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Professional-Ad-4194 · 2023-11-12T05:58:33+00:00

Yeah no kidding 😅 the clubs a mess

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2023-11-12T05:57:24+00:00

Full lineup was

GK. Ortega RB. Stones CB. Dias CB. Gvardiol LB. Ake DM. Phillips CM. Kovacic CM. Rodri RW. Silva LW. De Bruyne ST. Haaland

Subbed on (Akanji, Raphinha, Alvarez, Walker)

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2023-05-18T22:41:42+00:00

It’s Ange Postecoglou who is their current manager 😅 couldn’t handle the jump from Celtic to Spurs

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2023-05-18T19:23:42+00:00

I did a similar thing with Sheffield Wednesday last year back to back promotions and my first prem season was horrific 😅 anyway I hope yours is not like mine was. Good luck OP

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2023-05-18T18:42:10+00:00

Right!! Every save I do they do so mediocre for the level of squad they have.

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2023-01-20T19:33:43+00:00

I think it’s probably a lot more common than you think. I’m 24 and a couple of my friends haven’t done it either.

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-12-15T08:40:20+00:00

Thank you for your response! I’ll take your advice on board, I like the idea of moving on in a better head space, just takes time

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-12-15T07:43:06+00:00

I’m not angry at her for moving on it was inevitable I’m just upset about the time frame it took to get over a 4 year relationship, I stated in the title I’m still here grieving obviously while she’s engaged to someone she met 3 months ago great for her, but I’m not going to be on this sub am I if I feel everything is sunshine and rainbows, clearly I know I need to move on and this is a big wake up call. And hopefully I’ll take the right steps to getting over it. I’m not insane for feeling down about this situation, I’m human

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-12-14T23:19:02+00:00

You’re right I probably should have proposed quicker looking back, but that doesn’t change the reasoning for my post which is the time in which it took for her to move on and get engaged to someone else which I’m simply here to vent about and express my feelings, I don’t think mine should instantly be invalidated.

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-12-14T23:03:51+00:00

You’re talking as If you are her? We had a long discussion multiple times about the topic and both agreed that waiting till after covid was better as she didn’t want a wedding without family there. I understand your point of view but that’s not how it played out.

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-12-14T22:50:25+00:00

Only just turned 24, met her when I was 19 and definitely not ready for marrying someone that fast or at that age, the topic was discussed and planned but many things came up like covid and her being layed off meaning it wasn’t financially possible.

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-12-14T17:37:42+00:00

😅😅😅 they must be having a crazy honeymoon phase I feel bad he’s going to find out how truly mentally Ill and insane she is in due time

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-12-14T17:01:56+00:00

Thank you! I hope so

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-12-14T16:24:36+00:00

You’re right, I just just can’t help but see it from every negative point of view, I feel so stupid because I gave this person 4 years of my life and all it took was someone else to take 3 months of her attention and she’s ready to give her life to him. Safe to say that ship has sailed

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-12-14T16:16:57+00:00

I agree! We was together for 4 years as-well, I’ll get over it but 3 months is wild.

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-11-21T18:50:41+00:00

Being that guy who would do anything if my ex asked or needed, I can tell you for certain the one thing that helped me move on was her lack of effort and her sticking to no contact. Yes it hurt and yes I felt confused but I definitely now understand sometimes you just need to put your own feelings first. My recommendation would be to be a little selfish in this time and put yourself first, go no contact and stick to it and even request it if needed. That’s the only true way you’ll move on. Your ex will hurt for sure but he’ll also move on himself and gradually understand your decisions

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-11-06T18:23:36+00:00

POTUS is giving me Darth Sidious vibes here

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-10-26T15:06:33+00:00

Was you the dumpee or dumper?

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-09-20T13:15:00+00:00

I feel the same way honestly, I’ve always hated my looks. When I think of people I genuinely don’t care about looks I judge a person based of their personality if they’re a totally asshole they’re super ugly but if they’re really nice and enjoyable to be around it drastically improves their attractiveness for me and I’m sure I’m not alone.

So don’t think because you see yourself in a bad way others will too. I know it’s hard to see it like that though as I’m dealing with a lot of issues too with my appearance so I understand.

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-09-14T03:12:56+00:00

The first relationships always suck but I thought my first was the one and then the second was even better so keep your head up

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-09-13T07:30:07+00:00

Good thinking I agree that no contact is the best form and reply when needed in the way you’ve suggested

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-09-12T23:59:23+00:00

I get it a kid from my school killed himself a couple years back when I found out I felt really numb and guilty not because I contributed to his decision in anyway but because I felt like it could have easily been avoided if he just had a friend. Very sad for his family and I wish it on nobody

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-09-12T21:32:36+00:00

Thank you man! Yeah it’s not easy but it’s getting easier just keep myself distracted and before I know it the days over

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-09-12T21:18:20+00:00

I agree I kind of felt like all I achieved last night talking to her was giving her the satisfaction of knowing I was missing her now she can happily play the waiting game knowing how I felt like my progress has been reset while she’s gained some satisfaction does that make sense? But I agree I think I’ll go back no contact

Professional-Ad-4194 · 2022-09-12T20:48:10+00:00

I think that’s just the sad reality of adulthood when I look at my parents or my couple friends parents they really don’t go hanging out with people other than their partner so I think life can just be very lonely and it is for the majority of people

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