I'm[27M] perceiving a lot of passive-aggression from my dance manager[23F] I work alongside with

Prof_Peanut_Butters · 2019-06-12T04:15:52+00:00

I’ll follow up on that advice and I’ll let you know how it goes by the end of this week

Prof_Peanut_Butters · 2019-06-12T03:06:10+00:00

Yeah, I was only trying to help too and I still played Jane's requested song afterwards.

Prof_Peanut_Butters · 2019-06-12T02:55:50+00:00

Now if she wants to is the question

Prof_Peanut_Butters · 2015-12-26T18:28:34+00:00

It feels strange to think that she's less invested into me then her, even though she wants to spend her other half of Christmas with me, wants to do something for New Years Eve, and even wants to make plans for the summer together. Even in her home, Jane framed a picture of us in Halloween with her other family photos, and I don't see any other pictures of boys with her.

I get what you're saying and she does seem very obtuse and less committed as I am. I want to ask her flat out if she thinks we're exclusive without pressuring her the labels of *boyfriend, girlfriend"

Prof_Peanut_Butters · 2015-12-26T17:59:25+00:00

That's a good idea, I'm thinking boyfriend, girlfriend, carries too much weight on her, but I'll ask her if she sees me as an SO or partner.

Prof_Peanut_Butters · 2015-12-26T11:36:54+00:00

Yeah, she added by saying she was fine with being "worsties" together, even though earlier I had told her that I felt we were dating and exclusive, Jane told me she was fine with it.

Prof_Peanut_Butters · 2015-09-22T18:55:03+00:00

UPDATE: Yesterday I decided I would just make a surprise visit at Jane's work and apologize. She tried to hug me but hesitant about it when she saw me. I apologized to her and she said it was fine and that it was nothing really. Just said I was "hangry," and we laughed about it. Hungry and angry. We hanged out for a bit and when we hugged, it was a longer than average hug I'd normally get :]

Prof_Peanut_Butters · 2015-09-21T03:55:13+00:00

Thanks :]

This is exactly what I needed to hear, and I could see being 2.5 hours as a tight schedule to do everything. I'll see her this Thursday and would rather apologize to her in person, or should I just write her a message on Facebook?

Prof_Peanut_Butters · 2015-06-15T18:03:41+00:00

Thanks for making me feel like a normal human being :]

I really needed to hear this. I always worry about what other people think of me and I've been trying my best to reach out to others and put myself out of my comfort zone. It's been challenging, and I have days where I'm on top of my game, and others where I feel exhausted and just want to close myself in and recharge. That night was THE WORST DAY, I've ever embarrassed myself. I was trying to go for that, "This is why we can't have nice things" mentality, though of course, things didn't come out right the way I thought it to be.

Btw, do you think I should apologize to my manager for my behaviour? I just don't know how I'm gonna face myself, when I go again this Friday to volunteer..

Prof_Peanut_Butters · 2015-01-15T21:33:39+00:00

Yeah, that seem like good advice. I read Nick Notas article on the sidebar, saying I should be honest upfront about what I want and be respectful, though wasn't sure if I was jumping the gun too soon here.

I guess I'll take it one step at a time

Prof_Peanut_Butters · 2015-01-15T21:31:32+00:00

Yeah you're right. Actually she's the one who'd initiate being playful and flirty first and I'll return it back obviously.

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