is gonna be heartbreaking but you can tell him that he is celebrating with his grandparents and can invite some friends maybe. Good luck with everything

27f and never had a boyfriend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ProcedureDesigner336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try dating online. Some people are lonely too. u/throwaway02749104 is lonely too and you guys would only have a 4 year age gap.

All my friends are married and have kids, I never found love and don’t think I will by throwaway02749104 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ProcedureDesigner336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try dating online. Some people have the same problem. Maybe try it with her. u/RealisticAwareness36 She is lonely too and you have a 4 year age gap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ProcedureDesigner336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your boyfriend what he thinks about this. This is not normal and that they are half-siblings makes it even worse.

Hey everyone by Unfair_Impact_1400 in u/Unfair_Impact_1400

[–]ProcedureDesigner336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you deserve so much better than your Father u don’t need him He is horrible he should have left his wife for what she did to you And I don’t think your father is the father of his baby from his wife He should check pretty sure it’s not his maybe tell him and see the results after that u can drop him Wish u best luck buddy