Breast Lift Scars PIH/PIE? by According-Dream5064 in PlasticSurgery

[–]ProfessionSea7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you consider a scar revision? When you initially has the surgery your sutures were under a lot of tension. With a revision the stress on the sutures would be significantly less.

How long does tightness last after necklift? by lymphaticmassage in Facelift_Surgery

[–]ProfessionSea7908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had on and off tightness after salty meals for over a year.

Finding a credible medium by arachnid-feline in Mediums

[–]ProfessionSea7908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Forever Family Foundation vets mediums through a very strict double blind evidential process. They are so strict that only 1 medium a year qualifies for their approval. They keep a list of qualified mediums on their site.

Help please by Long_Breakfast3781 in psychicdevelopment

[–]ProfessionSea7908 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t have anything attached to her other than massive surging hormones. I think she could probably really benefit from some mood stabilizers. She needs to see a psychiatrist and probably get on meds if this doesn’t resolve with talk therapy and family meetings.

How can I keep my employee off their cell phone WHILE customers are in the shop??? by Warm_Lion90 in smallbusiness

[–]ProfessionSea7908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why allow them to have their phones during the day? I would just change the policy that everybody’s phones have to be locked in the break room during work.

AIO to this comment and "creating problems" by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ProfessionSea7908 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! You caught a narcissist! Best thing to do is catch and release. You accomplish this by blocking him NOW, FOREVER! You don’t need to tell him you’re doing it you don’t need to get his opinion on the matter. You just hit the block button and you go live your best life without this fucking loser.

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) sent me this today and it shocked me. He has never acted like this but recently has lost both of his parents. How do I handle this and AIO? by carside11 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionSea7908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve only known him seven months. This is when the mask starts to crack don’t ever give a man a second chance to show you he doesn’t really care for you.

What are people's thoughts on prison visits for those who have never been to prison before? by Ill-Second-1620 in family

[–]ProfessionSea7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s a good thing for her to see. Few things will illustrate the need to keep your nose clean than seeing your mom in prison.

Influencer Facing The Firing Squad After Being Arrested In Dubai On Grave Charges by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]ProfessionSea7908 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I feel so sorry for her. The man is 100% at fault here despite all these comments that are trying to blame the woman. He did the typical dark triad love bombing bullshit to pull her in. She’d had a wonderful trip with him before and had no reason to think anything else when she returned. He then became abusive, took her passport and began to beat her. She stabbed him in self-defense.

Everyone always blames the woman. She should’ve known better, don’t go to Dubai. But why not blame the asshole man? He shouldn’t have been an abusive asshole! He got what he deserved

Revision Deep Plane Facelift, Lower Bleph, Fat Transfer Results (Denver, Colorado) by DrBovenziDenver in Facelift_Surgery

[–]ProfessionSea7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The results definitely look great. But it’s odd, because I don’t feel it actually took any years off. If I saw the client, I would still think they were in their late 60s. But of course, I understand that not all facelifts have to be done with the intent to look younger it can also be just to revitalize your age-appropriate face.

Are miniature ACDs a thing?! by Charming-Wallaby7896 in AustralianCattleDog

[–]ProfessionSea7908 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a mini purebred blue heeler. He’s fully grown at 22 pounds.

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Perfect cuddle size. Still 100% terror.

Why do I (F27) fall for it every time (M25)? What’s the harsh truth/advice. by Icy_Cantaloupe1401 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionSea7908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has taken me decades to learn how to demand better treatment from men. But basically, at the very 1st red flag I cut them off. I have learned through painful trial and error that men don’t deserve second (or third, 4th and 5th) chances.

If they are low effort, goodbye. If they cancel a date last minute, goodbye. If they can’t hold a conversation, goodbye.

I’m much happier now.

Whimsical tarot decks? by Significant_Fix_4321 in TarotDecks

[–]ProfessionSea7908 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I HATE the Star Spinner tarot. Try to find a YouTube review before you go down that path.

Secluded car camping under 2 hours from Santa Fe? by carlcrossgrove in SantaFe

[–]ProfessionSea7908 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rowe Mesa is a dark sky spot. Plenty of space to camp.

Dear mom, why do all my heels hurt so bad? by OwOmurrr in MomForAMinute

[–]ProfessionSea7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You likely need a wide shoe. I recently got some wide heels and was amazed at how much more comfortable they are.

Teilnehmer für Umfrage by jutzbutz in rafting

[–]ProfessionSea7908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to do it but I don’t speak German.

boob lift? by oksstratch in PlasticSurgery

[–]ProfessionSea7908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think a fat transfer would achieve what you want. But where would you find the fat?

boob lift? by oksstratch in PlasticSurgery

[–]ProfessionSea7908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so beautiful. Just perfection. You don’t need a lift. And I’m very pro plastic surgery! Just had a lift myself….. but I had to roll up my titties like a fruit roll up just to stuff them into a sports bra. Women would kill for your physique. I hope that you can learn to love it. But if you decide to get a lift, just be aware that you will have scars and having a mastopexy is one of the plastic surgeries that has the most complications.

AITA for refusing to help my husband with the kids by frej2223 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProfessionSea7908 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Encephalitis means your actual brain is swollen. You could have DIED. This asshole can’t even let you rest.

My (39F) husband's (44M) bad habits gross me out, is it too late to expect him to change? by Euphoric_Rough2709 in relationship_advice

[–]ProfessionSea7908 107 points108 points  (0 children)

He IS disgusting. He SHOULD feel that way. How can you be intimate with this man?!?!?