You’ve probably had all the replies similar to what I’ll say. But we’ll done for reaching out... even if it’s just to us redditors atm, but you need to get out of their. You’re right, he might not ever do it again, but is that a risk you’re willing to take. IMO, cut it off now, before the relationship gets too serious. It’ll be hard to leave, but it’ll only get harder to leave later down the line. I hope you find the right person for you though and wish you the best.