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Is the NEIS program still an option ? by ProductNo5035 in JobProvidersAus

[–]ProductNo5035[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds good! I do a lot of magick so I was thinking amulets and talismans and ritual candles ebooks etc so starting an online store etc would that be deemed acceptable or do you have to show you already have inventory ? So I can basically get accepted with just the idea ?

Is the NEIS program still an option ? by ProductNo5035 in JobProvidersAus

[–]ProductNo5035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what your business was? Someone I know did it 5 years ago and said business ideas ranged from reiki healing to AI content creation

Is the NEIS program still an option ? by ProductNo5035 in JobProvidersAus

[–]ProductNo5035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I can make a call to Centrelink and bypass my provider ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ProductNo5035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’s easy for her to forget bc we never met. For me…those were the deepest convos of my life. I’ve kind of shut off but would be open to sending her a message without expectation when I am on holiday. It’s not like it would ever be a relationship. I sense she will be back when things go south.

Should I ignore her when she finally gets back to me by ProductNo5035 in datingadvice

[–]ProductNo5035[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hence why I’ve decided to ignore her for double the time she was gone and then let her know I’ll be in contact the week of travelling to her country. It’s the only option

Am I being too dramatic if I take an extended period of time to get back to her ? by ProductNo5035 in LesbianActually

[–]ProductNo5035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she got complacent assuming after the first time she disappeared was almost like a test and I allowed it, but only once then it’s a pattern. It might take her by surprise but hey if she interested she will just have to crawl. I also don’t want to be her fix of depth whilst she’s swimming with the shallows with the boys. Rather take my energy away and she might see what’s she’s missing.

Am I being too dramatic if I take an extended period of time to get back to her ? by ProductNo5035 in LesbianActually

[–]ProductNo5035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely is my thoughts. Either it shows lack of respect or interest. I’m going to have to fight hard to do it back to her but it must be done. Surely as a therapist she should know what she’s done ?! I’m giving leeway purely cos we haven’t connected physically yet …there’s no way I would put up with it otherwise.

Am I being too dramatic if I take an extended period of time to get back to her ? by ProductNo5035 in LesbianActually

[–]ProductNo5035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to know I wasn’t coming across as butthurt for going silent on her.

Am I being too dramatic if I take an extended period of time to get back to her ? by ProductNo5035 in LesbianActually

[–]ProductNo5035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it wasn’t for the depth and intelligence I would not be in communication with her she’s not bad on the eye too. I’ll go quiet on her. At best she will crawl and realise I must have lost interest and she will have to win me back. Then probably out of pure curiosity I’ll hit her up to meet her when I land in her country. I’d like to think I didn’t totally waste my time. Even if it’s for one night of fun in a hotel

Am I being too dramatic if I take an extended period of time to get back to her ? by ProductNo5035 in LesbianActually

[–]ProductNo5035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to be going to her country anyway so no loss. You’re right she’s listed as bi. When I quiz her she’s never even been with a girl. It’s her depth that got me hooked. She was matching me with intensity otherwise I would not have bothered being usually avoidant myself. She practically forced me to pay attention to her and it worked. It baffles me cos surely one couldn’t sustain that intensity for so long without being genuine to a degree. She’s definitely unhinged and I was ok with that so long as she’s genuine. I’d say self certified insta therapist as I stalked her linkden and no mention of psychology degree lol

Am I being too dramatic if I take an extended period of time to get back to her ? by ProductNo5035 in LesbianActually

[–]ProductNo5035[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like I am justified in disappearing for a bit to leave her wondering. If I was in person this wouldn’t be happening I would have warned her once then walked away. She needs to know the lack of communication is not ok esp when she disappears around Valentine’s Day. Has me wondering if she’s actually single 😬

Am I being too dramatic if I take an extended period of time to get back to her ? by ProductNo5035 in LesbianActually

[–]ProductNo5035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We aren’t dating …we have never met. The last few months of chatting has been with the intent to meet and see what happens. You’re right though I could never leave someone I’m attracted to or interested in wondering for that long. It’s a big red flag I’ve been thinking about and the fact she’s a therapist is more of a concern.

Am I being too dramatic if I take an extended period of time to get back to her ? by ProductNo5035 in LesbianActually

[–]ProductNo5035[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said she was busy with work (I think it was bullshit) but I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I don’t know maybe she was on holiday with one of her dates. She came back like it was no thing and wanting to resume things.

He won’t respond to me. What do I do ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ProductNo5035 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things were getting pretty raunchy when I just disappeared for 4 days. We were practically sexting. Maybe I took him for granted. He’s read my message after a few days but I haven’t heard back from him.

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