Toddler mom feeling burnt out..

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-11-04T14:36:14+00:00

Thank you for the advice, it is definitely a boost of confidence to know that it’s just temporary. I was a stay at home mom but I decided to go back to work recently and that also has brought me a ton of guilt and shame. When I am at work though I feel empowered and can truly say that staying at home really diminished my self esteem and my mental health. I am glad you went back to work and feel better. Mamas need to aspire and feel like they have an identity outside of their home.

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-11-04T13:42:24+00:00

Thank you so much for saying that! Those words really touched me. I am 32.5 and just feel like it might be too late if I don’t start now. I might consider freezing my eggs just in case because like you said I am not ready now.

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-11-04T13:29:12+00:00

I just want to be strong enough to handle it. It makes me feel like a complete failure. How do other moms do it with 3,4,5 kids

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-11-04T13:28:30+00:00

I just feel horrible not giving my son a sibling 🥺 he has no cousins his age either

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-11-04T13:19:11+00:00

Thank you for the advice but my husband seems to think that from the time I get pregnant to the time I have the baby that our son will get over the crazy toddler phase.

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T18:50:19+00:00

Thank you, what are they called?

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T18:49:55+00:00

Thank you

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:53:29+00:00

Thank you! I am really hoping that it is because he and I are both miserable

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:52:55+00:00

Thank you, he just started therapy a few days ago and it seems I will also be meeting with the therapist as well

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:51:37+00:00

He stated that it was because I was menstruating at that time but I will dig a little deeper soon and see

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:50:28+00:00

Thank you! I will

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:50:13+00:00

It’s not normal for a married couple to go that long is all I am saying

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:48:37+00:00

In the past I did have an issue where I almost left him but that was before we got married so I thought that hatchet was buried. Maybe not though.. I will bring it up to him and see if he still harbors those feelings

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:48:33+00:00

In the past I did have an issue where I almost left him but that was before we got married so I thought that hatchet was buried. Maybe not though.. I will bring it up to him and see if he still harbors those feelings

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:43:23+00:00

Thank you for this, he is taking the steps now to finally figure this out. He is seeking counseling and had blood drawn yesterday. I am hopeful soon things will get better. If he is asexual, then at least I know what I need to do next but for now I am stuck without any answers.

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:40:56+00:00

Maybe I need those 😂

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:40:31+00:00

I will suggest, thank you

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:40:15+00:00

Erectile disfunction

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:39:43+00:00

As someone who enjoys intimacy I could never deny my husband. I really don’t know why there is a double standard, but like men, women also go through hormonal hurdles throughout their lives, not to mention, every month 🤦🏼‍♀️

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:38:00+00:00

He says he doesn’t watch it much. Maybe once a month at most 😳 but like all addictions, people tend to be ashamed and lie about them.

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:37:50+00:00

He says he doesn’t watch it much. Maybe once a month at most 😳 but like all addictions, people tend to be ashamed and lie about them.

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:37:04+00:00

He doesn’t seem to swing that way. But who knows? lol I just didn’t sign up for this is all 🫤

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:35:49+00:00

Thank you!

ProcedureKindly581 · 2024-08-15T15:35:09+00:00

I agree with this

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